Should i pursue the leo guy? :)

Hi leo's

I think i have mentioned in another thread about how great i think leo's are. I have been slowly getting to know this leo guy for a few months. When we first met, i was stuck in a sticky situation with a virgo. to give you the run down ...leo guy and i met and first started talkin on a break. I thought he was so cute and very smart. He kind of had this little shyness about him 😛...anyway he goes on a lunch break one day with virgo, i walked in and out of a room while they were sitting down eating and my impression was that he had obviously complimented me (because virgo cracks the shits big time)..after that leo didn't speak to me for a good while. I knew that virgo had said something to him to push him away from me. Leo, i could tell didn't want to be apart of whatever it was virgo was doing (at the time testing me)....he asked me to come on a break with him (he knew virgo wasn't going to like this but he asked me infront of him anyway because at the time, virgo began chasing another girl)

Leo guy would just stare at me all the time. Once that drama had cooled off, leo guy and i began talking again. Before i knew it, he was asking me to come on every break he/i had. Our converstations were great. I love his mind. We began talking about which clubs were the best to go etc...and we both even talked about hook ups we had had. Leo guy would express jealousy when i would mention another guy. At one point he said that he was going out with his mates to a club and suggested i should go after he had said that he wouldn't want to see anyone from work, outside of work.

He began asking me if i was going to stay back until he finished, he would have a big smile on his face when i would go to him, he began giving me lifts home etc...basically it's obvious we have chemistry there.

Then he comes back from a few days off and he all of a sudden is distant and quiet with me. I knew he was/is still single and i know he takes great pride in his work so i knew that he had some work related issues. It felt like he had become a little more...cautious with me. Sometimes he would just ignore me (mainly when people were around)...and yeah he even became a little mean yet we still hang together.

I'm the only girl he lets hug him around work lol he just said one night "you can hug me if you want"...we talk and have flirted quite on facebook ( he initiated it though he says he idn't 😛)...and at times it felt like he would ask a question to test my answer

He stares ALL THE TIME...he doesn't seem as playful as he was. I caught him saying "i love you" to his mate which i found to adorable...i told him and i said "it's cute because it's hard saying that in other areas" (meaning to girls)....and he stopped what he was doing, looked up at me and gave me the biggest smile lol

Is this leo guy becoming interested?..is this something i should act on (a little 😛) or is this behaivour normal?..i have only ever had one experince with a leo guy and that was when i was a teenager. I don't want to ruin a friendship but his behaviour towards me is making me curious 😛

thanks all
xoxoxoxoxox

Did you speak with him while he was away? Us Leo's can be very funny creatures, the attention has to come in the right amount of doses.... Not too much, and not too little!

Maybe he felt ignored by you while he was away, maybe he feels like you dont really CARE about him... Not sure.... But, it's clear, y'all like each other so dont go engineering anything by 'PURSUING' him. If you think he has become distant, ask him and be honest. However, it sounds to me like you guys are moving along just fine.

Just be yourself and be honest with him, and as for this Virgo.... Well, dont mind him...

Thank you 🙂....I have got that feeling that he felt ignored. That is what it looked like anyway. I get along really well with my manager and several times ive been all playul with him while leo guy was around and he just went quiet and looked at the floor.

During the time he was away....we didn't have contact with eachother because we were not on eachothers facebook. It feels like this leo has some issues about closeness. He has admitted that he doesn't really understand emotions. That is what i like about him. He's straight to the point. Is it a leo trait to have their personality change a little when their in the presence of thier friends?..i have found that my leo best friend does this also...they become more flamboyant.

Ok, if you also get that feeling then let him know that had you have been FB friends you could have hollad at him etc, this will also open the forum to discussing more about him/you,if he's see's you as a potential G/F etc, dont be afraid to be real with him!

I personally feel loved and wanted when Im around my people... So maybe this explains why your friend becomes more 'flamboyant' around his/her friends... If you feel appreciated, relaxed, comfortable, wanted etc, people tend to shine and flourish and their true selves come alive. You may also notice that your friend becomes playful aswell. They just feeling happy. :-)

From what you've written you seem to have a great friendship that may very well lead to more but now that you're starting to worry about where/how he is with emotions and how he is around you be very careful coz if not, you'll find yourself swept up in emotions/hormones and ruin a good thing by questioning/worrying/fabricating problems in your head.

Be who you always have been - YOURSELF. Its him who went away so its him who needs to come to you again...let him, dont do the work for him 🙂

Be that smile he always likes, be yourself and enjoy the attention he gives you when he gives it to you - dont worry about whats up

Ok..will do. He really intrigues me...he has soooo much to say on so many things. When we are talking on fb, it's obviously not as good because we are not face to face. He remembers things ive said and asks me how specific issues are going in my life. I think thats really sweet that he even remembers.

There is just one little weird thing ive noticed. While we were talking on fb...he randonmly said "f*#k my life is hard"...so i asked howcome and then he changed the subject.

Okay...an update (if anyone is interested lol)

This leo guy is starting to show alot of shyness. I catch him looking at me and then he quickly looks away. He is becoming more silent around me as opposed to before and he keeps bringing up the whole issue between me and the virgo. He kind of ignores around others too and i really dont think he likes it when i talk to other co-workers (men). The guy that i speak to is way older than me and he knew about us having contact outside of work because my manager said he told him. My manager always talks about me to people, we arepretty close. Whats that jealsousy? He wanted to know if i got things sorted out with the Virgo. He now has a girlfriend and we dont talk to eachother anymore. While we were having a break together, he asked me again if virgo and i are all good and i said "no"...(though it doesnt bother me anymore that we arnt talking)...then leo guy looks down, starts figditing with his arm saying "you must of had a big thing for him then if your not talking to him"..then he went on to recite EVERY LITTLE WORD that i said to him on fb about the situation. I was stunned he even remembered. He was moody while he said it too. I wanted to ask "why do you care?"...but i didnt want to make him feel uncomfortable.

He also saw me coming towards him the other day at work and just minutes before he seemed a little rude, looking at me but not saying much..so when i walked past him as i was heading back to work, he looked at me and said "i'm buying a new car...do you want my other car?"...i'm talking random here lol he just said it and he's car is no shit on wheels. It's the most flashiest car ive ever seen!..he wants an upgrade and i couldn't (and still cant) beleive he has offered to sell it to me out of all the poeple he knows. It's becoming weird.

Does it sound like he's developing actual feelings here? if so i can only imagine my situtaion with the virgo is utterly confusing him.

If he wants me...he can have me. That is what i want him to know. Are you serious about this power thing? lol that explains the random question! not to mention he always tries to be all "macho" around me. It's the shyness that makes it awkward. He has always put himself out there as this guy who can pull all the women and such so when he turns shy on me....it's actually kind of cute 😛.

Ok Scorpchick, this is your que to HINT at a date. He like you... I say Mr Leo is Feeling you, the shyness speaks volumes ;0) Dont pursue him, just guide him a little into thinking it was all his idea. Good luck.

Ok, so the shyness is a good thing? even the little hint of rudness?...ohh im excited 😛 i dont really know how im going to hint at a date. I guess he would be waiting till he finds a signal from that screams "I LIKE YOU!"...i havent heard bout him hooking up with anyone (unless he isnt telling me)

I asked him if he wanted any company one day on his lunch break...but i had to ask when i had a bad virus didnt i? 😛...im just a little scared that he might be doing this just for sex. I dont know the difference when it comes to HIM or leo males. I guess he would be more confident with this whole thing if he were going just for sex? I just dont want the same thing happening to me that went down with the virgo.

HI all 🙂

Ok..im starting to pick up on odd things about this leo and i would like to know if these are leo traits or whatever. Sometimes i get the feeling that leo guy gets a little disappointed when i say certain things that could relate back to him. Ex..not long after we began hanging out after work...i was waiting for him to finish work and when he did, we were walking out to his car (he was taking me home) and he asked me why i was still around when i had finished work a few hours ago. i said "waiting for you"...but i said it in a joking way. I didnt want to give him the impression that i actually was because i didnt(and still dont) know how he feels. Anyway while we were in the car...he seemed moody, not very talky like the way he normally is.

the same kind of situation happened only yesturday when we were on a break together. I had told him that i was at work picking up some things but i didnt go and see him (i couldnt find him for starters lol)..he looked all moody again...all hunched over and just looking around when he was fine only seconds before. Is he hoping i would just say it?..that i was waiting for/ wanted to see him etc...?

Now that i think about it he has been doing that since he first met me (which i find weird because he knew bugger all about me)...do leos try and get people to show their emotions? does he want me to make a move or am i just seeing things?..i thought leos were confident when it came to women?

Posted by LovelyMissAries
A leo won't bullshit you. 🙂

^^^^^^ Truth!

Haha..yeah, he's birthday is on the 1st of august! and he's comes across emotional and whingy. It just makes me feel awkward when he does things like that because it makes me feel like i have to say something to make him feel better when i dont know why he's doing it.

last night we started talking on facebook and he was obviously board. I said he could always talk to me and i actually said we could talk about whatever he wanted to talk about (in a friendly manner 😛) and then he didnt reply. Ive also noticed that sometimes when we are talking..he wont reply to something ive said...he just looks deep in thought. I know he's listening to me it's just a little weird that he sometimes doesn't respond.

He hasn't been talking about ANY hook ups, not even my friend has heard anything which leads me to believe that he hasn't been hooking up (trust me it's weird for him lol).....

My moon is in gemini and leo dude is striking me as the type of person who isnt as direct as other leos. I dont feel comfortable right now approaching him on a subject such as dating...he really goes awkward when i throw the ball in his court. Ive tried bringing the whole girlfriend/boyfriend issue with him before (not between him and i just in general) and it wasnt long before he was changing the subject. I dont think he likes talking about anything to personal with me. He was being shy as hell with me when i saw him last and thats not making it any easy on me either lol

i'll ask him or hint at it when he calms the hell down lol

Thank you! 🙂...you are close on the age thing. He's 21 and im 24. He knows i have my own life. Ive just recently started up my dance teaching again so he knows all about that. Yes...i cant be very emotional but i can keep it under good control. I'm not pouring my heart out to him at all. Infact...he doesnt really know anything about me lol

I know he finds me hot lol....his facial expression says it all 😉 and he didnt hide it from me at all when we first met. I gave him my lighter once to borrow on a break and he said "thanks for the fire....in my pants" i was stunned. Not to mention the eyeing off. I dont want to blow this because under that guard that i think he has...i know is a very genuine guy. I just didnt like it yesturday when it felt like he was being real distant with me.

My moons in gemini and i'm pisces ascendent and i have ADD/anxiety disorder. I get a big feeling he is very insecure underneath. His outlook is great but he needs to practice what he preaches. I think the situation between me and the virgo has been playing his mind....and yes i do think he manipulates. Infact i think he's manipulating the virgo because when virgo is around he doesnt talk to me.

I actually didnt stop and speak to him when i came into work on thursday and he saw it and didnt go near me unitl the end of the day. He kept walking past me and i knew it was intentional. Then when i came out after work in the car park.....he was gone...does he think i rejected him?

oh okay...because i was a little worried. I actually didnt go near him because the night before we were talking on facebook and he just kind of logged off. He had to get up the next morning, i understand that....i just was a little taken back and then i had to remember that he does things like that. You could be talking to him and then he'll just get up and walk away....it was one of the first things i noticed about him lolken on f

We havent spoken on fb all weekend so it'll be interesting when i see him next. Wouldn't the moon in pisces make him emotional and passive?

LovelyMissAries...your being a really big help! thank you 🙂

I know he's sensitive...i can just tell by little details and reactions he has to certain things. Yes....he does cover it up. Sometimes well, other times no. I suppose the next time i see him, i should just play it cool right?...and i also get the feeling he has been hurt in the past by a girl. I remember that day when he sat their and simpy said wth a serious look onhis face.."girls can be bitches" or something to that effect. I sense the whole thing between him and i is going to become fragile.

I was actually taken aback when he walked past me and looked passive. It goes against his whole "manly man" outlook. He was on fb before but i had a class on so i didnt get to see if he was gonna talk to me. Is it a common trait for leos to try and get YOU to show THEM how you feel? are they expecting the other person to go to them?

Just an update (for those who care lol)..i went into work a little nervy because i hadnt seen leo guy since the day we kind of avoided eacother or whatever. The staring is becoming to intense and he's definelty acting childlike when in company and aloof when he talks to me lol

I just finished talking to him on fb ( i was scared he wasnt going to answer)...and i asked how he knee was (he was off work the last 2 days because of it) and i complimented him on his skating. He then sent me a link to youtube telling me i need to watch it. It's a video has his friends in pro comps. 😛..hope these are good sign :s

I'm still playing it cool...dont want to ruin anything.

Hi everyone,

You are probably all getting sick of this thread lol but this leo guy is really starting to confuse me. As of last friday..leo guy has gone distant with me again. It's weird because the night before (as said) we had a great convo and he ws letting me see his firnds doing what they do etc....but when i saw him the next day....he was all distant yet he put himslef in a position where he could see me from afar but he hardly went near me. Then at the end of the day when we were standing right next to eachother (to leave work) he couldn't even look me in the eye. He just stood there and pulled a poker face...then he quickly jumped in his car and left. We hadn't been talking on fb for a few days because i was busy with my dancing etc.....(which i told him today that i had been at the studio everynight)

Both yesturday and today he was still distant with me..yet i caught him looking everytime i spoke to another guy and just randomly. I asked him if he was going on a break so i could see him (unfortunitly we couldn't get on our breaks together after he said he was going to be in about fifteen minutes).....his aloofness is just getting to me. Today i was sitting on my own and he came out (he knows what time i finish)...i asked what he's been up to and he said nothing which stunned me because he always had something to say about ging out with his mates etc....thne i find out that he actually had been doing nothing. There is this bar he goes most wensday nights (he has a tendancy to hook up when he's there)..and i thought he had been still going, just not telling me until i saw a message from his mates saying that he's going and leo guy's presence has been missed. Basically it feels like he is starting to turn complelty cold on me!...he does tell me that he had been talking other chicks on fb but they were just random chicks (which i believe)..thats just his honesty. It felt just weird today while i was talking to him. Lots of silences lol

Is he becoming disinterested? or is this normal?..i guess i'm paranoid that he's going to be hooking up or something.

Messing with me? in a bad way?

LOL he's the one who's afraid to come talk to me. He can't even relax when he's with me lol

All this isn't harmful is it? I also know that he keeps people at arms length because that is what he told me as advice when i was talking about not being able to trust certain people.

Which is why he should...being a leo and all 😛

ok...hey im new to dis...i have been on the internet tryn to found out wha the f55k is up with dis guy that is a leo tha i reallllly like..(maybe love)...we are in college n we met bout four semester ago...he saw at a party and came up to me...everything went from there...i had found out that he had more than one gurl on campus...but me being a freshman didnt think two much of it....he had a main gurl..found out bout her in a F**ked way...but i still mess with him...me and him became realllllllllllllllly close...and that gurl that he was with didnt even get wha i got...he told me dam near everything...we wnt on a winter break...n we talk everyday...txted every morning...things was great...but whn we got bck to skool...that gurl was in his room every nite...(she is ugly and dont really know how to dress and she do whaever he tell her to do)...i was feelin some type of way bout it..but i jus chill...he stp mess wit the other to n it was jus me the other gurl with self-eteems problem...but he all wanted me around even if she was there...then he stop talkin to me lik that...n i felt he didnt care bout me anyone... so of the other gurl that he use to mess with...was talkin all that in my ear..tellin me that he didnt care bout me n jus that gurl...n cus he wasnt talkin to me i thought it was true...so i got close to the gurl...n something realllllly bad happen...i mean reallly bad...n me and him stop talkin for a half semester and a whole summer...ohhh yea me and his friends are realllly close to...im like the queen of the group if you wnt to say...they look out for me...but tha summer we werent talkin i was talkin to his friend and they were tellin me how he was doin on the low...whn we got bck to skool it was hard cus everyone was friends with him...would go to his house and hang...so i told his friend how i felt and he tlk to him...than we started to talk again..we were kool but he was still talkin to tha one ugly gurl...whn she found out tha me and him was talkkin...they fought every night and day...everytime she heard my name...so i cant go over there...she hurt him reallllly bad...but he forgave her...she left now...its jus me and him...but now he treating me like im jus other chick...i told him that i care and i brought him a bear for V-day...n he loved it but...now i feel lik he needs to step it up a little...i told him that if he want wha i got...he is goin to have to ask...n he was like im not goin to ask cus he can have any gurl he want so i was lik

yea...whn i was doin all that...he told me i was doin to much...and so i was like im not going to do anything im goin to put my feelin on mute...so he goin to have to ask me...i was tellin him that he is the shyt n all that n he was like control your feelings...i mean one min he like...happy n smile the next his is distance and quiet lik he think really hard...i dont know what to do...yes leos ughhhhhhhhh....it pissing me off...i care about him so much

I guess the gemini in venus is making an appearence lol

Leo guy told me and a friend last friday that he had to go sort things out with an "ex girlfriend" who's "not getting the message"..i had seen him on the phone texting and stuff during the day. When he said this two us he looked awkward as hell. He couldn't even look me in the eye. So when i saw him next at work, i had asked him if he got things sorted out with her and he said "yes" that he did the whole "are you okay" thing when he really saw it all as a burden. Today i caught two girls getting all hissy because leo guy was standing there and when he saw them...he put his hand to his face as if he was covering himself..then he looked back at me. I thought "yeah...some chick he has probably hooked up with before or whatever" but then i didnt see him pretty much all day and when i did walk past with a friend, he looked scared a little. I backed off because this confused me a little ( it could of been me distancing..i'll just add🙂)...my first thought was that this could of been his ex walking into our work but i thought that was just me being paranoid. I was conviced he was going off to the bar that his friends and him go to (where they normally hook up and stuff) and was just lying to me about it but then the evidence that he hadnt been going showed up on fb. I'm a scorpio and sometimes we think we sense evil..when there is none. I personally think that he hasnt hooked up..he's just become aware of what has been going on between us.

I know i could just approach him and get it all out in the open but right now i dont want to do that until i get a least a little clear understanding for myself first. He told me not talking to the virgo (guy i had feelings for)..was the "wrong approach" and i dont get why he even cares..he thinks it's because of my feeling towards virguy, he told me himslef....i mean do leos still stay friend with ex's? or is it to make it easier for him? he did just offically get rid of this other girl...

i would really like insight on this so i know if this whole thing is even worth it lol

xoxoxox
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I stayed put...the only time i reacted was when he did and all i did was not give him attention. Not to mention...his mates have been more friendly to me so this dick has obviously been saying stuff lol the whole jealousy thing...i told him about another guy (work friend) being attracted to me and he stopped what he was doing and just stood there like he was trying to process what i just said lol i think it's funny really. His random questions then he's ignoring....i never realised how much of a wimp he is. I dont get it lol

HI all 🙂

I was going to make another thread about this then thought "wtf for?.." so here goes..

I looked up what his natal chart was (sick as a dog at the moment so i thought i'd look it up 😛)) and this leo guy's venus is in virgo...so the first anaylsis was right. He has a sun/moon and mercury in leo. Kind of dissappointed....i was hoping he would have the pisces moon....sigh

i'm not very educated when it comes to natal charts and astrology (still learning) so what does venus in virgo mean exactly?...i thought his venus was in gemini but thank god it isn't lol

Oh jesus...i put up with that crap for over a year with the virgo lol it drove me insane!

Is there any way i can stop this?

Nope..not a venus in virgo 😛 still a venus in gemini..i got the dates wrong (my bad) and im starting to wonder how long this cat and mouse chase will go on for. I know he's boasting (well i hope boasting) bout me because his friends are basically throwing it my face lolol..his pices moon i think really has an effect on him. He aint coming across confident.

Looks like im gonna have to bite the damn bullet! 😛

Just happened upon this and thought I would share my Leo guy story. First off I am a sag girl and we are a crazy bunch. The Leo I am into works with me as well. I actually did a double take when I first saw him. He didn't say much at first so I started emailing him on FB. Stupid I know but a safe zone for getting to know someone outside of work. After a couple of cute emails I asked him out. He said he was busy and maybe the next week we could get together. Now most people would back off and maybe my sag nature doesn't allow me to do that. So I asked again but this time for something I knew he wouldn't be able to say no to. Mostly because I took some time to find out what he loves and what he loves to do and then made sure that I got the best seats, etc. I basically had to inject myself into his life. He is shy, but only on the surface. We have gone out, made out, and he seems to want to take his time in everything. Possibly to make sure that I really do only want him. No, there has been no sex, but other stuff. I think Leo men really want to be with that someone special. You will have to make him feel that way. When my Leo asks me about other guys I smile and tell him I only see him. If I am thinking about him or missing him I will shoot a text to him and tell him exactly that. He always responds and seems happy that I will tell him things. Complimenting a Leo could get you everywhere. And compliment often. Think of how you like to be told nice things and multiply that by like 50 and that is how often you should compliment your Leo.

You also have to remember that Leo men can actually take their sweet time while in the beginning of a relationship. Let him, but if you are confused you should ask him. He will tell you. You should just ask him out please. If he says no he may just be testing your reaction. My Leo does that. Just last night I asked if wanted to get together and he gave some cold answer. I smiled, said okay. 30 minutes later he was texting me and being so sweet. They want to know you are not easily affected and that they still have some independence. But it doesn't mean you should give up. When a Leo man likes you he really likes you and will be incredibly loyal to you while being one of the most romantic partners a girl could hope for. Maybe since I am a sag these things really don't bother me since we usually have one foot out of the door anyway, but we sag gals get along famously with the lion. So heed my advice and ask him out!!!

Oh thanks for your response🙂

See...i have another thread around here somewhere and basically i've been told (leo and i admitted to eachothers feelings) that he is not interested because he hasnt come to me straight away. Though i know im not dealing with a typical leo. We got into a little...uh...tiff because he thought i was being rude to him. I managed to get it across to him that it was a misunderstanding but ever since then he seems to have pulled back. He's alot more cautious when near me(and shy which was cute in the beginning )....i get the sense that he doesnt like being pushed into things and im just trying to figure out if this is something to worry about (him pulling back) or if he's to afraid to come to me and say no. There is thisother guy(virgo)that we i work with who has been filling his head with crap about me but the leo came to me anyway (some time last year) we havent slept together and this actually surprises me because as soon as i said "i like you" to him i thought he would be trying to get me into bed almost instantly. He spent ages trying to get me to admit i liked him so i think this is plain weird. I'm trying to be understanding of all this...letting him prowl and not be around him all the time and stuff but im just getting confused wether he's trying to put it out ehere that

I get the feeling that leo guy is telling the virgo differently. Manipulating him somewhat by mentioning another girl and saying he likes her or whatever. Leo guy doesnt like "gossip" and drama. I only see the leo around her mainly when this other guy is with him. He's cracked onto her before but she apparently likes someone else (leo did that after the first pull back he did yet he didnt know where he stood with me because i hadn't told him my feelings at that time) This virgo has caused ALOT of drama by trying to pull us apart...ever since we first met so i was wondering if the leo is 'protecting' by mentioning this other gir, or trying not to lose face (he doesnt seem comfortable at all with any him and i talk) ......

Sorry the last line of the first part wasn't finished lol

I meant to say i dont know if he's trying to tell me to go away or something....