Leo friend

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There was one time my leo ex (boyfriend at the time) and I got into an argument, he drove 2 1/2 hrs at 4 am to my dorms, basically snuck onto the property and tried to open my window (im laughing while typing this) I did think "omg, this is how horror movies start" but he did that atleast 2-3 times in our relationship, he wasnt physically violent but that did make me go hmmmm wth, idk if youre being hopelessly romantic or a psycho

Awww to me that would be so romatic the argument must have really got to him lol
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What are some reasons why a leo man would drive 4-6 hours to come see you other then they like you.. because he claims that he doesnt like you?

I would say sex yes but leo said if he wanted sex it would have happened before I move away and he said its because I told him I wanted to keep in touch which is true but that still doesnt explain why.
Don't ask him what he likes. He's not going to tell you until he's ready to tell you. But yes he likes you and you know this and he knows this but you can't make this Leo man look soft right now. He's not ready.
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Yea I get it, but this is not the first time I have asked him this and I thought finally since he was trying to keep contact enough to come 6hrs to see me obv he likes me but nope he says he doesnt. So we got in an argument and I told him to stop leading me on and to treat me like a reg friend (we have never really been just friends hes always flirting with me and we can feel the sparks between us) hes known I have liked him for a year now so at this point its tell me you like me or just keep it friends. He told me last night hes not gonna come and see me anymore so I guess hes mad lol.
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What are some reasons why a leo man would drive 4-6 hours to come see you other then they like you.. because he claims that he doesnt like you?

I would say sex yes but leo said if he wanted sex it would have happened before I move away and he said its because I told him I wanted to keep in touch which is true but that still doesnt explain why.
If he's driving four to six hours to see you, he likes you. Period.
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According to him he doesnt, so now im just tired and im gonna let him live in lala land. I'm not getting lead on anymore.
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What are some reasons why a leo man would drive 4-6 hours to come see you other then they like you.. because he claims that he doesnt like you?

I would say sex yes but leo said if he wanted sex it would have happened before I move away and he said its because I told him I wanted to keep in touch which is true but that still doesnt explain why.
Don't ask him what he likes. He's not going to tell you until he's ready to tell you. But yes he likes you and you know this and he knows this but you can't make this Leo man look soft right now. He's not ready.
Yea I get it, but this is not the first time I have asked him this and I thought finally since he was trying to keep contact enough to come 6hrs to see me obv he likes me but nope he says he doesnt. So we got in an argument and I told him to stop leading me on and to treat me like a reg friend (we have never really been just friends hes always flirting with me and we can feel the sparks between us) hes known I have liked him for a year now so at this point its tell me you like me or just keep it friends. He told me last night hes not gonna come and see me anymore so I guess hes mad lol.
So are you trying to be in a relationship with him? It's best to start out as friends, you only do what you want to as a friend. It's that simple.
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I mean I have no idea, I think I would want to know if he does like me so I could see if the realtionship thing is even possible, but he just told me that he wants to go seperate ways and what I did was uncalled for. I told him if he doesnt like me and he is driving hours to come see me he only wants sex. So idk I guess our friendship is over I mean this has happened before but since hes saying it I do think its over lol. All I said was stop leading me on and lets start a new friendship one with no flirting or mixed signals and he said he was good after what happened soooo i guess thats it.
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I wouldnt mind dating but this leo has told me many time he doesnt like me he said he cares for me but thats all I have ever got out of him. For us to be dating he would have to say he likes because if not im not going to get me emotions involved. I thought he did like me after he said he would drive all those hours but he doesnt which got me mad that he is still leading me on. I have asked we just keep things friendly with no flirting but he cant be just friends. Now he rather us go our sepearate ways because i accused him of just wanting sex but tbh if he finds it so easy to throw our friendship away he must have never cared.
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Posted by Sagbaby100
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I wouldnt mind dating but this leo has told me many time he doesnt like me he said he cares for me but thats all I have ever got out of him. For us to be dating he would have to say he likes because if not im not going to get me emotions involved. I thought he did like me after he said he would drive all those hours but he doesnt which got me mad that he is still leading me on. I have asked we just keep things friendly with no flirting but he cant be just friends. Now he rather us go our sepearate ways because i accused him of just wanting sex but tbh if he finds it so easy to throw our friendship away he must have never cared.

If someone tells you who they are, believe them - Maya Angelou. I have driven four to six hours on the west coast to see someone because I liked the person and we were cool. The intimacy was amazing, but then I returned home and moved forward with someone else.

Why on earth would you choose to be intimate with a man who has told you repeatedly he doesn't like you like that? He knows what moves him, he wants you to be clear about his genuine emotions so you can make a mature decision. Most men are not this upfront; they lie and act as if they do like you in order to get the goods. This man has repeatedly told you he doesn't like you like that, and I think you should come out of denial and accept that he knows what he is feeling. But time will tell;