I am a leo sun, pisces moon, gemeni rising but I always feel way too insecure to just let myself have fun and dance when I am out with people, only with very very close friends... if I am drunk enough π but all together I am confused wondering where this insecurity comes from... could it be my venus in virgo?? thoughts ?
WHY CANT I DANCE IN PUBLIC

Let go, dare to suck, have fun π.

Posted by cvertino
I am a leo sun, pisces moon, gemeni rising but I always feel way too insecure to just let myself have fun and dance when I am out with people, only with very very close friends... if I am drunk enough π but all together I am confused wondering where this insecurity comes from... could it be my venus in virgo?? thoughts ?
Haha...I am the same way, but this white girl has no rhythm. I do let go when I have a few drinks....but I will say even though I can't dance "These hips don't lie" and one thing I can move very well. Just the rest of the body doesn't want to comply.

Posted by cvertino
I am a leo sun, pisces moon, gemeni rising but I always feel way too insecure to just let myself have fun and dance when I am out with people, only with very very close friends... if I am drunk enough π but all together I am confused wondering where this insecurity comes from... could it be my venus in virgo?? thoughts ?
I get that-- I really do.
I have Pisces moon (and Venus in Virgo-- hmm), and I wouldn't dance until I'd had a few.
But when I was into that, I had a Libra 'bestie' who loved to go dancing (and drink beer for that matter lol)--
She would always give feedback because she wanted it, herself-- she did NOT want to look trashy (ever!), but cute and classy-- and she always did.
Drag a Libra with you-- so much fun. π
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by cvertino
I am a leo sun, pisces moon, gemeni rising but I always feel way too insecure to just let myself have fun and dance when I am out with people, only with very very close friends... if I am drunk enough π but all together I am confused wondering where this insecurity comes from... could it be my venus in virgo?? thoughts ?
I get that-- I really do.
I have Pisces moon (and Venus in Virgo-- hmm), and I wouldn't dance until I'd had a few.
But when I was into that, I had a Libra 'bestie' who loved to go dancing (and drink beer for that matter lol)--
She would always give feedback because she wanted it, herself-- she did NOT want to look trashy (ever!), but cute and classy-- and she always did.
Drag a Libra with you-- so much fun. πclick to expand
OH! air sign friends just might be the ticket!! I've been going out with a lot of earth signs lately (mostly capricorns) and I have to say of the libra's that I know, I can imagine that would be a blast, libra's always make me laugh π
Posted by DeeGee
So hard to believe with those placements......whats ur Venus and Mars?
venus, virgo...
mars in gem. twelfth house tho...
I know ! with those three signs, I should be gifted with rhythm, but alas... probably some squaring aspect that I haven't nailed down yet haha π
^^ beautifully put! It's kind of like a life goal for me; to be able to put it that way in my own proud and insane head at the moments that it would benefit me lol I guess that's why I posted this in the first place, its not just the insecurity of not being able to enjoy myself in small ways, but I think dance is beautiful and dammit I want to do it too! It is a spiritual thing that I don't want to live my whole life saying I can't do. putting it this way helps tremendously, time to put free thinking to work and stop being my own critic, who cares! I will "dare to suck" π
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