Leo Male Libra Female

I cannot believe I have been soooooo romantically interested in this Leo Male.......He is August 6, 1950 and I am October 5, 1961.............Since last July 2000 he has said that he wants to take "Baby Steps"....these baby steps are so small that I barely see him at all...once a month maybe....we talk on the email......we talk on the phone ocassionally.....I recently told him how much a care for him and how I want to see more of eachother and travel more together......I said if he did not want the same he needs to tell me to try and find someone else because he cannot or does not want to see more of me........he did not reply for several days.......I then asked him if this was me imagining that we were in love but we are not....or was it more baby steps..............his only reply was "baby steps"......I want to cry because he is either stringing me along for the past year or he is an incredible procrastonator......my choices are going to involve having him as a "friend" and meeting someone to share my time time with or being alone all summer with an ocassional visit or two from him.......are there any Leo Males out there who can shed some light on this..........I'm telling you.....this guy inspires me.....my music and art work has quadrupled in performance and quantity since knowing this guy.....he absolutely lights my creative spirit......If I had a personal glossery of terms his name would be listed next to "Romance" in my personal glossary...Any Ideas?.....

I'm a Leo female and although leo males/females are similar, there are a few differences.
Although no one knows how he truly feels about you, and my guess is that he does, we Leos have
a hard time with committing to one person especially on the net. There's this constant need for attention/adoration/ (yeah it sux)
All i can say to you is this: we hate being ignored-so keep him guessing, dont message him, let HIM message YOU. If he cares about
you, he'll come looking for you. Now, I'm kinda in the same predicament as you, I like
this Libra guy very much but it's very hard to show my feelings, dont want to be hurt..it's like if i show how i feel?, it will ruin everything
Can u give me alittle more insight as to what i should do?

Libras, Male and Female, are addicted to balance.......so if you can balance your statement of how much you care with...how you are able to be strong on your own......with how much you'd miss him...w/how your able to care for yourself....w/how you so much prefer to be with him.....etc........he will feel that you are strong and could go off on your own if he doesn't appreciate how much you love him....he will be afraid to say it out loud but he will make jokes and gestures of how he would hate to lose you....that's my guess......best wishes...Leo Female from....Libra Female

?Posted by Libra girl on Tuesday, July 03, 2001 ?
I have dated a Leo man before, sure enough he was great, our only problem was the power struggle "So, who is-sss the best? It's me! No, it's me!" Anyway, what I have notice with this cat was, that as soon as I start to get emotionally attached to him , he starts pulling away, but as soon as I act like "Oh yes, baby, you are the best, and I don't even want to put the strings on you " he would show me all his love and appreciation.
To make the story short, Leos are NOT SHY! And they don't like manipulation and pressure that comes from being in a relationship, he is the king, and the deal is done, basically!
I let him be the king in his castle, but in mine I want to rule! ( we stayed good friends though)

Thanks for the reply......This cat is such a pain in the @# $ % .....I enjoy praising him......I let him be in charge however possible.......he has got it made...I feed him the best food.....I give him back rubs and plenty of attention........but with him in charge we go no where and do nothing....I have to coax him to go out and do more.......he's a work-a-holic and does not make time for play.......so now I am on day three of trying not to be in love with him.......I can have more adventure on my own with the friends who have been inviting him and I, literally, all over the world....I will have to go all over the world alone...........just got back from Germany......was dissapointed that he did not come with me.....accomodations paid for....friends as tour guides...had a blast but no Leo Male.........the only BIG problem is that I miss his warmth and his energy and the humor we share........I am doing the One Day At A Time method of getting over him........God Grant Me The Serenity To Accept The Things I Cannot Change etc..........It's like a 12 Step Program over here!.-
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That turkey does not deserve you. You are in a dream world about
a fantasy. Wake up! don't be a delicate morsel on someones
plate. He probably is so busy flitting from nest to nest he barely
squeezes in time for you. Drop the bum and face some reality.
Been there, done that!

Yea, Your right Garfield...but y'know, this fantasy relationship of mine has been a source of some truly creative thinking including an enhansement to my musicianship, artwork and creative writing skills.....This fantasy relationship has also guided me through the first year post divorce for me (from an incredibly unsatisfiable VIRGO. God don't ever do that in your life time) So, in effect, it hasn't been all bad........I suppose I am just at a turning point in my journey here where I decide to address "future of this relationship" questions......although I have known this person for a year, I wasn't interested in truly confronting him about his vision for our relationship....I thought about asking him; but, always declined because I knew the fantasy was sustaining me......I believe I will remain friends with this guy...he is a fun person and I do care for him if only as a friend......he has been helpful to me......so on with the adventure.......

Ahha finally the truth...just divorced and you fell for the Leo charmer. Makes sense now. Leo's use abuse and leave u once they have taken all that you have and flit off to the next flower. Been there done that twice and NEVER again. Save yourself some heart ache and forget the bumb

Oh my gawd! I (libra female) coulda been writing this myself about my Leo Male. If I seem too needy or into him, he is pulling away. If I start "pulling away" then he's right there all over again! I feel like Im on a roller coaster ride .

Ok, I am a Leo male and first off I think that you should not waste your time with that guy. If I was like that with a woman it would mean that I was not interested. As for the King of the castle thing, I have to agree that sometimes yes I feel like that but I am not obsessed over it. As for the abuse comment; you're nuts. We leo males worship our lovers. Maybe you got a bad apple or two. I have never abused someone and never will. Don't be judgmental.

What is up with him not simply saying......"I am sorry that your feelings for me are stronger than my feelings for you. I wish you the best in the future.....David. Now tell me, what is so damn difficult about that?......Jeese! If there is anyone out there who cannot properly break up with someone....I want you to cut and paste what I just wrote and USE IT the next time someone loves you more than you love them......IT IS THE ONLY FAIR AND JUST THING TO DO.........If you cannot lay it on the line for someone and have the decency to take responsibility for yourselves than you ought to have trouble sleeping at night.~B~