My Epiphany

So the other day another Leo hurt my feelings. My initial reaction was to hurt their feelings. In fact, I had typed a long post saying some pretty mean things. I mean hurtful things because you see I was hurt. It was late at night and I decided to sleep on it. When I woke up I realized that hurt people , hurt people and that was really all I wanted to do. Not cool and not really like me.

So yesterday, I decided that I was going to leave DXP. The conundrum was whether or not to say goodbye or just delete. I couldn't decide. I wanted to leave because I was feeling a lot of negative energy from here. I am partially to blame. I must accept my share of the responsibility.

I went back over all my posts from the beginning until now. This is what I noticed. I have had spats, disagreements or just plain old cat fights with the following people

Me and Huntress (she's now one of my favs)
Me and BGP
Me and Jynga
While I have never had a disagreement with Enfant some of the things he says to other people make me a little like ..Yikes.

So this is what I have deduced...I get into it with other 3rd Decans. What is up with that? I have never had any disagreement with WL, SL, Celtic, Seraph, Shah, Tamara or anyone else that I can think of.

When I came to DXP , I did not have any relationship drama. I came to learn about myself. I am on this quest to become enlightened. To be the best person I can be. So I want to know if it is really the 3rd Decan thing or not. I looked up some 3rd Decan Leo stuff last night and it was horrible. It made us sound like controlling monsters who hate for people to disagree with them. Maybe it was right on.

Posted by Jynja
Wow, Nala. Disagreement is good for opening minds. As long as the other person is not insulting, wouldn't you want to see the opposite side?

I mean, you wouldn't want your word to be law, would you?

It's not so much what is said but how it's said. No I would not want my word to be law. Contrary, to popular belief, I don't like being in charge. Too much responsibility. It ruins my whole pretty girl, damsel in distress swag I got going on.

I think there is some kind of power struggle that goes on with 3rd Decans.

It's not just me when I was reading through all the posts, I found some other disagreements and guess what? They were between the other 3rd Decans.

You have cold , calculating and dangerous under your Avatar so this is how you must think of yourself. I too have those characteristics (even without the Hades Moon) and it seems that other people born around the same time as me can bring them to the forefront. It's like they know what buttons to push.

I only made this post to find out what other people's 3rd Decan encounters were like. That's all.

Posted by capgirl75
My sister is a third decan Leo. She is one of the most generous, strongest, charasmatic people I know. She is also one of the most dramatic, stubborn, blunt, and hurtful at times. The things she has said in the past make me just shake my head.

She would literally do anything for anyone. She would give you the shirt off her back (even if she only had 2 shirts). Recently, she took in a friend who was pregnant with nowhere to turn. She took this girl in, and her 2 children, even though my sister has three of her own children and is struggling to get by and is on food stamps herself.

We really have gotten into it at times. But I love her, you have to take the good and the bad with people.

I have to say too, some of the things she has done to get even with other people has seriously made me laugh. You know it was a terrible thing she did, but some of these people have had it coming.

For instance, her youngest son's father skipped town on her and stopped paying her child support. She got shirts with his picture on it, with the caption "Dead beat dad" and she went around with her friends to all the places he used to hang out wearing them.

This made me smile. I would do that. Yes I am dramatic, stubbirn and blunt but I will give you the shirt off my back.

I recently offered to lend a friend some money. He said he didn't need it so I bought some new boots. He then came back a week later and said "Can I take you up on that offer?" I'm like @^ $ &% (#. I wouldn't/shouldn't have bought the boots. I am taking him the money tomorrow. I really don't have it though. But I will figure out something. He needs it.

Oh and before anyone suggests I take the boots back...you know that is not going to happen. 🙂

Posted by seraph

Posted by Nala13


You have cold , calculating and dangerous under your Avatar

Oh that's just alotta talk. 😉

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Now, you know it's not. Well maybe a little bit. I am sure we are no match for um say the Scorpianistas but I think we can hold our own.

I was (and still am) looking forward to getting to know you, and I'm glad you didn't leave! 🙂

Do you mean 3rd decan Leos? or 3rd decan people from any and every sign? I don't have much experience with Aries decanate Leos, but Arians make me feel the way 3rd decans make you feel, methinks.

hmmm, me? Why do I have no memory of disputes with you?


I do tend to let go of things as soon as possible, so maybe that's why. I do agree with "Hurt people, hurt people". Truest quote ever.

Hope you are feeling better and choosing not to leave dxp. 🙂

A 3rd decanate leo *is* an aries decanate leo, they are synonymous, same thing. A 1st decanate leo is the leo decanate, 2nd decanate is the sag decanate, 3rd is aries (works in sequential order).

For this reason she's referring to 3rd decanate leos specifically. For instance I'm a pisces at 2 degrees pisces, hence 1st decanate - hence in the pisces decanate of pisces. Very different kettle of fish to a 3rd decanate leo 😛

I know about decanates, was just wondering if she meant Leos in particular or if she included other signs as well.