KingSag
@KingSag
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Engaging a Leo Woman... Let it Flow or Let it Go?
A Leo woman has captivated my interest.
To make a long story short, we are great friends and she calls me Mr. Surprise because I always find ways to keep her on her toes. She'll respond in ways that are not just "friendly".
Examples:
- I drove her to a bridal shower & we made a wrong turn. I joked about her wanting to keep me longer than necessary. Her response was, "I can ride forever with you, baby".
- She was on the fence about visiting me for her birthday. I sent her a mixed bouquet of flowers and ironically, she instantly revealed plans to come visit....and invited me for the first time to hang with her circle. That night when we went out, I approached her for the last dance, she put her arms around my shoulders....and she never gave me that kinda eye contact, it was more of a mating ritual, & began grinding and moving her ass on me. >🙂
- Introduced me to her father & invited me to various events with her like housewarmings, dinner, and other stuff
- specifically stated that she doesn't hang with men on a regular basis because she is very meticulous when dating....but routinely makes time in her schedule for me
At this point, I felt like she was opening a courtship. The past weekend she came up for Homecoming weekend. I made sure all her expenses were covered from the round-trip train ticket to anything she needed but forgot from nearly missing her train that morning (undergarments, socks, toiletries, etc.). I also owed her a homecooked dinner from a bet I lost (she kicked my ass in pool)....so while she slept on my couch, I upper the ante and made it a candlelight dinner. She was surprised and blushing under the dim lights while raving over the meal and said "I should make you lose more often". When she fell asleep on the couch, I slept beside her on the floor. That next morning, she cooked breakfast and we went to church together.
It was a Damn good weekend. She asked me about my intentions & I already told her that I liked her at dinner....but I felt that I was beginning to feel her in a manner which was leaving the platonic area, so I told her.
Her initial response: "I'm not emotionally stable to handle someone's feelings".
Her follow up response once I asked for her intentions: "I'm engaging you in a friendship, where I'm comfortable at & don't ever see us going past that. I don't want to mislead you."
Her words/actions don't match but this is crazy. Now she's texting me for a response and saying "I think of you as a gr
To make a long story short, we are great friends and she calls me Mr. Surprise because I always find ways to keep her on her toes. She'll respond in ways that are not just "friendly".
Examples:
- I drove her to a bridal shower & we made a wrong turn. I joked about her wanting to keep me longer than necessary. Her response was, "I can ride forever with you, baby".
- She was on the fence about visiting me for her birthday. I sent her a mixed bouquet of flowers and ironically, she instantly revealed plans to come visit....and invited me for the first time to hang with her circle. That night when we went out, I approached her for the last dance, she put her arms around my shoulders....and she never gave me that kinda eye contact, it was more of a mating ritual, & began grinding and moving her ass on me. >🙂
- Introduced me to her father & invited me to various events with her like housewarmings, dinner, and other stuff
- specifically stated that she doesn't hang with men on a regular basis because she is very meticulous when dating....but routinely makes time in her schedule for me
At this point, I felt like she was opening a courtship. The past weekend she came up for Homecoming weekend. I made sure all her expenses were covered from the round-trip train ticket to anything she needed but forgot from nearly missing her train that morning (undergarments, socks, toiletries, etc.). I also owed her a homecooked dinner from a bet I lost (she kicked my ass in pool)....so while she slept on my couch, I upper the ante and made it a candlelight dinner. She was surprised and blushing under the dim lights while raving over the meal and said "I should make you lose more often". When she fell asleep on the couch, I slept beside her on the floor. That next morning, she cooked breakfast and we went to church together.
It was a Damn good weekend. She asked me about my intentions & I already told her that I liked her at dinner....but I felt that I was beginning to feel her in a manner which was leaving the platonic area, so I told her.
Her initial response: "I'm not emotionally stable to handle someone's feelings".
Her follow up response once I asked for her intentions: "I'm engaging you in a friendship, where I'm comfortable at & don't ever see us going past that. I don't want to mislead you."
Her words/actions don't match but this is crazy. Now she's texting me for a response and saying "I think of you as a gr
By the way....her birthday is August 18 and mine is December 16....if that helps...
Posted by KingSag
Her initial response: "I'm not emotionally stable to handle someone's feelings".
Her follow up response once I asked for her intentions: "I'm engaging you in a friendship, where I'm comfortable at & don't ever see us going past that. I don't want to mislead you."
Her words/actions don't match but this is crazy. Now she's texting me for a response & saying "I think of you as a great friend".
When someone shows you who they are believe them ~Maya Angelou
8/13 here dated a 12/17 ..He was too aggressive. He wanted to spend every single moment together. Calling constantly, all day. I was in the movies once and I came out and had 4 missed calls from him. I went off. Needless to say that was the beginning of the end.
Maybe you should pull back a little..you know pump the brakes. I know this is going to be difficult to understand but we need to be the aggressor at least in the beginning. It comes natural to us to hunt and chase. I think your gestures were very sweet and thoughtful now fall back and watch her work. You will be amazed.
Just because I want to know..how do you think you look? I mean do you think you are attractive. It doesnt matter if you are as long as you think you are. Confidence is King. There is something missing from this puzzle. Her hesitation is puzzling to me. What year was she born?
@ Nala
I feel I look Damn good and am back getting myself together in the gym. My style is basic and simple but I keep myself properly groomed.
She was born in 1989.
@ Jynja
I just read your recommended post. Never looked at it like that one bit and I'm not a punk. But I admit, she had my nose open because I've been off the scene for quite some time.
Her motto thus far.... "no sex without commitment". No easy task at ALL.
I feel I look Damn good and am back getting myself together in the gym. My style is basic and simple but I keep myself properly groomed.
She was born in 1989.
@ Jynja
I just read your recommended post. Never looked at it like that one bit and I'm not a punk. But I admit, she had my nose open because I've been off the scene for quite some time.
Her motto thus far.... "no sex without commitment". No easy task at ALL.
@ Ninja
I go for what I want with no fear or regrets..... I ain't know what I was up against before I even invested time in getting to know her. BUT....I won't go harder at her until she initiates. Crazy, not stupid.
@ Jynja
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Leo 25.41
Moon Pisces 16.30
Mercury Virgo 20.46
Venus Libra 0.42
Mars Virgo 9.33
Jupiter Cancer 3.36
Saturn Capricorn 7.45 R
Uranus Capricorn 1.32 R
Neptune Capricorn 9.55 R
Pluto Scorpio 12.35
Lilith Libra 21.23
Asc node Aquarius 25.42
I go for what I want with no fear or regrets..... I ain't know what I was up against before I even invested time in getting to know her. BUT....I won't go harder at her until she initiates. Crazy, not stupid.
@ Jynja
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Leo 25.41
Moon Pisces 16.30
Mercury Virgo 20.46
Venus Libra 0.42
Mars Virgo 9.33
Jupiter Cancer 3.36
Saturn Capricorn 7.45 R
Uranus Capricorn 1.32 R
Neptune Capricorn 9.55 R
Pluto Scorpio 12.35
Lilith Libra 21.23
Asc node Aquarius 25.42
That's a cute chart. You're dating me... Sun in Leo, water moon, Virgo Merc, Mars in an Earth sign. 2 Libra placements. Yup it's me. Nice to meet you.
They say Sags and us go well together. I don't know for sure.
So here goes...I will help as best as I can.
I like men who pay me the least amount of attention-Leo
I like men who are are well dressed-Leo
I like very smart men, nerds even-Virgo
My likes change daily-Libra placements
I am slow to do anything-Mars in Taurus/Earth
Now this is a dangerous game we play here but if you want her and I mean really want her. She needs to think there is competition somewhere. You are doing all the right things so far. Just casually mention that a friend invited you to her church and you hope they don't ask visitors to stand or your co-worker wants to go to this new restaurant but you don't like Chinese and you don't want to hurt her feelings. She will see you in a whole new light.
I know game playing is juvenile but all is fair in love and war.
They say Sags and us go well together. I don't know for sure.
So here goes...I will help as best as I can.
I like men who pay me the least amount of attention-Leo
I like men who are are well dressed-Leo
I like very smart men, nerds even-Virgo
My likes change daily-Libra placements
I am slow to do anything-Mars in Taurus/Earth
Now this is a dangerous game we play here but if you want her and I mean really want her. She needs to think there is competition somewhere. You are doing all the right things so far. Just casually mention that a friend invited you to her church and you hope they don't ask visitors to stand or your co-worker wants to go to this new restaurant but you don't like Chinese and you don't want to hurt her feelings. She will see you in a whole new light.
I know game playing is juvenile but all is fair in love and war.
@ Nala & Jynja
....if I even go for round II, looks like I got my work cut out for me.
I don't know how all Sag men are supposed to be, but I'm a prideful man....so I'll deliberate on it.
....if I even go for round II, looks like I got my work cut out for me.
I don't know how all Sag men are supposed to be, but I'm a prideful man....so I'll deliberate on it.
Damn Jynja.....that's how you get down? LOL
Leo women are a trip.
Leo women are a trip.
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Examples:
- I drove her to a bridal shower & we made a wrong turn. I joked about her wanting to keep me longer than necessary. Her response was, "I can ride forever with you, baby".
- She was on the fence about visiting me for her birthday. I sent her a mixed bouquet of flowers and ironically, she instantly revealed plans to come visit....and invited me for the first time to hang with her circle. That night when we went out, I approached her for the last dance, she put her arms around my shoulders....and she never gave me that kinda eye contact, it was more of a mating ritual, & began grinding her ass on me. >🙂
- Introduced me to her father & invited me to various events with her like housewarmings, dinner, & other stuff
- specifically stated that she doesn't hang with men on a regular basis because she is very meticulous when dating....but routinely makes time in her schedule for me
At this point, I felt like she was opening a courtship. The past weekend she came up for Homecoming weekend. I made sure all her expenses were covered from the round-trip train ticket to anything she needed but forgot from nearly missing her train that morning (undergarments, socks, toiletries, etc.). I also owed her a homecooked dinner from a bet I lost (she kicked my ass in pool)....so while she slept on my couch, I upper the ante and made it a candlelight dinner. She was surprised and blushing under the dim lights while raving over the meal & said "I should make you lose more often". When she fell asleep on the couch, I slept beside her on the floor. That next morning, she cooked breakfast and we went to church together.
It was a Damn good weekend. She asked me about my intentions & I already told her that I liked her at dinner....but I felt that I was beginning to feel her in a manner which was leaving the platonic area, so I told her.
Her initial response: "I'm not emotionally stable to handle someone's feelings".
Her follow up response once I asked for her intentions: "I'm engaging you in a friendship, where I'm comfortable at & don't ever see us going past that. I don't want to mislead you."
Her words/actions don't match but this is crazy. Now she's texting me for a response & saying "I think of you as a great friend".