Can you share your Second Chance experience?

I see tons of posts about Libras and coming bac (on their own). A lot of us women (more than men I think) seem to always have these Libras coming back around from time to time. I know that a lot of people decided against the whole 'second chance' thing. I thought I would too - until he came back. But I couldn't resist it; especially considering the relationship and its intensity. (honestly - he is the best man I have ever dated. If things do/won't work out between us - he has literally raised the bar for those to come)

But for those that actually GAVE them the second chance, let's hear your experience. How did/does it work? Do you feel like you are more prepared this time around?

2nd time around...should be better than the first time (Song)

Alas..it was the same! we were explosive the first time with our differences of opinion and that certainly didnt change the second time around. We still had a firey relationship hot & heated in and out of the bedroom! No regrets though!

I'm a libra and I can honestly say that I haven't considered second chances. Until recently with two different woman that really was special in my life. One is a Bull and the other Ram(I like aggressive women). Other than that NO SECOND TIME AROUND (SONG). But I'm still not sure if I would actually go through with it. Because sometimes I seem to hold on to what ended the relationship in the first place (if I feel it was your fault). If it was on me, than I would be willing to move forward. It's one sided I know but that would be the only devil's advocate thing about me. I'm allowed to mess up and return to you but you cannot mess u and return to me. Just being honest.

Sigh. Second chances. and thirds. and fourths. One thing I know for sure is that nothing ever changes. Libras are painfully indecisive, which can more often than not be painful for their potential significant others (if it ever gets to that point). I've been on that rollercoaster many times and the result has always been the same: run away to come back, come back to run away. And so the vicious cycle pervades...

2nd chance with Libra? it was the same as the first time, nothing changed, just that we had time between us. His indecisiveness and inability to commit? it didnt get better the 2nd time around. It was him though, that wanted to give it a go LOL.

2nd chances can work, quite often but it all depends on what dynamics people have between them. I think friendship is the basis for any relationship and if you fought like cats and dogs the first time, chances are you will the 2nd. If you dont have the same interests or tastes? its going to cause friction.

We sometimes love somebody but we dont really, when we lose them we want them back but not for the right reasons all the time. Sometimes we just want somebody back because we didnt want to be dumped or feel lonely.

An ex is an ex for a reason most of the time 🙂