Lying cheating leo man

Hi all! In true scorpio fashion I'm having trouble to move on and thought that ask for help to complete strangers may help.
I met this leo guy two months and a half ago when he was leaving the town we both live for 2 months back to his home town in another country. He asked me my number and when I said that my phone didn't work in his country he asked me for my email (I'm an international flight attendant and we met on the flight). Long story short he send me several emails, ask me to keep in touch until he came back, then bbm, then skype. When things started to get flirty I asked if he had a girlfriend/wife/whatever and he said "nope, is only me". We talked every day for 2 months, he kept telling me how much he wanted to see me, making plans for when we finally be together, sending me romantic songs, etc. At the beginning I was really cautious but after a month non stop I let down my guard a little bit. A week before his come back a colleague ask me to do her flight to his home town and she would do mine, but before I accept I asked him if he would like that and his reply was "duh, I want to spend as much time with u as i can" but when I went there he went radio silent on me and claim that he confused the dates. I got really mad and wanted to "break it off" meaning stop talking to him and he got mad at me and beg me for a chance in our town which made all my alarms went off.... I texted him that I knew he was hiding something and that he wont see me when he came back, his reply was "i swear on my life that I'm not hiding anything please let me make it up to you when I'm back" i was still in his town for a few hours so i said "prove it, come to my hotel before i leave and kiss me goodbye" he said he was on his way, 2 min after that i receive a message on skype from his account saying literally "you are a f... bitch, u know that (leo guy's name) is married right?" My heart broke into tiny pieces, I reply I didn't knew that and somebody delete me from his account. I send him and email that said "i knew u were hiding something. I receive a message on skype that u are married." He never arrive in my hotel and didn't reply to my email, 2 weeks after still no reply.
Don't get me wrong, I don't want absolutely anything to do with him, and most certainly I learned my lesson with online whatever but I do feel I deserve an apology but I don't know how (or if) I will get it.

Any advice, suggestions or comments will be highly appreciate it unless they are mean remarks, in that case save it to yourself, thanks!

Posted by LittleMissPerfect
Any advice, suggestions or comments will be highly appreciate it unless they are mean remarks, in that case save it to yourself, thanks!

Shit happens.

It is so easy to deceive via the internet, and clearly, there are a great deal of people who have no problem doing so.

You're not alone; it's happened to me, and I believe, quite a few others on this site.

You were smart enough to trust your instincts, though, which probably saved you a lot of grief in the long run.

So, I don't really have any advice-- you're doing it right. 🙂

But I am sorry to hear that happened.

I'm sorry to hear this too... Just take comfort in the fact you can be sure he's getting his ass whooped at home!!!

I'm sorry this happend to you. You honestly might never get an apology or ever get in contact with him now that his wife is going to be hounding him. Just be glad you found out he was married and you don't know what else he could have lied about. Keep in mind that you don't deserve that and try your best to move on.

Posted by wagtail
I'm sorry to hear this too... Just take comfort in the fact you can be sure he's getting his ass whooped at home!!!

he hee

*evil grin*

Thank you guys, to be honest I wanted to do the ass whopping...

I'm so sorry! I don't really have any advice to give, just... move on!

Wow Jynja, somebody left you flowers and said he was your boyfriend? that's creepy and scary!

it did cross my mind that the message was false but then why he never reply to my email saying that wasn't true?

we did skype a lot, several times for hours. he asked me out in front of one of his friend and ask me to set up another friend in our town so we could have double dates. also just after christmas he went to vegas with his friends and he kept texting me sending me pictures of they partying and stuff.... what married guy do that?!

I don't know, in my mind doesn't make sense at all and maybe thats why I keep thinking about it, but I guess it doesn't really matter anymore