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Is Leo interested?
Well Im not really sure at this moment what I want from him. But at my age I'm not looking for just a "fling". But...I won't opt that out if that's the case. Will probably think about it for a while before I actually do anything. Just trying to read him or make sure it's just not me thinking he is into me when it's purely just flirting and nothing more.
I have a ton of Leos around me but I have never actually dated one yet.
I have a ton of Leos around me but I have never actually dated one yet.
Let's see.
Sagittarius I got rid of. He was still hung up on his ex girlfriend and I just wasn't having that. He compared me to her a lot and I felt it wasn't fair to me or that I should have to listen to it. Was also probably the dumbest guy I have ever ran into. There were a lot of things I wasn't willing to put up with. Too many deal breakers so I got rid of him.
Scorpio? I don't think there was any that has recently been around me. As much as Id like to meet one it's not happening lately.
There was another Leo I was complaining about with a Cancer moon. VERY, VERY clingy. But that's a different guy from this one. I avoid him at all cost because he smothers me beyond belief. His Cancer moon is way too much for me. I like to be smothered in a different way, Scorpio style . It's different believe me. But this guy no thank you. We were friends a while back and he did some shady things I wasn't ok with. I warned him and he continued to do it. Now hes back trying to smother the shit out of me and make up for his mistakes. Nope. You had your chances.
This Leo the one I made the post about. His sun/mercury/venus are all in Leo and moon in Virgo, Mars in Gemini. Really interesting mix.
My favorite signs would have to be: Aries, Leo, Scorpio
Still havent been in a serious relationship with a Leo yet. Even though they are always around me. Id really like to get with any of those signs who are evolved.
Sagittarius I got rid of. He was still hung up on his ex girlfriend and I just wasn't having that. He compared me to her a lot and I felt it wasn't fair to me or that I should have to listen to it. Was also probably the dumbest guy I have ever ran into. There were a lot of things I wasn't willing to put up with. Too many deal breakers so I got rid of him.
Scorpio? I don't think there was any that has recently been around me. As much as Id like to meet one it's not happening lately.
There was another Leo I was complaining about with a Cancer moon. VERY, VERY clingy. But that's a different guy from this one. I avoid him at all cost because he smothers me beyond belief. His Cancer moon is way too much for me. I like to be smothered in a different way, Scorpio style . It's different believe me. But this guy no thank you. We were friends a while back and he did some shady things I wasn't ok with. I warned him and he continued to do it. Now hes back trying to smother the shit out of me and make up for his mistakes. Nope. You had your chances.
This Leo the one I made the post about. His sun/mercury/venus are all in Leo and moon in Virgo, Mars in Gemini. Really interesting mix.
My favorite signs would have to be: Aries, Leo, Scorpio
Still havent been in a serious relationship with a Leo yet. Even though they are always around me. Id really like to get with any of those signs who are evolved.
My Jupiter is in Leo and Pluto in Libra. Yeah I know right the whole settle down thing. It's definitely looming. So why is it we need to look at our Jupiter? His Jupiter is in Virgo.
And about the dumb Sagittarius men. Omg totally true. Ive only talked to two of them and both of them were way off the map with their intelligence. I couldn't stand it. I get that other people are at different levels of intelligence and common sense but this guy was like dealing with a complete airhead. He was a programmer too that is what I couldn't understand. Ok you code all day but you have nothing else going on in your head. I think he got that job by kissing peoples asses. Not because hes ACTUALLY smart.
Wasn't going to make a move anyways on my part. If he's interested great. But I am definitely not going to chase after him. So far we've been chatting a little here and there. Nothing big. At least he apologized to me today for abruptly leaving when we were talking. Wondering if he was waiting on me. Because this morning I had my messenger on "busy" mostly because im in an awful mood. As soon as I put it on available he sent me a message apologizing. I thought that was nice seeing that most guys wouldn't have noticed.
Seraph - That's what im doing. Im not asking for anything from him or asking for a relationship. Just trying to get a feel for what is going on. Nothing more. Me misinterpreting is why I asked the question in the first place. I've already said "F it" in my mind. It it what it is. Shouldn't really look into it more than it is.
Seraph - That's what im doing. Im not asking for anything from him or asking for a relationship. Just trying to get a feel for what is going on. Nothing more. Me misinterpreting is why I asked the question in the first place. I've already said "F it" in my mind. It it what it is. Shouldn't really look into it more than it is.
Well, I may be in the minority here but I think you should say something. Since he is leaving soon, time is a concern. What is there to lose? Go for broke. It's not like you will have to see him everyday.
Rock his young world and then leave him alone. Just have a good time you wouldn't want him as your boyfriend.
A young Leo male on a college campus with a an attitude and a girlfriend miles away....He would be like a fat kid in a donut shop !
I suspect that he will feel like he has something to prove because you are an older woman (our egos are forces of nature) and therefore, GO ALL OUT. Girl you might fall in love !
Rock his young world and then leave him alone. Just have a good time you wouldn't want him as your boyfriend.
A young Leo male on a college campus with a an attitude and a girlfriend miles away....He would be like a fat kid in a donut shop !
I suspect that he will feel like he has something to prove because you are an older woman (our egos are forces of nature) and therefore, GO ALL OUT. Girl you might fall in love !
Posted by seraphPosted by Nala13
Well, I may be in the minority here but I think you should say something. Since he is leaving soon, time is a concern. What is there to lose? Go for broke. It's not like you will have to see him everyday.
Rock his young world and then leave him alone. Just have a good time you wouldn't want him as your boyfriend.
A young Leo male on a college campus with a an attitude and a girlfriend miles away....He would be like a fat kid in a donut shop !
I suspect that he will feel like he has something to prove because you are an older woman (our egos are forces of nature) and therefore, GO ALL OUT. Girl you might fall in love !
You know what, provided emotions and expectations are kept in check (not always easy), this just might work.click to expand
In this scenario, it seems highly 'under check'.
You know...I've been thinking about this whole thing and I just don't really care. Pretty jaded at this point so I'm not going to do a damn thing about it. It's strange like one second hes like all in my business and the next he's not. I don't have time for this shit. Either you do or you don't. Im going to start ignoring him. He's too young anyways.
Posted by Xin
You know...I've been thinking about this whole thing and I just don't really care. Pretty jaded at this point so I'm not going to do a damn thing about it. It's strange like one second hes like all in my business and the next he's not. I don't have time for this shit. Either you do or you don't. Im going to start ignoring him. He's too young anyways.
Punch line well put: * He is either ALL in one's business or NOTHING. *
Jaded is a good pill.
He will come around. He likes the familiar.
So. Im not sure if it's ok for me to be a little irritated but I just found out that one of the girls I work with went to lunch with him. She does go around the office asking most of the guys if they want to go to lunch.
She is an Aries but close to Pisces (3/25). Anyways I guess he went with her and that made me kind of pissed off. My Leo pal came over and told me and I guess I was louder than usual cause my eyes got all big and I was like WHAT!?!?! Now I just want to march over there and be like yeah so you just flirt with everyone huh? Just going to go out with the biggest cray in the office right? This girl really is cray she's angry all the time, and just a giant complainer.
She's older than I am maybe like 37? And she's hitting on my crush! Now I am all chomping at the bit to find out what happened. She's also notorious for having co worker crushes but I want to be like WHY DID YOU GO WITH HER! Yeah but ohhhhh no can't talk to me has to go to lunch with her. Yeah now im all mad at him. I won't look at him or talk to him now. Kinda pissed.
I mean it's no mystery I flirt back and we chat sometimes but that is like testing me. Im going to get a very bad taste in my mouth with Leos if he continues to play like OH GEE I can just flirt with every single girl. Nope. Not me. If I find out a guy is doing that regardless with all the ladies Ill stop talking to him. I do NOT like to be made into his groupie or something. There is one and thats me.
She is an Aries but close to Pisces (3/25). Anyways I guess he went with her and that made me kind of pissed off. My Leo pal came over and told me and I guess I was louder than usual cause my eyes got all big and I was like WHAT!?!?! Now I just want to march over there and be like yeah so you just flirt with everyone huh? Just going to go out with the biggest cray in the office right? This girl really is cray she's angry all the time, and just a giant complainer.
She's older than I am maybe like 37? And she's hitting on my crush! Now I am all chomping at the bit to find out what happened. She's also notorious for having co worker crushes but I want to be like WHY DID YOU GO WITH HER! Yeah but ohhhhh no can't talk to me has to go to lunch with her. Yeah now im all mad at him. I won't look at him or talk to him now. Kinda pissed.
I mean it's no mystery I flirt back and we chat sometimes but that is like testing me. Im going to get a very bad taste in my mouth with Leos if he continues to play like OH GEE I can just flirt with every single girl. Nope. Not me. If I find out a guy is doing that regardless with all the ladies Ill stop talking to him. I do NOT like to be made into his groupie or something. There is one and thats me.
Um what?! Im being serious.
I didn't literally say that but I was definitely thinking it.
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There is this intern that works here at my office and he's a Leo. Yes he's younger than I am but that's a normality for me. Lately he's been nosing around in my business. IE: The other day I was having a conversation with the receptionist who is also a Leo and we were discussing some drama that happened with a client. He was at the printer and literally leaves it to come over and stare directly at me and join in the conversation. I told him he was nosy and to mind his business while laughing. So I went inside the receptionists room and closed the door. He had the gall to open it and stand there inviting himself into her office. I just laughed. Since then we have flirted a little. Id come by and talk to him and vice versa. He followed me later that week to ask me about where I was from and nose around in my business again.
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Not sure what I should do at this point. But Im trying to NOT make it obvious that I like him. What do you Leos think? Hes actually here only until August since he is an intern and goes back to college a few hours south of here. Kind of at a loss how I should approach it. Or even if I should seeing he's young. But UHHHH hes so friggin' good looking. HALP! LOL!
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