This Leo man.....supper happy but confused...

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Jaxz88 on Tuesday, May 24, 2016 and has 20 replies.

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@Jaxz88
10 Years

I'm a libra he's a Leo we are both 27 have been dating very happily for 3 months now.
He works away on week off on week on.
We are both totally into each other by our actions and have spoke about the future briefly...
Have meet each other's friends and have had a camping weekend away together and are planning another week away together in acouple of months...
Our sex life it absolutely amazing I haven't ever found someone that is socially equal , sexually equal and also we have so much in common with activities.
I haven't really worried what our status is as we are very happy, I trust him 100% but it's kinda getting to that awkward stage where people are asking what we are etc.....

So we got drunk the other night and I mentioned what was going through my head that it I don't expect an answer or to put pressure on us because I'm super happy but I did say its kinda getting awkward .....

and I guess felt like I could speak of the "elephant" in the room. He does cook me dinner surprises me with football tickets and I cook him Dinner we respect each other a lot.

He replies with I don't want to put a label on it because that's when he usually treetrunks things up...... He also said he he hasn't told his family about me because he doesn't want me to be just another girl to them I said I understand and we left it at that..

I was happy as I really didn't expect anything to come of it but we are both so open with each I felt like I could speak about it and it was ok...
I guess just still abit confused but super happy where we at I guess would like to talk to someone about it as I really like this guy!!! Thanks for reading

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@wagtail
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Hmmmmm I myself am a notoriously "Label shy" Leo...
It doesn't reflect my feelings about who I have relationships with- it's another thing entirely.
I think you guyths sound like you're travelling well.

If this issue has come up because OTHER people are asking for an explanation - my advice is IGNORE other people and stay focused on each other... Don't bow to pressure from the outside 🙂
Leo's resent interference from others as a matter of course- you're on his side and he has YOUR back- this equals: Fuck wut other people think.

I rarely introduce people who matter to family, just as an aside... at least not for a long time personally.

I aint playin' just keeping shiett Sacred and minimizing outside tampering.
For what ever reason, family and friends will almost always wanna give input but you never really know what the motivation is- so Leo's keep shiett locked down until they know err'body on the same page - without Leo having to pull strings.

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@Jaxz88
10 Years

Thanks a lot wagtail as you just confirmed my thoughts about his thinking process as i absolute respect his process as we are two individuals but really do feel like a team.
love where we are at right now and feel totally secure with him as we do not have alabel ....your right about other people as other poeple opinions don't matter it's how we feel and treat each other that really matters.
Thanks again

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@Jaxz88
10 Years

Just a libra guurl overthinking things as I'm totally aware of this habit so work on boost my free spirit side of things

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@wagtail
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by geegee
Posted by lovinglioness1115
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@wagtail Oh, really? You must know everything about me, then. 😛

have you ever been accused of cheating?

This is a really random question and I don't know what makes you want to ask me and @wagtail that, so I'm just not going to answer...


I'll take it as a yes. Venus in virgo
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Really? yeh no I've been cheated on a fair bit tho, and that's just dumb of meh...
But I haven't dated jealous or super jealous types anyway lol
My Cap ex had a Scorp moon which made him a little possessy but no issues otherwise.

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13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by geegee
Posted by wagtail
Posted by geegee
Posted by lovinglioness1115
Posted by geegee
Posted by lovinglioness1115
@wagtail Oh, really? You must know everything about me, then. 😛

have you ever been accused of cheating?

This is a really random question and I don't know what makes you want to ask me and @wagtail that, so I'm just not going to answer...


I'll take it as a yes. Venus in virgo

Really? yeh no I've been cheated on a fair bit tho, and that's just dumb of meh...
But I haven't dated jealous or super jealous types anyway lol
My Cap ex had a Scorp moon which made him a little possessy but no issues otherwise.


Oh OK that's cool 🙂 It's not uncommon for cap dudes to cheat tho.
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I know some painfully faithful Caps

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@wagtail
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by geegee
Posted by wagtail
Posted by geegee
Posted by wagtail
Posted by geegee
Posted by lovinglioness1115
Posted by geegee
Posted by lovinglioness1115
@wagtail Oh, really? You must know everything about me, then. 😛

have you ever been accused of cheating?

This is a really random question and I don't know what makes you want to ask me and @wagtail that, so I'm just not going to answer...


I'll take it as a yes. Venus in virgo

Really? yeh no I've been cheated on a fair bit tho, and that's just dumb of meh...
But I haven't dated jealous or super jealous types anyway lol
My Cap ex had a Scorp moon which made him a little possessy but no issues otherwise.


Oh OK that's cool 🙂 It's not uncommon for cap dudes to cheat tho.

I know some painfully faithful Caps


There's always an exception to the rule.
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Eggzactly