So I'll keep this somewhat short. I once dated a Leo man, he's a July Leo... Anyways, when we first met, it was fireworks! I mean, we were inseparable. And we actually met at a mutual friends music event, which was held at a bar/lounge place. So initially once we were introduced, the first thing he did, was buy me a shot... Tequila to be exact, and that was followed by one more shot and my usual drink of choice, rum and coke. So throughout the night we continued to only talk and hangout with each other. Our friend was hosting this event, so he was never around. At the end of the evening we decided to go into the city, and hit up one of his favorite places to hangout at. We danced, laughed and just enjoyed each others company... Fast forward a bit and we continued hanging out... Mostly at his place, (at the time, I had really annoying roommates) and sometimes out, he introduced me to ALL of his closest guy friends some of which have known him since before college and some since college. He's turning 31 this July. So over the course of the last almost two years, he's been someone I've kind of looked at as more of a friend.. As we have slowly and progressively, stopped hanging out and barely speak. Now yes, we were intimate, but we waited a solid few months before that took place. And I always thought we had such a strong connection in all ways. Mentally, emotionally, sexually... So I guess what I'm trying to figure out is, wth happened to shift him from hanging out a lot, to maybe every few months? Mind you, we both have expressed having feelings for each other, and in my much younger years, I dated a Leo, for 4 years, and he proposed marriage twice! So I know as a Sag, I connect well with them... I guess I'm trying to understand what happened there. It's more so for some kind of perspective on him and what happened, rather than trying to get things where they once were. I'm ok with being friends at this stage in my life. Curious though.... Any thoughts Leos?! Thank you! 🙂
Leo men, I have a question for you!?!?
Hey Ssupes, so it's kind of a strange situation I'm in right now. I believe that since I've "rekindled" my past relationship with a Cappy ex of mine, who has been talking moving me in, marriage, etc. it's been hard to determine what exactly I would actually want to figure out with the Leo. Mind you, I met this Leo, some time after my breakup with this Cappy, and has been talking to him a ton for the first year or so... Then things started to slowly die down... Not to a complete stop but slow. And Cappy only just reappeared in my life as of April this year.... And Leo never really left completely. It's difficult and quite complicated to explain. I guess the easiest way to explain what I'm thinking is, I have feelings for both. Cappy, I've known for a decade, since is was 19, he 21... He is the "great love" of my life. However, with Leo, I do or perhaps I should say, felt a strong connection to, which hasn't completely died. And he is also texting me currently. He's just returned to the states today, after being in Europe for a week an a half for a school reunion. (He even texted me while he was in Europe!!!) so honestly I truly don't know wtf to do at this point. I would be more than happy to have a friendship with Leo, Bc I don't want to lose him from my life completely... But I'm confused! I'm not sure he wants from me, and I don't know what I could truly give either. So perhaps knowing why things have been and changed the way they have, would help for me to have some odd sense of "closure!??" Ooh I should mention, Leo had disappeared for a few months at one point, I later found out from him, that he had lost his job, and was incredibly depressed.. Just closed himself from the world. Which for the Leos I know and him, is not in their character, due to their big personalities. He at the time, apologized for the random distance Bc of the lost job... He didn't begin to talk to me again until he had offers on the table and had done a ton of interviewing...
Oh one more thing... I met and hung out with his friends the close friends, on lee than one occasion... I also found out, that he NEVER brings women around them, unless he's serious about them, and he likes getting a sign of approval from them as well... Apparently I had gotten this sign off, as being a winner lol, and they all like me a lot. We all really did have a lot of fun hanging out together...
It's weird I guess with him, when I compare my first relationship with a Leo that lasted four years, and with him being all over me all the time! He became highly jealous, somewhat insecure and a tad bit of a stalker, which all added up to me breaking things off. I did love him, truly, and deeply... Still have "love" for him to this day, as he was and is a wonderful man... He just couldn't handle having a gf that received a high amount of male attention. Eh
It's weird I guess with him, when I compare my first relationship with a Leo that lasted four years, and with him being all over me all the time! He became highly jealous, somewhat insecure and a tad bit of a stalker, which all added up to me breaking things off. I did love him, truly, and deeply... Still have "love" for him to this day, as he was and is a wonderful man... He just couldn't handle having a gf that received a high amount of male attention. Eh
OMG Impulsv: why?! Well, why not I mean??!
Wait, what's wrong with a Cappy?! I'm confused all over again! LOL Ssupes, I could totally remain or have a friendship last with Leo, easily. I have kept a few exes as "friends"... I may not hangout with them like that, but we still keep in touch, and may occasionally grab lunch or something. Low key situations.
But now y'all both have me thinking about the Cappy again. Haha damn it
But now y'all both have me thinking about the Cappy again. Haha damn it
OMG no no!! Sorry, I was referencing my ex Leo I was with for 4 years!! My Cappy has never done any of that! No jealously, stalking or anything! Frankly, he appreciates other men looking at me, Bc he takes it as a compliment. Lol never ever has he gotten upset, or done anything crazy towards me! Oh god I'd never ever marry someone who did that during dating! That's why I broke up with my Leo from a million years ago!
Hahaha! Impulsv, that was meant to reference my former boyfriend that I broke up with before the age of 20!! I'm turning 30 this year, so yeah, long time ago... And oh most importantly, that was a Leo ex!!! Not at all referencing my Cappy!!! Oh god no!! Never that! Lol trust and believe, I would never ever in a million years, even if I was desperate, would marry a man who was insecure, jealous and/or a stalker!!! Never again! Hell to the no! Lol I made the mistake of dating the Leo, when I was that young, for as long as I did back then, because when we got together, we were 15! Broken up by 19, and he had stalked the hell out of me!! His damn parents had to get involved to get him to stop! That's how nuts that Leo was!! Ain't nobody got time for that! Hahaha I'm just sayin.... 😉
Impulsv and Ssupes, what's wrong with marrying a Cappy? Lol y'all have me over here on the edge of my seat!!! Too much suspense! Hahaha
Ssupes, really? I'm sure I've sure you've heard my history with the Cappy, ten years, no issues whatsoever. We are like total opposites on a few things, but the exact same on many, and more than we aren't. We have both loved each other for many years.... I can't see why it wouldn't work?! What works for some, doesn't for others.... That's kind of how I view most things. Idk, time will tell honestly... Some of the better relationships I've had, personal, or romantic, have been with Cappies.... Hmmmm
I would need some concrete examples or reasons of why I shouldn't marry Cappy, for me to even rethink it... At this point. I'm as in this, as he as. Hell, he may be more in it than me! LOL
But we've literally grown up and matured with each other.... And gone through a bunch of ish, in general during those ten years... It's not an easy thing to say no to. And neither is he! 🙂
But we've literally grown up and matured with each other.... And gone through a bunch of ish, in general during those ten years... It's not an easy thing to say no to. And neither is he! 🙂
LOL I don't know how'd take it, but I feel like almost any man or woman regardless of their sign, would probably be a tad confused or possibly upset!! I can think a few men now that would be, none of which are Caps hah! Seems more like a human nature type of response would happen. If that makes sense.... Long day... Work is wearing me out these days! Argh
Ssupes, ah, ok no worries... So the back story of our relationship is quite interesting... So in the ten years we've known each other, we probably dated in a committed relationship for a solid 4-6 years... We were off and on for 7-8... The only reason we ever really separated was due to him or myself dealing with school... The very last time we separated was due to him working on completing his dual masters degrees... And he wanted to focus on that, since he wasn't fully in the relationship as much as we both would've wanted.... So long story short, now that he has that completely, and is a little older, he is finally in the position to settle down completely, and due the whole living together, engaged and married/kids thing.... So we are skipping actually doing the bf and gf thing, now, and going straight to engagement. No point in wasting any more time.
You wouldn't marry a Cappy in general?
Or wouldn't in this case?
I've seen a TON of literature that speaks on the Sag and Cap relationship, and how it can work, if both people involved are very very invested in making it work, and putting in all the necessary steps as well. So knowing how we are both invested in making things work.... I do believe we can make it! And I know couples that are dating (long term) and that are married very happily, and have made it work! 🙂 I'm keeping my Sag optimistic mind open to all positives and possible negatives...
Or wouldn't in this case?
I've seen a TON of literature that speaks on the Sag and Cap relationship, and how it can work, if both people involved are very very invested in making it work, and putting in all the necessary steps as well. So knowing how we are both invested in making things work.... I do believe we can make it! And I know couples that are dating (long term) and that are married very happily, and have made it work! 🙂 I'm keeping my Sag optimistic mind open to all positives and possible negatives...
I understand what your saying.. My call. Absolutely it is. Totally get that. I just would like to hear what has brought you to the conclusion of why you wouldn't if it were you, is all. 🙂 I am the knowledge seeking sign as a Sag... The more the better. I honestly like gathering others input or experiences of their own, that can possibly help with what I'm dealing with. If that makes sense.?
Oh well yeah... Ssupes, I was hoping you had a personal life experience to share lol
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