My Leo stepbrother and his girlfriends

My Leo stepbrother (ugh... he's probably the epitome of a 'bad Leo guy', and is completely unstable) always dates females with kids. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it, trust me. It's just something that I've noticed.

He's 22 and dates females his age and younger.

His chart:
Sun: Leo
Moon: Sagittarius
Mercury: Virgo
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Taurus
Jupiter: Cancer

Lilith: Sagittarius
Asc Node: Aquarius

Some interesting aspects:
Square Moon - Mercury
Opposition Venus - Saturn
Opposition Venus - Uranus
Opposition Venus - Neptune
Trine Mars - Saturn
Opposition Mars - Pluto

He's into partying and known for heavy heavy drug use. He's had 3-4 girls that have had kids before dating him. He's been with his latest girlfriend for awhile (I BELIEVE they're still dating, but that's never obvious either way). Have you ever known a Leo to act like this?

Is this the same nephew that you mentioned being proud of, Jynja? 🙂

My stepbrother turned 18 when my stepfather and my Mother married. By that point, a messy divorce had already occurred between his mother and Gemini father... resulting in his brother living states away with his mother. Many times, Ive noticed how similar my stepbrother's past is to mine (I was also cheated out of growing up with my blood siblings along with past experimentation in not so legal matters).. yet the results have been so different..

Parental guidance really plays a vital difference. Without my Capricorn sun Aquarius moon Mother, I know I'd be a wild Lioness sniffing the daisies and rolling around in the grasses all day.

Tomorrow morning.. first thing I'm doing is hugging Mama. 😛

The females he dates aren't very crazy, sometimes dramatic, but honestly it's a bit of an age thing.

I'm probably going to be shot with a silver bullet for saying this but I think there is something um a little unstable about every Venus in Cancer person I have ever met on dxpnet and in RL. They have this need to be in relationships no matter the cost. It's like they can not be single. I am going to do more research before I make my final analysis. 😉

Sometimes being co-dependant is not a bad thing. Sometimes it is.

Posted by Huntress
He's had 3-4 girls that have had kids before dating him.

Wait, that's a bad thing? lol

Lately I find myself insanely attracted to women in their 30's with kids. They seem more relaxed somehow. 🙂

Posted by ninjafish


Incidentally, my leo is almost 8 years younger than I am.

Same! Mine's moon is also in Cancer, weird

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by Huntress
He's had 3-4 girls that have had kids before dating him.

Wait, that's a bad thing? lol

Lately I find myself insanely attracted to women in their 30's with kids. They seem more relaxed somehow. 🙂

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I'm quoting myself because evidently the text wasn't read the first time.

~ 'always dates females with kids. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it, trust me'

~ 'He's 22 and dates females his age and younger'

He's never dated older women. They're all 19, 17, 18 and with children. There's usually not much relaxation when you're that young with kids.

Posted by ninjafish
Maybe his cancer moon-venus appreciate the maternally minded female? Or are these ladies just crazy but happen to have babies?

Incidentally, my leo is almost 8 years younger than I am.

You're referring to Jynja, right? Because the chart that I posted has Sagittarius as a Moon.

Posted by WoundedLeo
Yeah, it's problematic that he's dating babies with babies. I hear ya Huntress.

It breaks my heart hearing their kids call him 'Daddy' and then they break up. 😢

I know that I'm not right in judging this.. but shit.. the girls are barely legal and are partying alongside him.. then going home and taking care of children with him. The accidents that could occur reel through my mind. None of the children that he's been around with these girls have been of nursing age, but I don't think I want to imagine if the behavior was being practiced while they were nursing. Regardless, taking care of young children on god knows what doesn't seem to be a healthy practice.

There's just so much wrong in this situation.

Posted by Jynja
lol Jynja ain't got a Leo, she's rolling with big bad bugs lol

Huntress, you know it's his moon conjunction Lilith right? Hand him a passport and a plane ticket somewhere. After his lunar return, he'll be a changed man 😄

I phrased it oddly.. I meant referring to Jynja in context - it was the only logic I could pull from her mentioning something about a Cancer Moon because otherwise her statement made no sense in reference to my topic 😉

I figured as much however I'm not well read on Lilith, like you or Elle. I didn't want to assume based on topics that I am weak in.

Posted by ninjafish
Sorry huntress, I got that wrong. Venus in cancer alone could do it too though, imo - an attraction to maternal females, though from what you have described concerning the women he is with, they don't sound particularly nurturing. I don't know why I thought he had both the moon and venus there, perhaps I was still thinking of enfant. My apologies.

Sweetheart, don't be sorry. It's understandable.

Earlier I replied without realizing that my tone could be read as a bit bitchy. I'm not sure if it was read like that, but if it was, I'm sorry.

His relationship with his mother is a sore spot for him, and he seems to be quite resentful of her/'what she's done'. I'm sure that has effected him greatly.

Posted by ninjafish
Oh no problem, you were stating the facts lol! You don't seem bitchy 🙂

Does he care fondly for the kids of the women he dates?

He loves them and is very paternal with them.

It's quite sweet to see. I see a peek of Leo when he's like that around me. 🙂

I totally agree!!

The day I caught my Scorpion talking to my dog without him knowing I noticed, I totally swooned. (Actually, I just got back from hugging every single dog and cat that I passed by in 3 different pet stores with my spouse and his niece, tehee)