What's your...

..sign, baby?

I need help. How do I ask for someone's sign (and later DOB/COB) whom I've just started chatting with from the dating site? Lot of men folk don't list their sign. I always want to know their sign from the get go so I can anal-ize them out of the gate. It's part of the fun, mating process for me 😉

Please gimme some verbiage on how to acquire this info without sending them stalking vibes.

Iunno how to be all cute and coy and subtle about it, I just tell them I like Astrology and ask for the deets straight out so I can pull their chart. Most people (guys especially) say/think astrology is a "buncha bunk" but none have ever thought me a stalker (I don't think).. crazy and into weird shit, but not a stalker.. and yes, they give me the info I need haha

call him Mr. Virgo or any random sun sign.

He'll ask you, "what was that about ?"

you'll reply and say "I thought/assumed you're a Virgo, you sound/act like a Virgo" (or whatever)

he'll either confirm or correct you.


not sure if subtle enough, just a suggestion.

It's pretty warm here for Dec. I don't mind warm but I don't like hot. I was born in the summer and I really don't like the heat.

Then stop talking

He will say one of 2 things. I love the heat or I don't like the heat.

Then you say were you born in the summer too? He will either say no or yes. If it is no, say when were you born. If it is yes say when.

Posted by BommyKnocker
call him Mr. Virgo or any random sun sign.

He'll ask you, "what was that about ?"

you'll reply and say "I thought/assumed you're a Virgo, you sound/act like a Virgo" (or whatever)

he'll either confirm or correct you.


not sure if subtle enough, just a suggestion.

I always get pinpointed as a Leo (and my rising is Leo, as well). However, I cringe at the thought; putting it out there that you are putting 'somebody into a box' (hello Aquarian stylized thought pattern) or trying to figure them out even in the slightest can be a potent deterrent 😉

Great ideas, kids. Thanks. 🙂

Why don't you just wait and be surprised?



I never ask cuz I don't want it to skew my perception.

ha. well, in all honesty, I think the title is the best approach.

"What's your sign, baby?"

It's sexy yet has a long term commitment implication. If a woman were to have used that on me, t'would be a point on my scoreboard. ;]