Hi guys, so this is my first post, but I've read on here for awhile. I'm an impatient Aries girl with Venus in Pisces who is into this guy, Leo, and he's got Venus in Virgo. We met over a year ago, and I threw out the first flirt. After the first time we hung out, I got flirtatious texts. So, being the ram girl I am asked him to hang out. This never happened, and since I had already offered and nothing happened I didn't really worry about it. A few months later the flirtatious texts returned out of the blue and then disappeared again. I ended up running into him casually and again I made an offer to hang out, again the offer went unanswered. So at this point in the story, I'm just thinking this kid likes the game of flirting but has no real desire to actually hang out. A few months later, flirty texts come back to my phone, and I'm kind of thinking its quite silly. A week later I see him again socially, and I don't really express any interest, so he asks me if I can hang out the next day, and since I'm over the indecisiveness, I politely declined. The flirty texts started all over again, and don't get me wrong, I enjoy every moment of it, but I also don't want to be a sucker. We were both going on trips (me vacation, him work), so I just laid it out and said make time for me when you get back and we can see where this goes. He said he would make that happen, and I think he means it. And that is where the conversation ended as I literally left the country. I think, if I knew him better, then there is potential for a fantastic relationship. There is some sort of spark/something/chemistry that I have a good feeling about. But as a Ram girl, I just want it all right now as soon as possible. I want to know if I am wasting my time. So here is my question, is this the "game"? Is this how it goes for Leo/Venus Virgo guys? Is he feeling me out? I feel like a year is long enough to make some kind of move. The texts are always classy flirting, nothing seedy. Lastly, because I am used to these long periods of us not texting, and it wasn't a big deal before. Should I wait to see if he really follows through when he gets back from this trip? Its been 5 weeks, I know he is still gone, but should I try and get some conversation going? Or just be like "Ball is in your court." and wait for him to step up. I think I've figured out these blocks of conversation seem to come when he is not away at work, and he is very career oriented. Any insight would be appreciated.
