@goutte
11 Years
Leo male is killing me
I have been with a Leo/Virgo cusp. He was also an INTJ. ROUGH COURSE! 😆
Far too push and pull for me. Drove me mental, and they were so so soooooo passive aggressive!
I didn't even know what it was at the time and I wish I did so I could have put him in his place sooner and rested my soul from it before it got so jaded.
How interesting! A leo/virgo cusp I was involved with contacted me out of the blue yesterday after NC for 2 months - wonder if he's the same haha!
Tbh these immature fuckers are totally push pull and I think they just put feelers out to a group of "available" women they know when they're bored, and then sit back and see who is stupid enough to bite.
Don't get sucked in - this leo nearly did kill me coz I thought we had that same "connection" and I got sucked in to all the drama, which lasted over a year. In the end I wised up to it and realised "wtf am I doing here?"
Most Leos will tell you on here that "if a leo man wants you, you will be in no doubt" so BS talk about being too busy and all that NC is just that - BS and for the unevolved Leo there's no karmic connection, only a sexual one; nothing deeper than that!!!
Posted by AriesGirl74
How interesting! A leo/virgo cusp I was involved with contacted me out of the blue yesterday after NC for 2 months - wonder if he's the same haha!Tbh these immature fuckers are totally push pull and I think they just put feelers out to a group of "available" women they know when they're bored, and then sit back and see who is stupid enough to bite.
Don't get sucked in - this leo nearly did kill me coz I thought we had that same "connection" and I got sucked in to all the drama, which lasted over a year. In the end I wised up to it and realised "wtf am I doing here?"
Most Leos will tell you on here that "if a leo man wants you, you will be in no doubt" so BS talk about being too busy and all that NC is just that - BS and for the unevolved Leo there's no karmic connection, only a sexual one; nothing deeper than that!!!
OOO GIRLLL BLESS YOU!!!!!!! bahaha i wouldn't be surprised if he was *rolls eyes* but you are absolutely right. everything you say is so on point.. how unfortunate for me... and pathetic of him *blood boils*
was yours great at putting on a show? i feel like they're secretly great liars.. like it comes creepily natural to them.
Not sure if came for actual help
or to Leo bash because you've already given up.
Not sure if came for actual help
or to Leo bash because you've already given up.
haha, hey, im a scorpio... i never fully give up! have at it. i love to see all sides so please share your input!
Not leo bashing at all I love them and I've learned a lot about my little leo, but I am referring to unevolved Leos. They are push pull and they LOVE the drama, you just have to learn to jump off the rollercoaster.
If you bother to read them right and get to know them though, you can see that they will put on a show as they refuse to show any weakness or that anything can affect them. Deep down they can be insecure but their pride will never let anyone see that.
You say that he disappears when you think you have both sorted things; that's probably coz he's comfortable that you are where he wants you to be with your attention, affection and emotion for him. He no longer needs to work for it.
This will always be like this coz u allow it. If you don't want it like this only you can change it by setting boundaries so he doesn't take the piss.
Posted by AriesGirl74
Not leo bashing at all I love them and I've learned a lot about my little leo, but I am referring to unevolved Leos. They are push pull and they LOVE the drama, you just have to learn to jump off the rollercoaster.
If you bother to read them right and get to know them though, you can see that they will put on a show as they refuse to show any weakness or that anything can affect them. Deep down they can be insecure but their pride will never let anyone see that.You say that he disappears when you think you have both sorted things; that's probably coz he's comfortable that you are where he wants you to be with your attention, affection and emotion for him. He no longer needs to work for it.
This will always be like this coz u allow it. If you don't want it like this only you can change it by setting boundaries so he doesn't take the piss.
boundaries for sure..
do you think it sounds like bull if he says he didn't think i would take his absence personally?
Not sure if came for actual help
or to Leo bash because you've already given up.
literally waiting at the edge of my seat for days. what's your advice?!
I've been on the same kind of roller coaster ride with a leo man for the past 2.5 years. It's always on and off. When he disappears on me like that I do me. His excuse is the same as yours. He has no time which is bullshit. Do I like that he does that to me? No I don't. Does he know that it bothers me? Yes he does. Guess what he hasn't changed one bit. Do I still see him? Yes , but it's my choice. I just know to take it for what it is. That is just fun. I have a good time with him And I know that's all it will ever be. I had to learn the hard way to accept it and I live with it. I've been through this with another Leo too whom I was deeply in love with and known for over 12 years. So If he goes and come back it's because your all he's thinking about at that very moment. Yes at that very moment because don't think for one minute that he doesn't have a back up. They always have a back up. Not to bash on all Leo's but they can be very sneaky. I've known a friend of mine who's a Leo he juggles his women like pins. He told me he was with one at night and the other pulls in the morning right as the other is leaving. So be carefull.
Not sure if came for actual help
or to Leo bash because you've already given up.
literally waiting at the edge of my seat for days. what's your advice?!
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My advise is that we work on LPT (Leo People Time) as my response is a great example of. hahah.
Just chill out. If he's not making time for you, find someone else.
Simple as that.
Don't ever slow your roll for someone.
The amount of time that has been wasted in this world waiting for some lover to come back around is insane.
Don't do it.
Be better than that.
If it comes down to you leaving a voice mail that's like "respond by the end of the week or you don't exist" do it. And follow through.
And don't look back.
I think people forget how many people there are out there and it amazes me how they get so caught up over one person.
Not sure if came for actual help
or to Leo bash because you've already given up.
literally waiting at the edge of my seat for days. what's your advice?!
My advise is that we work on LPT (Leo People Time) as my response is a great example of. hahah.
Just chill out. If he's not making time for you, find someone else.
Simple as that.
Don't ever slow your roll for someone.
The amount of time that has been wasted in this world waiting for some lover to come back around is insane.
Don't do it.
Be better than that.If it comes down to you leaving a voice mail that's like "respond by the end of the week or you don't exist" do it. And follow through.
And don't look back.
I think people forget how many people there are out there and it amazes me how they get so caught up over one person.
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LPT bahaha.. a true thing.
But no wonder i was waiting in such anticipation.. that advice was liberating af ??*.—(—)??_.*——??~—??'—
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not literally... of course..
but this leo/virgo cusp does far too much!!! he's a great communicator and we both are able to talk about things openly. and right when i think weve gotten to a place where weve worked out our misunderstandings or just smoothed things out he disappears for like a month to 2 months its crazy..! before he disappeared the last time he said he liked me and liked spending time with me but he has no time to hang because he worked so much and wasn't ready for a relationship because of his past relationships.. he came back yesterday after 2 months. he called and texted me for 5 hours straight until i answered at like 230 AM begging me to go see him, finally after i said yes - it took so long im sure he fell asleep cos he stopped answering. but the thing is he i didn't hear from him today `~` ugh.. i mean if i did that i'd be like hey my mad i fell asleep yesterday.. his behavior is so annoying and petty.. and yet i cant seem to find myself detaching from him from my heart..
when we first met our eyes locked into each other and something activated between us.. there's no doubt that i feel a deep karmic connection to him.. i find parts of myself wanting to be there for him... be patient for him and he'll come around.. the other part want me to fuck him right off... it's madness..
im a scorpio sun/aqua moon so i feel very conflicted in my feelings.. emotion against logic *pulls hair*
thoughts anyone!?