Gemini Girl

Dear Gemini Girls,

Can you please tell me your thoughts about Libra male + Gemini girl.

What are your thinking and thoughts during a relationship?

Is it true that you are a double person ?

Best Regards,
Ben

Hi there - I am a Gemini girl involved with a Libra guy and here is what I feel.

I have learned more about myself in this relationship and grown so much more than I have in any other relationship. The contrasts between Gemini and Libra stimulate growth. For example, he is subtle, and I am bold. We're both learning to be a little more in the middle. His tendency to pull back at times has forced me to start working through my insecurity issues. (It also keeps me interested in the relationship - not being bored is key for me!) Because he is subtle and not direct it takes work and a lot of analysis to figure him out (which the Gemini brain LOVES!)

In other aspects, we can talk all night (Gemini's love to talk), sex is great b/c he will go along with my desire to reinvent it constantly, we have a great camraderie together - laughing, fun, dancing. We are both social butterflies but not necessarily jealous (which is VERY helpful!)

On the challenging side - it took us longer to get close to one another b/c we are both fairly emotionally detached, however, it's worth the wait.

Gemini loves Libra b/c Libra has a way of balancing us - we tend to be scattered and don't necessarily like to be.

To add...

I think I read on here a while back that the way to capture a Libra is to be interesting. I remember reading that and thinking, "hogwash, just be yourself." Then I realized that the two are the same. People are interesting.

I believe that for a Libra the Gemini is naturally interesting b/c we have a wide variety of interests and we are into something new all the time. I think that for a Gemini, a Libra is naturally interesting because we never quite know what's going on in your head, and simply because YOU are interested in US. While I don't think we are narcissistic or conceited, Geminis are interested in themselves - constantly analyzing why we do what we do, how can we change it, what roles are we playing in our relationships. So, for me, it's exciting to know that someone else is just as interested in figuring me out as I am.

libra male, you make me go nuts!

I can jump right in here and add my two cents because I'm a Gemini gal who has known and been involved with a Libra guy on and off for the past 20 some years! Plus, I have had shorter relationships with other Libras.

From my perspective, I have always been drawn to Libra males. The one thing that gets me in the beginning and keeps me is their humor, wit and flirty nature. I told my Libra guy I'm with now (the one I've known forever!) that what has always charmed me about him was that we always threw flirty, sexual quips back and forth that really charged me (and him) up. We always seemed like we were on the same wavelength. Even when we were going our separate ways, we always seemed to meet up again months (or years) in between, and usually it was just a day or two after I would start thinking about him.

We have a really easy time together. I think Gems and Libras get along on a very good-natured keel. I love his sweet qualities and I think he likes my craziness, confidence and probably the dual nature. He told me he was addicted to me. And he seems to appreciate the times I am forward and take the lead. On the other hand, he surprized me when he said something to me the other day and I was awe-struck and not sure how to respond. I mumbled a bit, at a loss for words, and he said "I love seeing you caught off guard, because it doesn't happen that often."

In bed, it's a very relaxed, comfortable time with periods of excitement mixed with periods of soft, romanticness. I have had other guys that the sex was so fast and furious it was incredible. That doesn't seem to be the case (for the most part) with my Libra, but it is always nice. And we can never get enough of each other.

The one thing that gets to me is when he retreats and I don't see him or talk to him for days on end. I want him to call me and leave little love notes or be constantly thinking of me (maybe it's a little insecurity on my part). I think this is the reason why we drifted apart from each other in the past. Now, (much older and wiser), I'm learning that this is the nature of Libras, and to take it as it is. Plus, I think as he has gotten older, he's comfortable knowing I'll be there for him. Libras can take a long time to make decisions on who they want to be with. In my case, it's been years. When we got back together this time, it was like we were just there waiting for each other.

I've noticed through my life that I am drawn to certain guys and inevitable I find that the

Oops, cut off (see, this Gem is too long-winded!)

I was saying that the guys I find myself drawn to are inevitable Libras. So go for it! We Gems love our Libra guys!

Am a libra guy in love with a gemini girl online for the past 2 years. Never met her nor seen her to be frank. But I know am in love. I picked her from some forum to learn about gemini girls and all I could find out was that I was completely occupied with the love virus. She was 19 then and took me as a game and never revealed her identity thinking am some psycho nut case. Now she is 21 and started seeing things in a romantic way. Slowly startted off with a new beginning and am all back in love. Now since I havent seen her, I guess you can imagine how hard is it for a libra to resist a gemini brain even when she was playing around.

hey thelibran, you are wiser than that!...lol but to fall in love with someone you've never seen before? gems are the great skeptics, she will never allow herself to fall also this way..but if they are playing with you then they like you, they will find another toy if they don't..;( but im sure you know that psychic!

i would admit, before i met my libra? i thought libras are boring--because they are just nothing...the most normal sign..aries= you know they love action, to be first...cancer=emo,..scorp=to me, scary, might sting...and so on but libra? nothing...they're so so..

but when i started to like and learn about libra, i find them to be so interesting..you know we gems rule the brain..and you just stimulate our brains. We love how your brain works, and that pulling back thing? we hate it, but its just the thing! cause we get bored easily..if your always there we get bored, if you pull back, we miss you..therefore liking you more..to me its more about how your brain works. I know i am complicated, being dual nature and stuff so i need someone who understands me, and libras (at least the ones i know) have a very good analytical skills, you need not speak sometimes, they got you and its just attractive to me...brain first..the heart and the body follows...