::sigh::

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sweat.lioness
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Awww. Thank you. I was feeling a little down because I have some vacation days and honestly I don't see as much effort as I have seen in the past. I hear sweet talking but the actions fail to really show anything. He spent some time with me and left another waiting which I guess shows something but I don't know...the communication is just very blah. When before the "time issue" or even sometimes during..I felt that the communication was that similar to a best mate, now I feel like it's just blah...even stranger like. Kind of disappointing...especially since I have some days free. But you two are right..it's probably for the best. Thank you for the support. You are wonderful lions. 🙂
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Do you feel resentful for him invading your privacy? I don't think a Scorpio can be scaled back from that sort of intrusion. And it's only his possessiveness, and it's unjustified in all forms.

Spend those days with the best possible person - YOU. Let yourself recharge.

Thank you for yours as well 🙂 A listening ear is sometimes the best way to sort things out. Never hesitate if you need to talk; always here!
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Well honestly I'm not sure if he's invading my privacy.

But I guess he kind of gave it away by calling me a "forum w4ore" without me mentioning anything every about the internet whatsoever.

Or mentioning specific topics that I've posted about.

Or when trading phones to play around with the tech., he instead looks through my text messages.....while I try to see his games to find that his phone is locked.

I think the thing that has been bothering me the most is that I took your advice and have tried to keep in contact in little ways about the day...

but he's been kind of ignoring the messages and pulling the..."now I'm too busy for you" card.

I really was trying my best to compromise and not be too "dramatic".

But even though he says he was "tired" of me being direct with my issues,

I'm "tired" of being ignored and treated like a "dumb woman".

I've seen these really weird patterns where there's another woman around a
nd he'll quickly take her side, agree with her, say that she's so intelligent...

Then when I suggest something, he'll question my intelligence/refute what I am saying/ and doubt me.

He says he cares but I'm starting to think he just likes the attention or feels comfortable.

And I don't want to waste anyone's time.

But it's a shame...there was a very passionate and romantic period between us...

I was really falling for him. 😢
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Posted by sweat.lioness
Well honestly I'm not sure if he's invading my privacy.

But I guess he kind of gave it away by calling me a "forum w4ore" without me mentioning anything every about the internet whatsoever.

Or mentioning specific topics that I've posted about.

Or when trading phones to play around with the tech., he instead looks through my text messages.....while I try to see his games to find that his phone is locked.

I think the thing that has been bothering me the most is that I took your advice and have tried to keep in contact in little ways about the day...

but he's been kind of ignoring the messages and pulling the..."now I'm too busy for you" card.

I really was trying my best to compromise and not be too "dramatic".

But even though he says he was "tired" of me being direct with my issues,

I'm "tired" of being ignored and treated like a "dumb woman".

I've seen these really weird patterns where there's another woman around a
nd he'll quickly take her side, agree with her, say that she's so intelligent...

Then when I suggest something, he'll question my intelligence/refute what I am saying/ and doubt me.

He says he cares but I'm starting to think he just likes the attention or feels comfortable.

And I don't want to waste anyone's time.

But it's a shame...there was a very passionate and romantic period between us...

I was really falling for him. 😢



This is the behaviour that scorpio men exhibit - myself and my scorp friend talk about it all the time and he's so honest with me he will tell me the things he does and has done, especially the "revenge" type tactics - it's why I think this pairing won't ever last the distance. In the end they will do this or similar and a leo lady won't be able to take it.
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It's sort of like this with relationships; (where kind of people don't realize what they have until they lose it [with us leos] and then they "cry a river" and want you back...happens to me every single time.) Do any of you feel this way? :-\

"Now you say you're lonely
You cry the long night through
Well, you can cry me a river
Cry me a river
I cried a river over you

Now you say you're sorry
For being so untrue
Well, you can cry me a river
Cry me a river
I cried a river over you

You drove me, nearly drove me, out of my head
While you never shed a tear
Remember, I remember, all that you said
You told me love was too plebeian
Told me you were through with me and

Now you say you love me
Well, just to prove that you do
Come on and cry me a river
Cry me a river
I cried a river over you
I cried a river over you
I cried a river...over you..."