gemmyblues
@gemmyblues
12 YearsGemini
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Need help understanding Leo boyfriend...
There really isn't much to understand. Guys come over to you and flirt with you, you allow them to flirt and your boyfriend gets mad/annoyed/jealous about it - pretty normal reaction to me, he's not getting mad because your taking centre stage he's getting mad because in his eyes you're not making it clear you are taken. If I was out with my man and women kept coming over and flirting with him I wouldn't have a problem with that, what I would have a problem with is if he didn't make it clear he wasn't for flirting with and he is with someone, he can be completely polite while doing this and if they are complete strangers then the interaction should only take seconds before they have been sent on their merry way.
I do make it known that I'm taken if the opportunity arises. Personally I think it's rude just to blurt out that you're in a relationship to a stranger who is making polite conversation, it's very presumptuous if they haven't alluded to anything.
Posted by gemmyblues
I do make it known that I'm taken if the opportunity arises. Personally I think it's rude just to blurt out that you're in a relationship to a stranger who is making polite conversation, it's very presumptuous if they haven't alluded to anything.
Let's be real...you like the attention. You also appear to like your boyfriend. The only thing you need to do is figure out which you like more and proceed accordingly.
It's not that difficult.
Posted by gemmyblues
I do make it known that I'm taken if the opportunity arises. Personally I think it's rude just to blurt out that you're in a relationship to a stranger who is making polite conversation, it's very presumptuous if they haven't alluded to anything.
LOL, the strangers are approaching you to make polite conversation 🙂
You're enjoying it, you know why they are approaching you and you keep it going. The only person who is on the receiving end of Rude is your boyfriend, what is he doing while you are ever so politely not discouraging these random men to keep hanging around you?
I'm Gem and my "partner" is Leo (he's still on the fence about labeling it a relationship) but what I do know. I can't talk to anyone without having to explain. Leo's are very possessive and their jealousy can be very ugly. the 2 signs go well together but communicate communicate communicate. he wants to always be #1 as far as Gem talking to other people. it's hard for us not too and yes people take it as flirty. I understand what it's like to talk to everyone in the room. it's harmless to us but I always get asked why I talked to that person or did I just waive at a stranger at a red light. I've learned to tone it down quite. but I like to flirt sometimes too. remember air fuels fire. be careful. talk to him. put a spin on it. asked him to read up on Geminis so he understands you a little bit better. we often come off as something we truly are not. good luck.
Posted by celticlioness
LOL, the strangers are approaching you to make polite conversation 🙂
You're enjoying it, you know why they are approaching you and you keep it going. The only person who is on the receiving end of Rude is your boyfriend, what is he doing while you are ever so politely not discouraging these random men to keep hanging around you?
I second said rebuttals and inquiries.
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