I have continued on with my life..Started dating in April, was still friends with Libra at this point but i met him for dinner in June and he asked me if I had been intimate with the guy I was dating, I said yes..We went out for dinner he was quite rude all night,spent the whole dinner staring at a girl over my shoulder..I told him he was rude, I drove an hour and a half to have dinner with him and I could barely have a conversation witrh him...We got in a small arguement, I left, he called me the following week and said we needed to take a 6 month break..
Now that I look back, I wish I knew then what I know now..I never would have been intimate with him if I had known he was so emotionlly damaged by ex-wife...I was a rebounder and for some reason we can't get past that part and just be friends again.. Perhaps in time...Another lesson learned in life..
We dated but it didn't turn out well..And then we were friends after but that didn't work either..And yes I have his phone number and email address but we agreed not to talk to each other..Take a break..
Really miss my Libra friend...I miss talking to him and just knowing that he is well and everything is okay in his life...If he got hurt or something I wouldn't even find out because we have no friends that connect us...
I lost my best frined over sex, seems really stupid now..
Quick question..Capricron man told me he loved me..Then later told me that he felt weird when he said it and went back to his ex-girlfriend..Then came back , said how much he missed me and that once again he loved me..Now he has asked for space and said he did not take time off between relationships but then invited me for dinner the same night and showed up where I was on Saturday night..
Said that he feels closer to me than anyone ever but he is afarid of committment, I told him that he has always had long relationships, but he said he didn't take time in between..Also said his ex got him and nobody ever does that..
Is he keeping me on the side line in case he can't work it out with her or is he genuinely scared and confused..Any ideas??
As it stands I have ended it with him..I feel like if he dosen't know after 3 months then I am not the right person for him..But he said he dosen't know where his life is going and that his dad passing away has screwed him up..
He showed up where I was on Saturday night and got upset because I was out with a friend, who he is also friends with..Ended up hanging around us all night and came to a party with us and then we were going boating...He was upset earlier because my cigarettes were in the other friends pocket of his shorts (I had no Pockets) and then he ended up kicking our friend out of his boat because he said something to me that he didn't like...We got into arguement, he wanted to know what i had did the night before and I told him that it was none of his business and I told him he owed our friend an apology...Anyways ended up spending some time with him over the weekend and by Sunday I started to feel wierd, he wanted me to come to dinner, so I went..The next mornin I told him that he should take the space that he said he needed, he tried to avoid the conversation but I told him if I was the right person he would'nt be confused..He said he was going to go on a trip with friends and he would think about it while he was gone..I said no this is done, I told him I would'nt go to the spots where he might be, so we won't see each other for awilhe...
When I left he said I will see you soon, and I said not to soon..
I am not waiting for him to make up his mind, for all I know he could be with her this week..He did say he was scared of committment and did not take enough time in between realtionships and that he felt closer to me than anyone ever. But he also said that she got him and nobody ever gets him..
I'm actuaaly quite pissed right now..I wasn't going to give him another chance the last time but my friend talked to me and told me to cut him some slack because his dad passed away and people tend to go back to what is familar..He even called her and was so thankful that she talked to me..Should have went with my gut feeling the first time..
He called and asked me to bring something taht my daughter borrowed from his daughter..He wanted me to stay for dinner with his family and his friends...He seemed very surprised when I declined..When I went to drop the shirt off he asked me for a hug and asked me to stay for dinner again, I said no and left..I was afraid I was too emotional to be around people..He watched me drive out of the driveway..Another one bites the dust..
What is wrong with people..Says he wants space and then the same night wants me to saty and have dinner?? Don't get it...What's his version of space??
Told him where I stood..My guess is he still isn't over his ex..He apoligized for going to her for comfort when his dad passed away and said he should have come to me instead..But once again he isn,t coming to me, he's pushing me away..
I already told him when he came back, he gets one chance..
I like him..But I am in love with someone else..I think I could be happy with him long term but he dosen't make my heart thump..
I don't have any patience left for this uop and down crap..I just went through nine months of this with a Libra, the one I am in love with..He was married but got divorced and it was the same butter..Wants to be with me and then dosen't for nine months..I finally told him to never contact me again because when I started this relationship with the Capricorn, he called me and said he fell for me too but he was scared..Lots of manipulation to keep me there..
They have been broken up for awhile..We dated for two months then he went back to her for two weeks when his dad passed away..He came and said he missed me and that he loved me and that it was over with her, so I gave him another chance thinking he knew what he wanted..we have been back toghether for two weeks and now he said he needs space and he dosen't want me to be a rebounder..too late..so i told him to take his space but to consider us over...
Have been dating a capricorn man for a few months, recently his father passed away and he had a hard time with it and decided he need to get back together with his ex-girlfriend (they dated for thee years)..Throughout our 2 month relationship we were both feeling kind of awkward because he cared about her and I also had feelings for someone else, and I was still communicating with the other person (as friends only)..So he did go and spend time with his ex and after two weeks came back and told me that he missed me and that he wanted to get back together, I also went out for dinner with the other person I had feelings for during this two week split..He (Cappy) was honest with me and told me everything that happened with the ex and asked for another chance..I realized that communicating with the other person I care about was damaging to any other relationship I will have ( plus he was a big jerk when we had dinner) , so I have asked him not to contact me ever again.. So I did give my Cappy another chance and it has been a couple of weeks since we got back together..He told me that he loved me..Do you think he reaaly feels this or are his emotions just screwed up now because of ex and father passing away??