Leo man gone—

Hey everybody.
So everything was good between me and my leo until saturday night. I called him at night and he didnt answer.. His phone was closed all day yesterday. And I have called a couple of times today. and send to text messages - no answer. He did pick up just one time, and said "I dont wanna talk to anyone", I asked if it had anything to do with me and why he hasnt called me back. he said "No its not you, i dont wanna talk to anyone, ill call you when Im ready, stop calling me" .. It really worries me...

Is this a normal leo thing??

we were all good, and didnt have any problems, not even a discussion, i dont understand 😢

hope to get some answers..... thank u

btw.. after he hung up, i texted him.. "I know u dont wanna talk to anyone, but if you feel like it, I will listen to you"

His chart is:

Rising sign: libra
Sun: Leo
Moon: Aqua
Mercury: virgo
Venus: virgo
Mars: Leo
Jupiter: saggitarius
Saturn: libra
Uranus: saggitarius
Neptune: saggitarius
Pluto: libra

Same thread in three different boards -- about a guy needing space to sort his shit out? Girl, you be trippin' lol

Copy & Paste:
It's a GUY thing.. and really, he doesn't WANT or NEED your "help" sorting out whatever he's got going on right now that's making him not want to talk to anyone. He doesn't want to talk about it, he doesn't want your assistance, and he DOESN'T need you flipping your shit right now. MEN get like this. Call it going into his cave or whatever you want.. he's got a bunch on his plate right now, and needs to sort it out (HIMSELF, thankyouverymuch) and will NOT appreciate your repeated attempts to "help" him with this.. that feels very emasculating.

If things have been good, why are you assuming it has anything to do with you? He said it wasn't personal, so why you keep taking it personally? And doesn't it make you feel more and more crappy to keep calling and texting and not getting the response you want? So stop. Go out and live your life.. it'll all come out in the wash eventually, good or bad.. but in the meantime, stop doing things that make YOU feel worse.. like continuing to contact him when he's already said he needs alone time. It's just crazy to keep making yourself feel bad.

The BEST way to "help" a man sort through his crap.. is to LET HIM DO IT HIMSELF. And if you can ALSO manage a few days to give him the time and space to do so WITHOUT freaking out or adding more crap to his already full plate, or making emotional demands on him (YOUR emotional balance is YOUR job, NOT HIS!).. he'll REALLY appreciate it. Like whoa.

So get busy in YOUR OWN life... let him do his thing, you do yours. He'll be back around when he gets his shit straight.

Might want to read a very informative thread on the second page of Libra: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/how-do-libra-men-deal-with-their-emotions-best-3170166/>Here.</a><BR> It was about a Libra guy needing time and space to sort some stuff out.. but applies to men in general.

P.S. --- Umm.. stop letting your Scorp Merc run you by making you paranoid and obsessive and imagining every negative, terrible possibility and scenario. Seriously, just let it go for a few days.

yeah, my friend/ex-lover leo wanted to be alone, doesn't wanna talk to anybody...i let him, ignored him and didnt ask how he is. after 2 weeks, hes back to his old sunny self as if the 2 weeks he spent in isolation didnt happen...LOL.

If Leo's bummed, they will hide away from the world until they feel better. They would rather not show any face if it's not their best face! Leave him be girl.

Posted by lotuslily
If Leo's bummed, they will hide away from the world until they feel better. They would rather not show any face if it's not their best face! Leave him be girl.

Yeah, if i'm not in a good place then i'll be in my own bad place, not sharing or needing anyone else no matter how much I need someone else. I need to be left alone, work it all out and then spring back into life like nothing happened, or at least I won't admit anything happened.

Posted by celticlioness

Posted by lotuslily
If Leo's bummed, they will hide away from the world until they feel better. They would rather not show any face if it's not their best face! Leave him be girl.

Yeah, if i'm not in a good place then i'll be in my own bad place, not sharing or needing anyone else no matter how much I need someone else. I need to be left alone, work it all out and then spring back into life like nothing happened, or at least I won't admit anything happened.

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Exactly,

Our Lioness summed it up just right,

He called me the Day After... and yeah something happened to a family member and he was upset... I guess it was me just being paranoid. As a libra i like my man to say sweet things to me- his Venus is in virgo and I have Read somewhere, that he Would rather show his love than say it. And Thats cool....Im just a h.o for attention from my man and when i dont get it, i kind of get a little b ! T c h y , lol

this question is kinda related so i'll put it to the lions here:

if there has been an incident in your life that has made you retreat to reflect on your own, when you were ready, would you come out and behave as though nothing happened even with people who were directly involved in whatever it was that got you in the state?

like if you are married and you're dealing with some issues that mean you're shutting out your partner...when you're over yourself, are you prepared to give a full explanation of what was going on and to clarify matters or would you expect the other person to move on without further discussion also.

thislibragirl: if you're with a leo, you have to leave being an attention whore to them....and bitchy tantrums and hissy fits when you're feeling neglected will piss off most men, whatever their sign.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
this question is kinda related so i'll put it to the lions here:

if there has been an incident in your life that has made you retreat to reflect on your own, when you were ready, would you come out and behave as though nothing happened even with people who were directly involved in whatever it was that got you in the state?

like if you are married and you're dealing with some issues that mean you're shutting out your partner...when you're over yourself, are you prepared to give a full explanation of what was going on and to clarify matters or would you expect the other person to move on without further discussion also.

Over the last few years I have retreated from certain people, when I could finally re-emerge I did tell them that I was back to myself and why I had disappeared. I would not expect the person to just move on without an explanation, but they would have to tell me that they needed more info if that was the case as I would have supplied the explanation already.