A Confused Libra— Naturally

Hey everyone! I met this Sag. After a hard time trying to deal with this aries girl I was so strung up for. This sag was coming a little TOO strong for my liking in the start of it but I went along with it just to see where it was going.then miss sag moved to VA from Ny and she still wanted a relationship with me and me being a little rational I was thinking its not goin to work and such but I kept talking because She is a cool woman to talk to. Tthe more me and her talked the more I start develop feelings for her especially during one convo with her and she basically exposed me and brought something into the light. Recently I told her that I really like her and I want to try to build something with her. She said she was glad but at the same time or before I brought the whole thing she was having a bad time and couldnt really talk. I respected that and left it alone. The next day me and her continued our convo and she said that she glad and wanted to know what will happen between us? I told her at this moment nothing much cause one of us will have to leave our home state to join the other. She tells me its getting frustrating for her and she asked "are u asking me to wait for u?" I told her "No because if the distance is giving you issues tell me now if you dont want to continue this because I just told you how I feel about you". she says it because of it and all the drama she just encounter(which she wont tell me). So plainly ask her do you want to end it? and she said yes now this is where I'm getting confused, why would she go so hard while we was talk sayin things like I love you and stuff the night before and me telling her My feelings for her are growing. For her to drop everything? Any and every input will be helpful.

She into astrology and it got me thinking about out charts can someone also take a look at them and give their input
Heres hers:
Sun Sagittarius 10.08
Ascendant Capricorn 5.22
Moon Gemini 13.53
Mercury Capricorn 0.43
Venus Sagittarius 17.49
Mars Gemini 3.37 R


Here mine:
Sun Libra 25.25
Ascendant Sagittarius 7.45
Moon Leo 4.43
Mercury Scorpio 0.50
Venus Scorpio 28.03
Mars Capricorn 9.24

our sun, moon, mercury, mars, and venus are in the same signs (my asc is in leo). please believe me when i say this...a scorpio venus and capricorn mars do not go well with somebody with a sun in sag and moon in gemini (not to mention her venus and mars). you are inclined to want something more serious and stable than they could ever give you. they are shallow and flit about between whatever situations are convenient for them. your feelings are deep and intense. you go for passion. they go for fun. these are not compatible.

force yourself to move on. it's for the best.

Thanks for our response. Aren't Libras and sags are compatible or is it because of my venus in scorpio thing I have going on? I some what do agree with intense passion and deep feelings but with her I have never seen her as what you describe. She was the passionate one in the beginning also I havent seen her being shallow. We basically have the same chart. How would you describe your love life if you dont mind?

Sometimes I hate being a libra lol

Posted by sleepyrebel
Thanks for our response. Aren't Libras and sags are compatible or is it because of my venus in scorpio thing I have going on? I some what do agree with intense passion and deep feelings but with her I have never seen her as what you describe. She was the passionate one in the beginning also I havent seen her being shallow. We basically have the same chart. How would you describe your love life if you dont mind?

Sometimes I hate being a libra lol

i think what she's saying is how ur venus signs are not in harmony nor ur mars signs those are very important besides the moon and the sun sign mars and venus is how you relate to one other in love or mars being ur drive which u have in cap meaning ambitious and climbing to the top her's is in gemini meaning she a mental person very temperamental and child like behavior.


you have venus in scoprio most likely a deep lover intense jealous but her's in sag meaning fiery, and superficial, and adventurous being passionate which are both are they just have way different ways expressing it.


if you want it go for it.

all i can say is, be careful not to take things so serious, cuz from my exp. with a scorpio who had a venus in sag, they like to have fun and consider passion to be drama and will cut u off in a second but try and inoccently lead u back on, your leo moon could help with that in a way.

all i can say is whatever u take to heart u better off keeping to yourself if u dont wanna run her off, but yes sags and libras arfe quite compatiable, they have the needed patience to deal with libras and the energy to keep them going, and they are open minded enuff to talk about whatever the libra feels but blunt enufff to keep them realistic.

thanks for the responses. I'm starting to wonder if my chart is some what set up for some failing in my relationships. Seeing that all were false starts and I'm starting to do or gettin in bad habits to get my mind off it. Can someone take a look at it, because the terms they have on some sites doesnt make sense, with legendary virgo interpretation about my mars was dead on and I will totally agree with what he said. seeing that venus in scorp make me a jealous lover, the thought of it makes me throw up.

Sun Libra 25.25 Ascendant Sagittarius 7.45
Moon Leo 4.43 II Capricorn 11.04
Mercury Scorpio 0.50 III Aquarius 20.06
Venus Scorpio 28.03 IV Pisces 26.52
Mars Capricorn 9.24 V Aries 25.56
Jupiter Capricorn 6.48 VI Taurus 18.36
Saturn Scorpio 16.17 VII Gemini 7.45
Uranus Sagittarius 11.05 VIII Cancer 11.04
Neptune Sagittarius 29.05 IX Leo 20.06
Pluto Scorpio 1.48 Midheaven Virgo 26.52
Lilith Aries 4.45 XI Libra 25.56
Asc node Taurus 27.44 XII Scorpio 18.36