re:CAncer and leos

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I am ALL FOR serious commitment.

But I think for Leos that doesn't mean being super-glued at the hip. Have interests outside of her or else she may just get bored by being "worshipped" 24/7.

I say this because I think space is something most Leos on the board have all agreed on in the past.

I was in a relationship with a Cancer for quite some time once. And the one thing that bothered me the most is that he imagined hurt when there was no reason for it. I don't mind a little possesiveness. It can be nice and we all know Leos get jealous too. But no reason is a different matter. If you have this in you, be try to be choosy about your battles. I'm not saying you do, only IF you do.


If you are of the attentive Cancer variety that's always a plus : )
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Hey i gave people space i understand the need for it,but i think what happens with us cancers is that when we got something after so much stress with other relationships, we tend to ensure we please our partners and any eye that come on the lady or any fellas talking to her we can get a bit possesive. Leos need to be free and have a good party life or something with social events,Hey i'm all for it but do not show any response to our efforts in wanting to have u as our partner ,cause cancers especially after all the time spent will DEFinitely express allll our emotions. But other than that we cool,lol.
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...Leos need to be free and have a good party life or something with social events...

What's funny is that I am far from social lol

....do not show any response to our efforts in wanting to have u as our partner...

Explain?


...cause cancers especially after all the time spent will DEFinitely express allll our emotions....

And expressing emotions is a good thing. Not all Cancers can do this, the fact that you can may be a good thing if you happen to have an expressive Leo.
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i was with a cancer for a year..and NO ONE will ever top the kind of love a Cancer can give (like crying with them while watching a sad movie or making "literal love" not just sex. I agree though that Cancers moods can change so drastically and imagine unintended hurts.. they can remain so silent that you wishthey could fight and yell at you instead of the silent treatment.. I still love him but i'd never go back..My scorpio man changed my heart,,,he's much more loyal (althoug not as verbally expressive) Scorpios walk thier talk...Cancers talk more than walk in the emotional sphere of things..i dunno
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Well I'm definitely not afraid of a serious relationship, but I agree with what purrrfect said. I think that maybe Cancer and Leo have different ideas about commitment. Because yeah it's true that Leos need space to have a social life and other things that aren't all about the relationship. Otherwise it becomes suffocating. Being with someone 24/7 no matter how much I love them is just not appealing to me. Does that make it less "serious"? I don't think so, because I'm extremely loyal and the person I'm committed to is always "the apple of my eye" 😛
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no no roni your rambling is GOOD...brings some interest to this undeniably dull place...meaning the Leo board

"i often think of myself in a long term relationship with someone (anyone) who i may be seeing, and (i don't know, maybe it's just because i'm a horrible "morning person"), i can't ever seem to envision waking up to them on a daily basis. i don't think it would take too long before i just said, this has got to end."

you freak! I'm kidding
What do you think it is? The monotony?