Leo man or Leo kitten—?

he's wishy-washy cuz he's not as into u as u are into him. men, regardless of sign, aren't all that complicated. if he wanted to be around he would. he wanted sex and he got it. leos love the chase so it doesn't matter how long u wait. i was, internally, chasing this one guy for 2 years before i really gave up. i played it cool so no one could tell but i had my sights set firmly on him. it's very ego oriented i'm sure. he's conquered u so now it's probably not as interesting.

"Then got bad dating advice from a friend who said i need to ask him where i stand etc...are we a couple or not. he freaked out and ignored me for 3 weeks hahahaha"

"After we did the deed things changed from there....the first couple of weeks after he didnt call at all and ijnored my calls. Then one day he took my call saying how he thought it wasnt going to work out"

hate to say it but it seems pretty obvious what his intentions were.

I guess I thought if guys where only looking for one thing and one thing only the wouldnt chase someone that long meaning 2 months. Esp a man in his 40's. I thought maybe he started to get feelings for me and freaked out and maybe thats why he went MIA. Hmmmmm that sucks i really liked him. I fell for him...he knew this. Curious to know if he will come back around or if he is gone for good......

i totally agree with all of the ^above statements^, he's not that into you chelsea....... i hate to say it but he got what he wanted and has disappeared on you and you probably were not a challenge to him or he got bored. He didnt see you as a long term thing and is sewing his oats..... probably playing the field.

I was happy with the speed that this relationship was going at but took her advice BAD MOVE LOL!!!! he freaked out and ignored me for 3 weeks hahahaha...anyways i hate being ignored and hate having unsettled issues so i went to this house to apologize and tell him i took some bad advice and i was there to redeem myself.

Chelsea, if you were happy with things you shouldnt have asked where you stood with him, why did you listen to your friend? So really you are saying you did want more out of the relationship, correct me if i am wrong. Were you guys in an actual relationship or just hanging out with each other?

Well we where dating, he advised me that he doesnt multi-date and would kick me to the curb if i did so i didnt. Maybe I am hopless but I dont it was all about the chase. There where times he would say to me that we where not going to sleep together. So if thats all he wanted dont you think he would of taken it sooner.......why wait. He also told me that when things get to good he runs in fear of getting his heart broken again. Since his long term relationship failed 5 yrs ago he hasnt been in another one since. I dunno my gutt tells me that it wasnt just about getting me in bed. I could be wrong....i dunno I havent dated a Leo. And if it where just about getting me in bed wouldnt he get me in bed again a few times b4 he goes MIA....or is twice enough after a 3 month chase. Time will tell I guess........

sorry to answer your question, I listen to my friend cause I was an idiot i guess. She has seen me get hurt as I fall easy and I guess she thought that after 2 months of dating you should be an item and not still be just "Dating one another" I seen her point so I took it.....rather then go with the flow of things. If all of you guys are right I think its really wrong of him to bring his kids into this. Meaning if it all was about getting me in bed...then he should of never allowed me and his kids to create a relationship together.

Posted by chelsea78
I guess I thought if guys where only looking for one thing and one thing only the wouldnt chase someone that long meaning 2 months. Esp a man in his 40's. I thought maybe he started to get feelings for me and freaked out and maybe thats why he went MIA. Hmmmmm that sucks i really liked him. I fell for him...he knew this. Curious to know if he will come back around or if he is gone for good......

Well, unthink that - A man would wait 10 years for some booty especially if he is ALREADY getting booty from some other chic(s) on the regular!