Im dating a new libra male. He has been honest with me from the get-go so I find myself to be relaxed in this new relationship and have taken on the "whatever happens happens" mind-frame. I met libra guy at work one night when I was serving his table. He came up to me later and said he wanted to hang out and if he could have my #. He told me later that he knew that night that he wanted me. To make a long story short, weve hung out about 3 times now. The first two we just chatted away. I'm an aquarius and I feel this natural connection with him and feel like I can tell him anything without judgment on his part. Last night is when things went to the next level. We ended up sleeping together. He has only been with 2 girls before me. He was in a 5 yr relationship and engaged with a woman who was uber-christian. They never had sex. He ended it with the Christian girl and went staight into another 8 month relationship. He told me he feels extremely compatable with this girl but for some reason can not commit to her. This is where I come in. He ended it with 8 month girl but he thinks he wants to be with her. I told him he should just go for it, as he has been asking me my opinion on the situation. Hes worried about it though because he has not had any "single" time for years. I guess I'm just wondering if theres any hope that he would consider dating me. He is extremely antalitical and i can always see his mind is working. He told me he is extremely confused. He also said that when he sees me he feels like ripping my clothes off but he never feels this way with the other girl. He said maybe its because she represents commitment, where I do not. I have a feeling that maybe I will never see him again. He was confusing to me last night. At one moment he was saying how he'd like to have sex with me every day. And then the next moment he was saying that this is something he can look back on when hes 50 and smile. As if it was never going to happen again. I think he is in a mind stuggle. He wants her but now he wants me at the same time. I'm dating other men so im not taking this as seriously as i would have in the past. Just looking for some opinions 🙂 I don't want to get caught up and fall for a man who is in love with another woman, but part of me thinks: if he really loved her wouldnt he be in bed with her instead of in bed with me?
