Drama queen scares libra away?

I have been seeing this libra man for 3 months, things are going pretty well and we started have feelings for each other. We text or call each other almost every day. I gave him enough space and trying not to be clingy.

We went out the other night to a local club. We were sitting down and some random people came up and ask" are you together?" I said no we are just friends. Then we went dancing and he started using his phone, I glanced over, it was sort of hook-up website. After a short while, he started texting and non stop for few mins. I was a bit upset, but keep dancing and having fun. All of sudden, he said would I mind if he wants to go home now. I said that's alright, if you wanna go home, lets just go( I parked my car at his place, so I had to go with him and get my car). As soon as we left the club, my inner drama queen jumped out, I assumed he was going to hook up with someone and I felt really upset and treated unrespectly. I didn't talk to him, and he kept texting all the way even when he was driving. He said sorry that he ruined my night, I said very cold" that's alright". When we arrived at his place, I immediately walked in and grabbed my car key then walked out, then I realised I left some of my stuff, I just ran back in and grabbed all my stuff and walked off with an attitude.

The next day, I felt bad as I was overreacting and texted him saying sorry about last night, he replied" all good". He didn't contact me after that and I try to give him some time as I was acting like totally a different person compare to what he normally sees. But I just couldn't help and text him saying hello after 2 days, he didn't reply, and tried to call him after another 2 day, he didn't answer of course.

So what should I do now? Was he totally turned off by my dramatic overreaction? Are there any chance we could get back to where we were? Or should I just move on?

Please give me some advice as I do like him and didn't want him to think I'm a crazy person.

are you a scorpio ?

How did you know? Lol I'm actually just in between libra and Scorpio

No, he don't ignore you because of your reactions from that night only , he is also into another things ( if he hooked up with someone that nightm, he may continue seeing that person or keep in touch and is confusing at this time if he wants you or not) . He need more time to figure out about you , how to do. I know he no responding to your call, it is normal for a Libra. But I tell you sure, he likes that you called him, he likes that yyou text to him, but he don't reply , it is only because he need time as al Libras do ! His balance now is not in the right position . Do not bother him with many calls ( he will feel pressure) . If you continue to text to him, tell him something sweet or something what you two liked to say together. I and my Libra used to say " I will kill you" of course it is sound so nice for them if you are jocking andf about some certain things 🙂 not in the serious way ! So try to text to him something that you know he likes. Then give him space again if he no answer, He will answer to you later, I am sure about this 🙂

Posted by Lunnykk
How did you know? Lol I'm actually just in between libra and Scorpio

Because Scorpios are drama queens.

Drama queens, especially girlfriends, embarrass the shit out of Libras. It's a reality check for them that you aren't worthy of the pedestal status they want you to be on.

"OMG SHE'S HUMAN AND NOT ABSOLUTELY PERFECT. NOW I HAVE TO SIT BACK AND REevalUATE."

And it's the 3 month mark. It's about time he started doing this crap (said with sarcasm).

Give him his space and just pay attention to red flags. If he comes around and all is good, hooray.

I would think it's because the OP made the declaration they're "just friending". That would've p*ssed the hell out of me. I would have reacted the exact same way (as the Leeb- cause I am one)
You can't just come out and tell random people you guys are just friends when things have been going well and you're chatting everyday- especially in front on him. Ouch 😢
He probs saw that as the answer he was looking for and figured a "friend" wouldn't have cared if he hooked up with someone else
Not blaming you in anyway because if you like him as only a friend you shouldn't care

Posted by Delaneia
I would think it's because the OP made the declaration they're "just friending". That would've p*ssed the hell out of me. I would have reacted the exact same way (as the Leeb- cause I am one)
You can't just come out and tell random people you guys are just friends when things have been going well and you're chatting everyday- especially in front on him. Ouch 😢
He probs saw that as the answer he was looking for and figured a "friend" wouldn't have cared if he hooked up with someone else
Not blaming you in anyway because if you like him as only a friend you shouldn't care

I was worrying about this, but we haven't talked about things between us yet,just go with flow and more than just friends I guess. I was actually not prepared when the random people asked me that question, hope he didn't take this too personally😢

Posted by Alisiyaabcd
No, he don't ignore you because of your reactions from that night only , he is also into another things ( if he hooked up with someone that nightm, he may continue seeing that person or keep in touch and is confusing at this time if he wants you or not) . He need more time to figure out about you , how to do. I know he no responding to your call, it is normal for a Libra. But I tell you sure, he likes that you called him, he likes that yyou text to him, but he don't reply , it is only because he need time as al Libras do ! His balance now is not in the right position . Do not bother him with many calls ( he will feel pressure) . If you continue to text to him, tell him something sweet or something what you two liked to say together. I and my Libra used to say " I will kill you" of course it is sound so nice for them if you are jocking andf about some certain things 🙂 not in the serious way ! So try to text to him something that you know he likes. Then give him space again if he no answer, He will answer to you later, I am sure about this 🙂

Should I just do nothing and wait until he contact me? How long you think I should wait for?

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Posted by Lunnykk
How did you know? Lol I'm actually just in between libra and Scorpio

Because Scorpios are drama queens.

Drama queens, especially girlfriends, embarrass the shit out of Libras. It's a reality check for them that you aren't worthy of the pedestal status they want you to be on.

"OMG SHE'S HUMAN AND NOT ABSOLUTELY PERFECT. NOW I HAVE TO SIT BACK AND REevalUATE."

And it's the 3 month mark. It's about time he started doing this crap (said with sarcasm).

Give him his space and just pay attention to red flags. If he comes around and all is good, hooray.

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Hope he wasn't turned off by me totally.

Posted by Delaneia
I would think it's because the OP made the declaration they're "just friending". That would've p*ssed the hell out of me. I would have reacted the exact same way (as the Leeb- cause I am one)
You can't just come out and tell random people you guys are just friends when things have been going well and you're chatting everyday- especially in front on him. Ouch 😢
He probs saw that as the answer he was looking for and figured a "friend" wouldn't have cared if he hooked up with someone else
Not blaming you in anyway because if you like him as only a friend you shouldn't care

This would have urked me because I would have been deeply hurt. to be honest you made a big mistake. I would have felt I put lots of effort into the 3 months and was a waste of time. Remember us Libras we put much thought into what we do with potential girlfriends. We think much what the best restaurant to take you or what to do for fun. We plan much. I would have reacted the same way would have backed off but not disrespectively by going on a date site. I would have went silent also. If you really like him you better do some damage control quickly. A few texts isn't enough if you know where he works send him some roses or leave them on his front door step. At this point you need to prove yourself to him and make him feel special but don't send too many messages.

Catch-22 here, because if you say "no, we're friends" he's hurt that you denied him but if you say "yes, we're together" he feels pressured/trapped. I think this is a problem for any two people before they're really into a relationship. If you tried contacting him that many times already and he hasn't responded, i think you should leave him alone now. He'll either come to you when he doesn't hear from you for a while or he won't come to you at all, in which case he's not interested