My online bestfriend who's a Leo male hasn't replied to me since Friday and it is now Sunday . He tends to take long to answer me now . On Friday he was talking about how he's going to the movies and he's so anxious and I replied and he put a laughing emojis and that's what he last said and I told him something that I was doing right after and that was 1 in the afternoon so no reply since then , then I felt really unwanted more than I ever did I was thinking of all the times he's taken a very long time to reply . So I decided to ask him does he even still want me . I said why do you take so l long to answer me all the time your the only Person I invest all my trust in like you said we have a connection , it's making me feel like you don't want me Anymore , you could care less if I was in your life or not , you don't love me anymore . I think this because usually when I take more than 6 hours to reply to someone it's cause I want nothing to do with them , that's how your making me feel . And i hate feeling like we are drifting apart your important to me . That's all I said and I Said that yesterday at 3 and he didn't answer at all and still hasn't . Why ? Does he not want me ?
Why isn't he replying ?

He's either busy or not in the mood. Wait another couple of days then send him a follow-up. If he still doesn't respond, then don't bother trying again. Let him come to you after that.

Also, you said a lot of power-punched stuff in your message. Maybe he feels overwhelmed? Do you have reason to believe that your relationship with him was based on mutual affection?

I get the feeling that you two have never met or are talking long distance. I mean no offense but if that's the case then he has probably gotten tired of the relationship.
We don't do well with people we can't actually BE with.
We don't do well with people we can't actually BE with.
Posted by sultrykittyCombine this with nagging and its enough to make a typical Leo disappear
I get the feeling that you two have never met or are talking long distance. I mean no offense but if that's the case then he has probably gotten tired of the relationship.
We don't do well with people we can't actually BE with.
Posted by PillowFortBuilderPosted by sultrykittyCombine this with nagging and its enough to make a typical Leo disappear
I get the feeling that you two have never met or are talking long distance. I mean no offense but if that's the case then he has probably gotten tired of the relationship.
We don't do well with people we can't actually BE with.click to expand
so was I nagging

Posted by Stars
My online bestfriend who's a Leo male hasn't replied to me since Friday and it is now Sunday . He tends to take long to answer me now . On Friday he was talking about how he's going to the movies and he's so anxious and I replied and he put a laughing emojis and that's what he last said and I told him something that I was doing right after and that was 1 in the afternoon so no reply since then , then I felt really unwanted more than I ever did I was thinking of all the times he's taken a very long time to reply . So I decided to ask him does he even still want me . I said why do you take so l long to answer me all the time your the only Person I invest all my trust in like you said we have a connection , it's making me feel like you don't want me Anymore , you could care less if I was in your life or not , you don't love me anymore . I think this because usually when I take more than 6 hours to reply to someone it's cause I want nothing to do with them , that's how your making me feel . And i hate feeling like we are drifting apart your important to me . That's all I said and I Said that yesterday at 3 and he didn't answer at all and still hasn't . Why ? Does he not want me ?
I'm a Leo. I think I'm a pretty straight forward person but sometimes I have a tendency to disappear too. Not sure what that's about because from what I know, that's a pisces thing.
When I'm not interested in somebody, I usually tell them nicely. Especially if I think I may see them again. But if they were an online friend, I'd probably just disappear.
I may reappear once I've thoughts things through. Like maybe explain things to you but that may take weeks, even months at a time. Or I just don't look at your messages anymore, in an effort to push it to the back of my mind. Situations that are too intense scare me.
We love attention but overwhelming attention scare us Leos away.

it sounds like he has someone else and that he chose the other person probably because of the distance or maybe he likes that person more. So he went to the movies? with who and and now he is not responding. he probably went to the movies on a "date" ..
wow six hours to respond. people are glued to their phones these days. if it takes him six hours its probably because he is busy with someone else and he is just responding when that other person is unavailable. even if it isn't anyone else. you are def not as important to him as he is to you. Did you ask who he was going to the movies with.. that might be your answer?
i have gone off on my leo guy before and he stil replys to my message and answer my calls.. he might be short but he responds. He also did that disappearing thing to me in the beginning of us dating and once we became serious he told me honestly that the reason was because in that moment he didn't want a relationship. he said that usually when he disappear its because he is done with the relationship or he sees something about the person he does not like.
If you are important enough to him im sure he will get in touch after he sorts out his feelings if not he is just not that into you.
How do you get that emotionally attached to someone who takes 6 hours to respond ? just curious ?
wow six hours to respond. people are glued to their phones these days. if it takes him six hours its probably because he is busy with someone else and he is just responding when that other person is unavailable. even if it isn't anyone else. you are def not as important to him as he is to you. Did you ask who he was going to the movies with.. that might be your answer?
i have gone off on my leo guy before and he stil replys to my message and answer my calls.. he might be short but he responds. He also did that disappearing thing to me in the beginning of us dating and once we became serious he told me honestly that the reason was because in that moment he didn't want a relationship. he said that usually when he disappear its because he is done with the relationship or he sees something about the person he does not like.
If you are important enough to him im sure he will get in touch after he sorts out his feelings if not he is just not that into you.
How do you get that emotionally attached to someone who takes 6 hours to respond ? just curious ?
Posted by Scorpio4242
it sounds like he has someone else and that he chose the other person probably because of the distance or maybe he likes that person more. So he went to the movies? with who and and now he is not responding. he probably went to the movies on a "date" ..
wow six hours to respond. people are glued to their phones these days. if it takes him six hours its probably because he is busy with someone else and he is just responding when that other person is unavailable. even if it isn't anyone else. you are def not as important to him as he is to you. Did you ask who he was going to the movies with.. that might be your answer?
i have gone off on my leo guy before and he stil replys to my message and answer my calls.. he might be short but he responds. He also did that disappearing thing to me in the beginning of us dating and once we became serious he told me honestly that the reason was because in that moment he didn't want a relationship. he said that usually when he disappear its because he is done with the relationship or he sees something about the person he does not like.
If you are important enough to him im sure he will get in touch after he sorts out his feelings if not he is just not that into you.
How do you get that emotionally attached to someone who takes 6 hours to respond ? just curious ?
well there's an update he answered yesterday this is what he said "Omg I am so so so so so sorry I really wanna be your friend Dont think that i dont wanna be I really do want to be bffs For life But its just that the finals are right now And i have been really focused because i really need to pass Im so sorry for not talking these past few days Im just super exausted Nothing to do with you You are an amazing person and I never want to lose our friendship Please dont be mad at me This upcoming week im going to have lots of tests for finals and probably the week after too Im super super sorry Sorry for spamming too Also, im going to try to talk to you more Because once im done with school, break will be hereI'll have time to talk Unless i go to Cabo Frio Wich is a place here in brazil but i dont have wifi there and my 4G doesnt work there But i have a friend who has wifi there. So ill try to talk to you once im at his house Im so so so so so so so so so so sorry Sorry for all of this spam but i dont want you to be mad and i needed to explain myself Love you, ashy " then I didn't answer and he said this " Ashy are you okay please tell me you are fine I'm gonna take a test soon I just want to know if you are fine please be alright " then I answerd we talked a tiny bit cause he has tests in Brazil . What do you think did he mean all that ?
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