Hi, I could really use some advice to help me get closure on a situation I experienced with a Leo man. I met him while I was out of town for work, he actually lives 4 hours away from me. Immediately clicked, he pursued me. He was eerily like my twin, I've never felt so similar to someone who I had just met. We talked/texted everyday for about 3 months. I met him in July, however my divorce was finalized in April. I had gone through counseling and was ready to move forward with my life. He had issues I was able to start to see as time went by with his divorce. He has been divorced for 3yrs and hadn't yet had a relationship. He also kept telling me to give him time and that he was open to a relationship, he just needed time getting to know me and wasn't ready. He was so open at first and then he kind of slowly built some walks. We agreed to date other people, but the entire time he insisted he had issues from his divorce and that he cared about me and wanted to see if this progressed into a relationship as he got to know me. He already had plans to travel every weekend in September and October and kept promising me that he really liked me and we just met at the worst time and he would have more time to spend with me once October was over. I confided in him about my divorce and opened up to him that I didn't want to get hurt and had issues with abandonment just from my past relationship. The entire time he seemed sincere and like he was not leading me on and really wanted to try to see if this would work. Then right at the end of September/beginning of October he hardly initiated contact with me. We still texted everyday but I noticed he was taking longer to respond and stuff and then one night he said he didn't want to talk, he was going out with his friends, and that he was upset about his would have been anniversary if he was still married. The next day he said that we were just in two entirely different places in life, and that he was no where near ready for a relationship. I was frustrated and hurt. He said I had pushed him to hard, said something I had texted him earlier that week but he couldn't remember what I said?? I was pissed and hurt of course. I deleted him from FB because I just thought I needed some time away from him so I could move on. I was really surprised he didn't reach out to me the next few weeks because he had become really a good friend of mine. I realized that's what I missed. I thought about it after it had been a little over a few
