Leo Jealousy

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LeoWithCap,

Yes, I can be jealous too. Too the point where I feel like I'm burning up inside and my stomach is all knotted. Not pretty.

You can't control your feelings but how you react to them is a different matter, I think. I would question the reason as to why he felt the need to tell me about it. If it is all about the "opening up" process, at least he isn't doing it to hurt you.

I'd be taking names and asking questions lol. You never know when your going to need that info.
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Capgirl,

It's always because I have feelings for someone. And yes, I do feel. For me, it also means insecurity in the sense that I may not be giving him what he needs and he could do better for himself. A horrifying thought. This crosses my mind too when it is in the gutter.

On the other hand, if someone goes out of their way to make me jealous and I catch on to this, it is a turn off. It has to be something real. I can't speak for the reason a Leo man would feel it. Or anyone else for that matter.
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Leo men and women are more similar than they are different. I have loved a Leo man or 2 in my day as well as having the experience of being a Leo. I believe that Leo's (in general) get jealous b/c when their mate's attention strays they get a feeling that they are not number 1 and this is not acceptable. I think that a Leo man's jealousy has more to do with ego than emotion. Not to say that they are cold, quite the opposite. A Leo man's love and feeling will be evident in his PRIDE for you/of you and how generous he is with you...not jealousy. Jealousy is a way of protecting his ego by peeing on your leg.
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It's not just a leo thing! I once asked my bf about past girls aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh boy did I regret it!! I acted cool... or you know, the type of cool where a person tries to stay calm but their eyeballs are about to burst out of their head!!!! Oh I'm feeling HOT all over again! He wasn't really interested in getting into it but I kept questioning (just casually at first) but all of a sudden I started spitting out 100 questions per second! So finally he was like, "Are you ok?" and started to deprive me of information I so much needed to find them and kill them!

LOL It was a long time ago... I think I feel better now 🙂

But I will tell you this brain doesn't forget ONE detail or possible 'useful' information muah ha ha hahaha! I ALWAYS know more about the people around me than they can even imagine I know 😉 If I haven't digged up years of info on my own, addresses, numbers, names, past issues etc. etc. somehow stuff just comes to me allllll the time which is really weird...? It's almost as if I'm asking in my mind and bam, the answer provided... all the time all the time...

one example was that one time me and a guy were driving home from a town 2 hrs. away... a car zoomed by that looked just like my ex's car and the last two numbers that I saw were the same on the license plates (we had started dating again so I wondered if that really was him and if he had seem me) I so badly wanted to find out that I had thought of calling him when I got to town... well when we arrived in town I took off and went to a restaurant that my ex always went to and what do I see? A car like my ex's, he pulled up next to me (after having followed me after seeing me at the stop sign! saying that I was pretty n what not- wasn't my ex) He asked for my number, whatever, anyway it was him who had driven past us a couple of hours before lol So the answer to my question was: NO that wasn't your ex TC lol I had figured out it was the same guy cuz I saw his license plates. Blah blah blah I've gotten great info. but although this event was useless, it was funny 🙂 Damn there I go buh bye!
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Lol yeah I noticed 😢

Oh yes I'd be glad to help but we'd have to keep it on the dl, don't like the ppl around me knowing about my unusual hobbies lol Oooh that would be so much fun!

Although I don't really stalk but I do keep binoculars in my car lol I've only stalked my bf once actually and ya I was wrong ha ha ha Ah he got boring, no weird doings lol I never ask without already having the answer or a good specific 'range' of possibilities... hmmmm there's a lot you can do without stalking ya know 😉 However, I don't really check up on him anymore since my trust has been gained now... I'd be psycho in being THAT obsessed... I'm happy with my notes 🙂 So he has been officially set free to roam about without my eye on him lol

But can you believe that this bitch called me yesterday telling me that she was his gIrLfRiEnD! Oh my freak! The stuff she told me! I didn't blame her either so I was pretty cool about it. At the moment I kinda believed it but I'm slow to react so I just told her that I wasn't interested in hearing any of it but to just meet and do something about it. I don't like talk talk talk I like the walk walk walk after I've heard enough useful info. the rest of her story was garbage. Well she supposedly had class so I told her I was busy and to call me back later (she didn't know that I had her number cuz my phone rang half a ring before she hung up and called me back 'restricted')

I went to his house and asked him about it... the reaction I expected '??' (confusion) whether it's true or not. I didn't say much, I just called her back and would you believe that she denied being who she had said she was! I'm not stupid and I recognize a voice I heard 10 minutes ago or 10 yrs. ago! I hung up and later called her back so I was like 'You called me 30 minutes ago' and she replied with 'Ummm my brother and a couple of other females were here' I hung up, load of bull since she was supposedly on break at school when she called.

Sucks cuz we got into an argument over it! And other issues came up about me supposedly not trusting him 😢 He got mad about something I did a while back, which ok, I'll grant him, may have been a lilllll' bit extreme but basically over the same thing. I'm sure it was his ex's doing! She admitted to wanting him back so yeah... no surprise there. So now the tables turned and while I'm laughing about it cuz it was so entertaining, he's butthurt... ay ay ay I tell ya. Oh but atleast now I have a new buddy to mess with ah ha ha ha she'll be hearing from me, that's for sure 😉

Hey Purrfect, what sign is your man?
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... don't like the ppl around me knowing about my unusual hobbies lol...

Huh? What hobbies? 😉



You know, funny thing about binoculars, lol. I usually take them with me when I travel. If I get bored in my hotel room I have a window, and others leave their curtains open. Yes, very bad. I'm sure I will catch hell for this one. But I am the reason people want their privacy lol

::i suck::


Question. How did that girl get your number?

My man is a scorpio. He also has a sag moon that won't let him sit still. You had posted something on the scorp board about keeping "potentials" around but I don't remember if you posted thoughts about it. I am interested in knowing how you feel about this. If it's ok



...there's a lot you can do without stalking ya know...

Ok, soon I am going to be full of questions that I don't want to post here lol!
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YOU ARE SO NOT 30! QUIT LYING!

"You know, funny thing about binoculars, lol. I usually take them with me when I travel. If I get bored in my hotel room I have a window, and others leave their curtains open. Yes, very bad. I'm sure I will catch hell for this one. But I am the reason people want their privacy lol ::i suck::"

.. Nope LOL you're hilarious! So you're a peeping tom ey? that's too funny lol

"Question. How did that girl get your number?"

.. Well I've got ads all over the place since I'm a realtor, so she either came across that or looked up my website. Not exactly private lol

"My man is a scorpio. He also has a sag moon that won't let him sit still. You had posted something on the scorp board about keeping "potentials" around but I don't remember if you posted thoughts about it. I am interested in knowing how you feel about this. If it's ok"

.. Hmmm hmmm hmmm why the question dear purrfect? 😉 Full of questions? Start asking! 😛
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...YOU ARE SO NOT 30! QUIT LYING!...

Ok. I am not going to pretend like I didn't like that. Thank you. Unless you meant I look older lol

So, you're a realtor? Very cool. You may know a few things about what I do then. I work with mortgages. Mainly with brand new loans.

As for the questions. Expect mail from me soon 🙂 I will explain my need to ask questions there.