wtf is up with this leo

I am a first decan taurus who had a 10 month affair with a third decan Leo.
At the start of our relationship it was him who seemed more interested, I wasnt because I know taurus n leo dont get along well in love only sex. Anyway our relationship was very emotionally draining. It all started one night he went out with his friends to a club and came home with a hickey on his neck. ever since that day I have never trusted him. I hacked his fb account only to find out he was talking to other girls. I went on with my life and we had broken up..then we got back together.. After another falling out he began seeing a girl..i then began talkng to this girl as friends. he got very upset because he thought i was in a relationship with the girl he was cheating on me with and he came to my house and abused me and we went to court for all of this. me being the nice taurus i am and not wanting conflict i dropped the charges. we were still broken up and we hadnt spoken for three months. i guess he got lonely or he missed me i dnt know but he got back in contact with me after three months of not talking. I was hesitant at first as to what could he possibly want. Our last break up was bad with him revealing to me that i need to get checked because he slept with 5 people. I let him back in my life again just recently a month ago and when we reconnected he seemed to want to be with me again and confessed his love for me ..all the while when we were broke up i hacked his fb account again after the first time and i found out he was in a gay relationship with another man..in fact he was in alot of relationships with different people all over the world. I confronted him about it yesterday because he doesnt understand why i cant let the past go. I told him that I know he is bisexual and that he lies to much. I told him i know everything about him. He said all that happened was he got a blowjob and he said that i know all his info, and he said that this isnt over..what could be mean by that. I am a little afraid because he has hit me before in the past and I dont want him to get mad at the fact that i know he is gay and he may not want ppl to find out so he may do something to me.. He said he was going to kill his uncle for molesting him bt i dont know.. Why does he string so many people along? What does he want with me? then he called me and i txt him back and he was like OMG leave me alone...I dont know what to think... I feel reallly sorry for him. could use some insight

thanks i appreciate ur opinion..honesty

my scorpio best friend told me the same thing.

This seems....a little farfetched..

No this is real..i just dont know what to think..he lies alot about things i already know the truth..and i cant take him popping and out..i dont understand that. i also notice he keeps in contact with all his ex..including me. i figure when one ex doesnt want him he goes to the next i dnt know..

and then the whole gay relationship/molesting things is crazy because he claims he was molested then he gets really mad when i tell him and question him being gay..he just recently admitted to me he got his dick sucked by a guy bt i know it was more and he only told me that because i told him i hacked his fb account and found out..

Posted by SAYitAintSO
No this is real..i just dont know what to think..he lies alot about things i already know the truth..and i cant take him popping and out..i dont understand that. i also notice he keeps in contact with all his ex..including me. i figure when one ex doesnt want him he goes to the next i dnt know..

He has issues stemming back to his uncle molesting him and possibly other things. Do you really want to be with someone who has these kind of problems?

You're a taurus. You guys are suppose to be strong in what you believe in and tough bullheaded people. Don't let this lion push you around. Give him the horns and tell him no more. Or better yet ignore him. Make sure you lock all your doors tho in case he tries anything stupid again. Change your number if you have to.

Do you want to be in a loving relationship? Then think logically and realize entertaining anything regarding him will keep you from ever having a good/healthy relationship. You deserve better and you know it! 🙂

Posted by SAYitAintSO
and then the whole gay relationship/molesting things is crazy because he claims he was molested then he gets really mad when i tell him and question him being gay..he just recently admitted to me he got his dick sucked by a guy bt i know it was more and he only told me that because i told him i hacked his fb account and found out..

He needs to go to therapy then and it really isn't your problem :/

Boys who are molested by older men usually turn gay if their brains are wired that way, or they will turn to gay tendencies when they are stressed. They regress to feel important and better. Why? Because when he was being molested by his uncle he was seen as an object of affection. He was "loved" and wanted by his uncle. And that made him associate feeling loved and wanted with doing things with a man sexually.

It's not your fault and you can't help it. He may not be fully gay, but he does have gay tendencies. It would probably take one more good push for him to swing the other way.

Smh, thank you that was all i wanted to know about the gay thing.. I can see it all now..smh You have been very helpful thanks

Posted by SAYitAintSO
Smh, thank you that was all i wanted to know about the gay thing.. I can see it all now..smh You have been very helpful thanks

No problem. Good luck with everything!