I am a female scorpio ..and my ex leo boyfriend just broke up with me last week. We have been together for a year and lived with eachother for 9 months..he lived in newyork and moved to newjersey for me. He used to be all muscles.. now he gained 30 pounds and has a belly but i never made him feel insecure about himself i told him i love him and are attracted to him regardless. One night he was on his phone and he was being a little shady..he said he was talking to his friend who lives 45 min away and was going to drive here to go to the gym with him..so when i woke up thursday morning..there was no text from that friend in his phone..so i questioned him. He said i knew you were going to look through my phone so i deleted the text..i said why would you set me up?..he said cause he knew id look through it. Then he proceeded to tell me that hes not happy with himself or where the relationship cause we fought over stupid things and he likes to be in control of things and so do i.. He literally kicked me out of our apartment cursing at me ..telling me he doesnt want to talk and we will talk when hes ready and he just wants to be alone to get his head straight..and that theres noone else. He still has me on his gym membership and massage account and told me to go get a massage. He wont let me have our puppy.on sunday when he chased after me bc i left the house keys he was crying saying he was miserable and far from okay... but right now he feels this is the best thing to do. he wont even answer my texts..i call..he picks up and hangs up.. i have been so depressed and hurt that someone could do this to me..he was my bestfriend and now hes acting like i never existed..and he said hes happy alone and just to let him be..he still wont talk to me ..and i dont understand..do you think i should just leave him alone and he would come back ? he still has all our pictures up in the house and when i through a bag of our pictures and things in the garbage he picked it back out and hid them so i couldnt throw them out..and did it again on sunday with another bag of things he had given to me from the first day we met..i did notice he feels he needs to be in control all the time.. i felt like a maid..hed leave dirty clothes everywhre..would leave dishes for me..and id work all day and have to come home and clean..and several times i pointed out thats not right and hed freak..i dont know what to do he wont answer me no matter what i say..
