Help me please! Am I over reacting?!? :*(

Hello all,

So, I am hopelessly in love with a leo whom I am in a long distance relationship with.
He has been hot and cold before, but after I expressed to him that i felt neglected, the communication have improved so I thought everything thing is merry and rosy.

Until recently, about 2 weeks ago, the communication have gone down again... I saw him on skype but he said he is busy talking with his brother because he has to do something for his family and will talk with me later. He didn't get in contact... He doesn't write, its like he doesn't care much about being in contact with me. After 4 days of no communication, I wrote him a short email asking if everything was ok since he has been quiet. He wrote back 3 days later (yesterday) to explain that he has been very busy at work and have been working over time, but he misses me and thinks about me. At night, I saw him log on to skype after 1am... I sent him some messages... No reply... I called him via skype, no answer... he came on to gmail chat to tell me he is on skype with his brother again and will chat with me later. I said ok and waited.. but he logged off skype without saying a word.

Though out those 2 weeks, he changed his skype photo multiple times.. face shots at first then very attractive topless pics of him... (he did muscle building back in school, modelled a little and is very proud to flaunt his body). I find it VERY hard to believe that he was skyping with his brother!!!

I typed out an email expressing how I feel like he is betraying my trust and taking advantage of my patience, how I have doubts in his faithfulness and question his feelings towards me. (PM me if you want to see the body of the email...) I didn't send it though... I am afraid to send it... what if he was really talking to his brother, what if I am really just thinking too much, letting my sceptical jealous scorpio nature take over?
He told me repeatedly before that he is a one woman kinda man. He would never cheat, he would rather break up than to cheat. And if he ever have issues or need to leave, he would tell me and not leave me hanging. The fact he hasn't said anything, it is what I am falling back on now... to still think that and have faith that he may still like me... Or, maybe I am just TOTALLY being played right now!

I am a hopeless case...

Please help!!! I don't know what to do! Its killing me and eating me up alive!!! :*(

oh sweetheart, this is the thing with leo's, when we are into you, we are into you, you will know it and we can't help it. He is not that into you (anymore), because if he was he wouldn't be able to stop himself from communicating with you. I personally, as a leo, could not do long distance relationships, I NEED (like breathing) to have physical contact with my person, if it is not available, and as much as I might hurt and try to keep the communication going, it just won't work in the long run and eventually I would lose the connection with that person.

As a leo also, I abhor hurting people, so will do anything to not do that, including avoiding the final confrontation until it becomes absolutely necessary and is almost spontaenous, but that could mean that I am hurting them anyway.

Should I send that email?... Or it isn't necessary anymore since its probably all over...?
Or, should I wait it out....?

nah don't send the email. just do nothing. if he wants you, he'll make it known. i don't know any leos who are involved in ldr's....doesn't seem to suit their needs like CL says.

i don't understand how you can be talking on skype and unable to respond to IM's though. why did he go on google chat to tell you he was on skype with his 'brother', lol!! the pics are giving a very clear indication that he's lying to you imo.

DON'T SEND THE EMAIL!!!! please?

^^^^LMAO!!!! naughty, naughty jynja 😉

I did not send the email... and will not send it...

So what now, go on about my way as if nothing happened?
No more writing him until he writes me some day?

Posted by Jynja
LOL She'll likely write back anyway. 😛

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/are-leo-men-emotionally-fickle-3267821/?p=2

Exactly my first thought seeing this.

There must be some type of masochism for the drama and heartache.. right? 😛

Posted by 321654
I did not send the email... and will not send it...

So what now, go on about my way as if nothing happened?
No more writing him until he writes me some day?

yep. that's about the size of it. if he's really into you then it will spur him into making contact with you but you have to remove the expectation of that happening otherwise you'll make yourself craaaaazy.

you have to have more of a 'fuck you' attitude. start putting yourself first 🙂

Posted by WoundedLeo

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s


you have to have more of a 'fuck you' attitude. start putting yourself first 🙂

God, I wish I had some of that attitude! It would help me so much in life.

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that sounds weird coming from a leo!!!

Oh no WL, your bowels and urinary retention are intact, I hope 😉

may i suggest wussyleo?

Posted by seraph

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
may i suggest wussyleo?

I'd probably go with "WoundedLeo", because it's honest, and without any agenda behind it. It stands for beauty and the sort of kindness that is uncommon around dxp. And that also, is what it means to be a Leo.

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ooooOOOOOOOooooo don't get your knickers in a knot there seraph!!!

my username stands for a stiffened corpse which is NOT uncommon around dxp.....get me? 😛