Grand finale

Well I finally had enough of the Libra coming back into my life asking to be with me and then withdrawing...We finally had an arguement because he told me I was too emotionally involved..Yet it was him asking to be with me, asking if I was with anybody else, telling me who he went on dates with, telling me he was scared ect..I told him that he was the emotional one and obviousley couldn't control them when he sees me, beacuse he starts this crap again after we agree to be friends..I told him he was an emotional wreck, not over his marriage and that he was dangling the maybe when i,m ready card over my head..I said that you know that I care for you and you are playing on my weaknessess to prevent me from moving on until you decide what you want...Told him this was draining and I just want happiness..

He emailed me and cut contact, told me he was starting to see things as they are with himself..And he told me to have a good life...

He emialed the next day said he was not mad at me....Realized after talking to me that he was denying his problems..and is now going to a councillor...

And told me that he hopes I find the happiness that I truly deserve...

So i guess it's really done...but I feel good knowing that he is talking to someone..Once again thank you all for helping me to remain strong..

As hard as I KNOW that was, you did the best thing. (((Hugs)))

Yeah..the reality is that they?re just not worth a shit. Coming and going in and out of your life, compromises that suit themselves..they?re the most selfish, insincere, fake men i can say ive ever met. I hope he?s the last too!

You?re better without him!!!

latinaindia

I'm so glad for you...aries men are fun !! Actually, I have a date tonight, so who knows!! I am feeling pretty good and I would like to spend my time and energy on someone who is upfront and honest.... Good luck with your new aries...

I think you'll enjoy Aries---we're quite different than our Libra brethren, not as cerebral, ever burning fire, "what you see is what you get."