leo man stood me up

HI GUYS
i need some help i met this Leo guy at a party 3 weeks ago, he was flirting with me all night but i didnt act like i was interested.
anyway he asked for my number and we were texting each other every day, i would wake up to good morning texts which was really sweet.
hes a roofer so he never has his phone at work due to safety reasons anyway he asked me if i would like to go on a date with him however he lives on the other side of London so i agreed and he said we would go out to dinner and he would pay for a hotel i dont usually have sex with anyone on the first date but wasnt really thinking about it when i agreed ,Before i left my house he called asking to re-arrange our date as work had called him last min and asked him to come in the next day but as i had already got dressed i said i was ready to meet him tonight and he agreed ..... to cut the long story short i arrived late he got a last min hotel which was terrible almost like a old b&b and we ended up having sex ( which was amazing) the next day he had to leave early as he had work and i left about 10 mins after him he messaged me that night and said i was the best he had ever had he then asked me if he was the best i ever had which i went on to politely say "one of the best"
the next day i got a message from him saying he couldn't wait to see me again and his body was all mine when i said i couldn't wait to see him either he then asked me what i was looking for i said im not sure he said we should keep it as friends when i asked what did he mean by that he then said he wanted to still have sex with me but wasn't ready for a relationship i understood as i was not ready either
we arranged to meet up again and we were ment to watch the fireworks and then go to a hotel which i was going to book this time as he booked the last time and it ended up being a dump! ( which we joked about)
anyway i made the reservation for £130 and we were ment to go halfs if u dont show up to check into the hotel they charge your credit card the full room amount !
we were supposed to meet up at 7pm he called me at 4pm to see if i had booked it which i had i was about to get ready at 6pm but his phone was off
i called again on private but it was still off and continued to be off for the whole night.
i called the next day sunday it was off still
then today i called around 2 pm knowing he was at work and it rang i called on private and as soon as i heard it ring i hung up!
im going to wait and see if he messages me when he comes home tonight but why not mesage me this morning and apoligise i really dont know what to do this guy was so in to me and seems polite enough not to stand up anyone help what should i do i really really like him

Posted by Koniucha
You still like him after he stood you up and is ignoring your calls?

We only pick winners.

@Op-Is it a red flag to be stood up on a first date? Or any date by a guy?, do you usually let it slide if it's happened to you before this guy?

he is not ignoring my calls his phones been off and i only called him once on private

i dont like him after he stood me up i was thinking something bad had happened to him as the first date went well i just was shocked when i heard his phone ring today when u would think he would of contacted me to say sorry by now
and i dont want to call him from my number as that will look desperate

Posted by Koniucha

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Posted by Koniucha
You still like him after he stood you up and is ignoring your calls?

We only pick winners.

Who is we?

Lol

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Idk.

Not me and the guy from the op though.

im not sure as his phones on all the time and it was off for two days i didnt hear from him before for about 3 days and i messaged him saying whats up with ur phone and he called me right away from his other no saying his phone was broken and if we were still on for meeting up at the weekend

by his actions he is shady but i honestly have never meet anyone so polite and caring its really hard for me to come to terms with what hes done honestly hes really shy and really sweet not a typical cocky leo guy which is why im so confused not to mention what was his reason to stand me up i played the game and i havent pissed him off

i want closure do i call him on my number and ask him wtf he was doing do i wait for him to call me or just cut the motherfucker off coz right now i dont want my heart to rule my head but im so confused .

i fully agree with u and i dont think he would be that evil as to blow me off 3 hours before which is why i feel there's a valid reason he could not make it or of course he is satan himself but what i would like to know is if there was a reason why has he not contacted me by now when i know his phone is off

secondly how will i ever find out what happened im so pissed off wiv him i cant call him

his phone is on but yh im going to cut him off if he calls me im not even sure i want to pick up tbh

im a libra and yh but i dont get why im not trying to tie him down and he wasnt seeing anyone else why wouldnt he want to see me again when its just sex and according to him the best hes had

he didnt seem like a player but his actions are speaking loud

Based on what you said Op I think he is playing you. Just live and learn and move on. Well, I'd move on if I were you.

You'd be surprised how some of the most sweetest people outwardly can be some of the most manipulative and downright evil individuals you come across after getting to know them a bit more.

Im starting to get bad ideas on Leos ... :/ no offense anyone

Lol @ the fake account name. Kdjfnejrkedn.
Clearly no one would admit to dating a Leo under their real username. We're like the embarrassment of the Zodiac 😄

all week hes been saying he cant wait to see me again like why bother

not even i made this account in a rush n i dont think anyone will use there real name on here im not ashamed of the star sign he didnt act like a typical leo which is why i was attracted to him in the first place

Posted by Kdjfnejrkedn
not even i made this account in a rush n i dont think anyone will use there real name on here im not ashamed of the star sign he didnt act like a typical leo which is why i was attracted to him in the first place

do you know his placements? or his rising?

no unfortunately not but im pretty
sure he said he was born in july and hes 24

I'm pretty sure he is just a player and that's not just because he is a Leo, sorry to tell you that and I'm sorry you had to go through so much confusion. I'm a leo, and when I'm serious about someone, I tend to be very devoted and emotional towards that person, would want to give them my 100% . I hope you find someone that truly treasures you 🙂

Hi guys thanks for all of. ur great advice yesterday I was about to tx him saying sorry I could not make it on sat I was busy lol I was about to flip the switch I him when he tx me out of the blue saying ;

Babe im sorry about the other day i got in a bit off trouble but its done now ill make it up to you Ill got couple thing to sort out ill call you

Help what do I do ignore him or tx back

Posted by Kdjfnejrkedn
Hi guys thanks for all of. ur great advice yesterday I was about to tx him saying sorry I could not make it on sat I was busy lol I was about to flip the switch I him when he tx me out of the blue saying ;

Babe im sorry about the other day i got in a bit off trouble but its done now ill make it up to you Ill got couple thing to sort out ill call you

Help what do I do ignore him or tx back

I still think he's playing with you. Right now he wants to keep you on board so he's giving you a vaugue reason for not contacting you. A quick text takes only seconds and if someone matter to anyone at all they'd at least extend that courtesy.

Based on what you said I wouldn't get too attached to him but If all you want is casual fun I say play along. Also, it's good you didn't send that text about you not making it on Saturday, he would've seen right through it.

In the end it's your choice and only you truly know what's right for you. Best wishes.

So you guys had an agreement that it would be just about sex, because you were not ready for anything more.

and not just sex- but dirty hotel sex

That's an ego boost...

Since then he has stood you up and stopped returning your phone calls.

Alright then.

Ok so my Leo has stated not to call or text unless it's business (we are in business and are romantic also). He is well known so I give him space. Once the swooning period is over I think they feel they have you now and so your loyalty is good so they don't come full force... But if they are about to lose you... Watch them lunge. Anytime I feel neglected I send a raging text (Taurus impulse... I'm working on it) and end it immediately... He calls me right away no questions asked and calms my worries. But I dont this often and I give him his space and choose my battles. He owes you and explaination at least if he cares about you. Address it and don't let it go... If that makes him run even further then trust me he was playing you all along. Send one text that you are bothered by it and leave him alone and let him come to you set a date that you will Move on if you don't hear from him and stay busy. You deserve better. Also I don't suggest telling him you are fine with just sex and friends... Let him know you want more or he'll keep you as that and think it's okay with you.

Oh he calls every night and we have our alone time... Just business during the day.

thanks for ur great advice I feel u are right I'm going to tx him 2mrow and say it's not working out as we want different things I want a relationship he wants just sex and let's see how he reacts

When he said he wanted to keep it casual he kept saying he didn't mean it like that it was just to early to be in a relationship I feel he's been hurt bad before thus scared of commitment or he's a really good liar & a player

Posted by Kdjfnejrkedn
by his actions he is shady but i honestly have never meet anyone so polite and caring its really hard for me to come to terms with what hes done honestly hes really shy and really sweet not a typical cocky leo guy which is why im so confused not to mention what was his reason to stand me up i played the game and i havent pissed him off

am i going to have to slap some sense to u ?? I will find a way to teleport my hand thru wifi signal 😛

he stood you up. that alone shouldve made him dead to u, even if he called up crying immediately after with every excuse possible.

but he didn't give you any explanation (excuse).

he didn't even call you.

actually, he didn't even answer ur calls.

you should be like mentally resurrecting his deadass just so he can be permanently dead to you 3 times over.

seriously, block him and delete his number now. like right now.

Posted by Kdjfnejrkedn
Hi guys thanks for all of. ur great advice yesterday I was about to tx him saying sorry I could not make it on sat I was busy lol I was about to flip the switch I him when he tx me out of the blue saying ;

Babe im sorry about the other day i got in a bit off trouble but its done now ill make it up to you Ill got couple thing to sort out ill call you

Help what do I do ignore him or tx back

sounds like not only is he a player and a liar, he's a jailbird too.

what a winner.

srsly you can do better.

Posted by GreyWiz
sounds like he is having fun and enjoying life. good for him.

exactly. he's living life for himself. so OP especially ought to do likewise & live life for herself.