lil' help please anyone?...

I'm a scorpio if that helps....

Insanity = repeating the SAME behavior yet EXPECTING a different result.

r u guys reading the whole thing?

serious, thoughtful replies only....

Stumped there isn't much you can do at this point but wait, freaking out on a guy (no matter the astrological sign) can potentially wipe out any chances to move forward so at this point accept you made a mistake, you apologized and the next step is to let it go. I get the feeling since he didn't take you out on a proper date that he was looking for sex, you flipping out on him says to a guy you're moving too fast, he's not gone for good, he has a past history of coming back around, he'll be back, the sexy lion will want to experience sexual intimacy again, so don't kick yourself too hard over this, shit happens.

But what you don't want to do is send excessive text messages, excessively try to communicate which can kill attraction because it appears needy and desperate on your part so if he's not speaking to you then don't try to force communication when he's ignoring you, he'll lose respect for you and you don't want that to happen, so don't beg, BE A QUEEN, hold your head up high and don't seek his approval by trying to win his affection/attention back, take it on the chin and keep it moving. He's been reaching out to you off and on for what a few years now hich means you've become his habit, out of habit he'll reach out again until then get busy getting your inner confidence stronger so you'll be prepared to face him the next time you link up again.

My reply wasn't thoughtful?

You can;t change what you are not aware of. Becoming aware of YOUR behavior, then changing it IS the solution. May not yield the results you wish, but certainly can prevent the same shit from happening in future.

Posted by tiki33
Stumped there isn't much you can do at this point but wait, freaking out on a guy (no matter the astrological sign) can potentially wipe out any chances to move forward so at this point accept you made a mistake, you apologized and the next step is to let it go. I get the feeling since he didn't take you out on a proper date that he was looking for sex, you flipping out on him says to a guy you're moving too fast, he's not gone for good, he has a past history of coming back around, he'll be back, the sexy lion will want to experience sexual intimacy again, so don't kick yourself too hard over this, shit happens.

But what you don't want to do is send excessive text messages, excessively try to communicate which can kill attraction because it appears needy and desperate on your part so if he's not speaking to you then don't try to force communication when he's ignoring you, he'll lose respect for you and you don't want that to happen, so don't beg, BE A QUEEN, hold your head up high and don't seek his approval by trying to win his affection/attention back, take it on the chin and keep it moving. He's been reaching out to you off and on for what a few years now hich means you've become his habit, out of habit he'll reach out again until then get busy getting your inner confidence stronger so you'll be prepared to face him the next time you link up again.

Thank you

Thanks everyone for your input, I couldn't really talk to anyone I know about it cuz were friends with all the same people... LOL. I hope Jynja's right, but DG, you have given me a lot of good points to consider also.

Jynja had mentioned that his pursuing me for 2 months is a good sign and I hope it is, but I've heard that Leos just like a chase sometimes...but then I wonder, if he just wanted to chase then dump, wouldn't he just pick some random girl he didn't know and that didn't run in his social cirle?? idk

Posted by ellessque
lol....it doesn't help.

hahahaha!!! i LOVE you elle. nah....it really doesn't help. the thing is not to be so reactionary cos that's the scorp's biggest mistake. if he said he was skateboarding and would be tired later....he was skateboarding and was gonna be tired later! men aren't that hard to fathom cos they say it as they think it but scorps just don't hear it like it's meant, lol. THERE IS NO CODE. take what he says as being a statement of facts and don't look for the hidden meaning. there isn't one.

scorp's intensity is too much for a leo. you have to turn it down in all aspects of life bar the bedroom. i don't see myself as a typical scorp cos i don't have the jealousy or suspicion gene. i take everything at face value which sometimes blows up in my face if i'm being bullshitted but to be honest, i think its safer on me to be like that cos when jealousy and suspicion come into the mix, the only one who's gonna get hurt is you. these are things you can control and it is really scorpio's mission to harness those negative energies and transform them to positives.

Posted by tiki33
Stumped there isn't much you can do at this point but wait, freaking out on a guy (no matter the astrological sign) can potentially wipe out any chances to move forward so at this point accept you made a mistake, you apologized and the next step is to let it go. I get the feeling since he didn't take you out on a proper date that he was looking for sex, you flipping out on him says to a guy you're moving too fast, he's not gone for good, he has a past history of coming back around, he'll be back, the sexy lion will want to experience sexual intimacy again, so don't kick yourself too hard over this, shit happens.

But what you don't want to do is send excessive text messages, excessively try to communicate which can kill attraction because it appears needy and desperate on your part so if he's not speaking to you then don't try to force communication when he's ignoring you, he'll lose respect for you and you don't want that to happen, so don't beg, BE A QUEEN, hold your head up high and don't seek his approval by trying to win his affection/attention back, take it on the chin and keep it moving. He's been reaching out to you off and on for what a few years now hich means you've become his habit, out of habit he'll reach out again until then get busy getting your inner confidence stronger so you'll be prepared to face him the next time you link up again.

that is SO incisive tiki! specially the last paragraph and it's not only something you should consider for leo men but for yourself in general. be a queen. IT WORKS!!! not only do you feel better, stronger and more confident but that energy radiates from you and you attract admiration and most importantly RESPECT. it's not too late to get yourself in that mode for when he comes around again. when he does, you DON'T listen to your gut reaction....you listen to your inner QUEEN. how does she feel to be approached just for a good time when he's bored. i doubt it would be worth of her dignifying the request with a response.

mind you....if any man said to ME that he'd been skateboarding and was too tired to see me, i would wish him well with his midlife crisis, LOL.

A pussycat chases and plays with his food - waits for it to come along, not even waits, it just happens to cross his path and then, if he is bothered, he'll do a little dance with it, play with it, torture if (if it allowed itself to be caught) and then finally kill it. He'll be lazy about it all though cause its not really that worth it, he is well fed by his owners and has no real need or want for the tiny mouse or squirrel that just crossed his path, but he does the chase and gets his but he may just toss is aside then, or bring it to his owner as a gift.

A lion, well he's a whole different story, he'll hunt down his food, he won't play with it and he will go looking for it, when it arouses his interests he spots his prize and he wants his big game prize as he is worth it and so is the prize. He won't let any other lion from another pride move in and try to take whats his, he'll be there and when the time is right, which he will know, he gets his - and keeps it for himself so everyone can see the prize he worked so hard to get.

Your guy is a pussycat. And I would have told him to fuck off if I got the "maybe later" text off him. So well done you, now only allow hunters to catch the prize in the future.

Posted by DG
No,, I don't agree about the ego thing...Scorp men got that title hands down. Leo men are best caught by playing hard to get, IMO.

Scorp men are tricky to land cus they give off mixed signals all the time(purposely)so ya never really know if they like you or not. Theyu are very hot and cold creatures.

Leo's not so much, a little more simplistic in nature. They can be devious players when they are not ready to settle down though. I don't get the feeling like this guy is into her.

When a Leo man likes you he will pursue. A Scorp man won't. The more deeply a Scorp man feels for you, the more he will try to fuck with you're head. Thats why Gems don't get along with them, we grow imapatient and loose interest. They kind of shoot themselves in the foot with us.

Leo men wanna know why you're not falling over chairs for them so they will keep coming back. Play hard to get, thats my advice.

Good God....you are the "Scorpio Whisperer"....I want to pay you to detox the scorp outta mind.

You oughta open a treatment center. Seriously.

*outta me

Posted by celticlioness
A pussycat chases and plays with his food - waits for it to come along, not even waits, it just happens to cross his path and then, if he is bothered, he'll do a little dance with it, play with it, torture if (if it allowed itself to be caught) and then finally kill it. He'll be lazy about it all though cause its not really that worth it, he is well fed by his owners and has no real need or want for the tiny mouse or squirrel that just crossed his path, but he does the chase and gets his but he may just toss is aside then, or bring it to his owner as a gift.

A lion, well he's a whole different story, he'll hunt down his food, he won't play with it and he will go looking for it, when it arouses his interests he spots his prize and he wants his big game prize as he is worth it and so is the prize. He won't let any other lion from another pride move in and try to take whats his, he'll be there and when the time is right, which he will know, he gets his - and keeps it for himself so everyone can see the prize he worked so hard to get.

Your guy is a pussycat. And I would have told him to fuck off if I got the "maybe later" text off him. So well done you, now only allow hunters to catch the prize in the future.

+1!!!!