Leo Ladies.....Do you do this?

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LadyLionness
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when you meet someone that you are so excited about. YOu see great potential. You start catching feelings. You are ready to be with this person. You see all great possibilities between the two of you. You know he is so into you. Then all of a sudden you want to pull back? Its like an amazing ability to put your feelings into a box until you are ready to take them back out again. MEanwhile, he is falling head over heels in love with you, but suddenly you have a new perspective? Not that you dont still want him, but you feel like...hmmmm, its not necessary to be in love? ( something like that) I have met someone great. I think he will be my husband. I am always like this, why? Idk...
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when you meet someone that you are so excited about. YOu see great potential. You start catching feelings. You are ready to be with this person. You see all great possibilities between the two of you. You know he is so into you. Then all of a sudden you want to pull back? Its like an amazing ability to put your feelings into a box until you are ready to take them back out again. MEanwhile, he is falling head over heels in love with you, but suddenly you have a new perspective? Not that you dont still want him, but you feel like...hmmmm, its not necessary to be in love? ( something like that) I have met someone great. I think he will be my husband. I am always like this, why? Idk...



Yikes! yes i do, want them so bad and when the time arrives I just start to feel..... nothing - bar one guy, the Aries.

And I ain't no young one and have had my heart smashed a few times. I think its fear. Maybe fear of settling with this person and missing out on excitement - or fear of falling for this guy and losing my feelings for the Aries, i'm trying to put my finger on it the last couple of months, its taking a lot of brain power.

Who have you met, is it the scorpio?

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That's basically because Leo's have the, "grass is greener on the otherside" - syndrome; Meaning that they're always attracted to new, more exciting prospects. If a Leo thinks that they can find something better, they find someone else. They also love the thrill of being chased, so if someone is falling too quickly for them, they get turned off. They like the admiration linked to someone falling hard for them, but they don't respect them nearly as much. They prefer knowing that there was at least some sort of cat & mouse involved before they finally settled down with them.
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LadyLioness... It is the fear of losing control... And we as leo men AND women are control freaks of ourselves and emotions and as soon as that is out of balance, we try to restore that. Someone told me that the other night here or on another forum and it is so true. I am a leo man, and i am interested and have feelings for a leo female. One day she was all flirty, the next time she was distant. Why? Because she gave her number to me and flirted with me, and she possibly gave too much away and backed off. Not that she is not interested anymore, not saying that and ha, she had to text me two days later if i wanted to join a party as i had not texted her, especially not when she gave me the cold shoulder the next day. And I texted her yesterday and she did not texted back but at the party she grabbed her phone out of her pocket halfway the party and looked at her phone and looked at me and answered the question :-) And since i have not texted her at all. And i am going to text her tomorrow again when she is working on something what i know about and wish her luck etc., short and simple but encouraging and of course playful! But i am not going to shower her texts as i know i do not want to overdo it and make myself too available, either, and do not want to be too eager that i need her. However, i would LOVE to text her, call her or be with her every day and talk with her everyday, with that leo chick it possibly starts slowly to let her shield down gently by complimenting her, making sure that i make at least one nice compliment when i see her, not more, just noticing her. Not overdo anything, but for her knowing she always gets compliments when she sees me, but not too clingy. We Leo's do not like clingy behavior. We need freedom. So i also do not give her all the attention and see if she is giving me the hints i need to build upon to flirt with her.

Still learning here, it helps that i now know that she has a lot in common with me, helps to understand her a lot! :-)