How do libra women react to soppy texts messages?

Hi, I'm you typical Aries guy who started dating a libra women. She was my friend for about a year and I would see her through meeting other friends in a group. She always seemed flirty but I know this is a libra trait, and I was never that bothered. Then she asked me out, we went out and I had an amazing time, but I wasn't looking for anyone. Two months later and I decided to ask her out, we had an amazing time, and she started asking me out more. She seemed to engineer the situation so she would have to stay over at mine or we would have to get a hotel together, and we were dating but still in the friendly zone, then we got together. Shortly after that she started being a bit cold with me, she said she didn't want anyone to know we were dating and she was scared about dating anyone. I had started to like her quite a bit by this stage and being Aries tried to pursue her. I managed to persuade her to come away for the weekend with me, and she seemed happy and we had a great time. As soon as we got back she pretty much ignored me, saying she was so tired all the time. I had seen her with some medication but not asked what it was for, and she smoked weed, this didn't bother me but I was a bit concerned she could switch off using weed or get tired from her meds. Then I saw her out by herself, I said hello but she was really cold with me, I ask other people there and they said she thought she'd come here with the DJ, I had noticed she reacts to black DJs, no matter what age. She would go right up to the DJ booth and try and dance with them. And someone else told me that night she always sleeps with the DJ, this someone didn't know we were dating. I dismissed it as being hearsay. She'd told me people always say horrible things about her like how she slept with two different DJs in one night. I was a bit concerned but thought its non of my business and if she was single having a one night stand then this sort of thing happens. We had tickets for a gig already booked a while back. So when we met up for this I tried to talk to her asking if we were ok, and she said she just hasn't dated anyone in a while and she liked me and I shouldn't worry. We finished the evening off and had a good time. This was the last time I saw her. I would text her still and she would just reply saying she had no time, with little explanation. I tried to stay positive and be friendly, trying to make conversation. But still she had no time. Three weeks of not seeing her, in true dramatic

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Hi, I'm you typical Aries guy who started dating a libra women. She was my friend for about a year and I would see her through meeting other friends in a group. She always seemed flirty but I know this is a libra trait, and I was never that bothered. Then she asked me out, we went out and I had an amazing time, but I wasn't looking for anyone. Two months later and I decided to ask her out, we had an amazing time, and she started asking me out more. She seemed to engineer the situation so she would have to stay over at mine or we would have to get a hotel together, and we were dating but still in the friendly zone, then we got together. Shortly after that she started being a bit cold with me, she said she didn't want anyone to know we were dating and she was scared about dating anyone. I had started to like her quite a bit by this stage and being Aries tried to pursue her. I managed to persuade her to come away for the weekend with me, and she seemed happy and we had a great time. As soon as we got back she pretty much ignored me, saying she was so tired all the time. I had seen her with some medication but not asked what it was for, and she smoked weed, this didn't bother me but I was a bit concerned she could switch off using weed or get tired from her meds. Then I saw her out by herself, I said hello but she was really cold with me, I ask other people there and they said she thought she'd come here with the DJ, I had noticed she reacts to black DJs, no matter what age. She would go right up to the DJ booth and try and dance with them. And someone else told me that night she always sleeps with the DJ, this someone didn't know we were dating. I dismissed it as being hearsay. She'd told me people always say horrible things about her like how she slept with two different DJs in one night. I was a bit concerned but thought its non of my business and if she was single having a one night stand then this sort of thing happens. We had tickets for a gig already booked a while back. So when we met up for this I tried to talk to her asking if we were ok, and she said she just hasn't dated anyone in a while and she liked me and I shouldn't worry. We finished the evening off and had a good time. This was the last time I saw her. I would text her still and she would just reply saying she had no time, with little explanation. I tried to stay positive and be friendly, trying to make conversation. But

But still she had no time. Three weeks of not seeing her, in true dramatic Aries fashion I sent her a text saying i just wanted to be friends. I was ok for two days but then became upset and text her saying id made a mistake and I wanted to carry on dating. She said it was ok and we would find time together soon. But again she was cold so I decided to ignore her. I thought it's definitely her turn to initiate a conversation if she's interested in any way.
Then out and about I saw someone else we both know, I spoke to her and she said she was stood up by this women for coffee, with no reason, and it took her two days of texts and calls to find out if she was ok. I realised that at least she was replying to me, and maybe something serious had happened, I text one of her friends and she replied saying she was having a difficult time, and she thought she was bipolar. It wasn't me and she does this sort of thing with her a lot. So dramatically, I sent her a text saying I was here for her and I'm sending my love, she replied with a long text about how I deserve better, that she's sorry she has no time.
Now I know her job is kinda demanding and maybe she doesn't have time, but people can make time eventually? What about the weekends. So I thought to myself something might be wrong. I sent her an emotional, dramatic text, about how she was beautiful and I would send her my love each day, and she always had my friendship. I used the word love a lot, saying she'll always have my love. I was careful no to say I love her, but maybe this is just as bad. It was over the top considering how little emotion she hah Shen me recently, but I'm an Aries and it was something I felt. My question is really, libra seem non emotional, they seem to say whatever the guy wants to here, she had a clear opportunity to tell me if things weren't ok but didn't take it. I sent her a soppy emotional text, and felt better for it. But how do they react to these things? It's clear my feelings for her are stronger than those she has for me. There are other factors like she has drugs, but in general how would a soppy text at this stage go down with a libra? Is she just doing the usual disappearing act of a libra, does she want time to think it through. I have no option now but to leave her to herself for a couple of months at least, but is there a chance we could get together, or have I blown it with that soppy text. I know libra like to feel at the same level as their partners.
Thanks.

I am reading zero of that mess. I enjoy sappy love messages from my husband.. or when i was in dating world I liked it only if I'd already fallen hard for the guy and we were in a stable relationship. Sappy mushy messages from a casual dating thing would not be my favorite thing.. meeeh. But my Venus is Scorpio. Depends on her Venus. I bet Venus Leo, Libra Sun would like it.

Sugarfoot is dead on point!! She doesn't have the heart to tell you the truth. She may like you, but not enough to take the relationship any further. If you're truly falling for her, back away. She's not ready and I think she will continue to lead you on and keep you around for backup. Maybe she will reciprocate the feelings when she gets through whatever she's going through. However, the sleeping around thing is something you may want to keep in mind unless you both have an understanding and you're okay with that kinda thing.

And you guys think it's normal? Everyone knows you make time for what you want, it's kinda insulting not to get a real reason. And when pushing for a more direct answer to close things out I just get the same lame excuse repeated back to me. I may not get closure, but I know I have move on. Lesson learnt about libras for next time.

Post her chart.

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And you guys think it's normal? Everyone knows you make time for what you want, it's kinda insulting not to get a real reason. And when pushing for a more direct answer to close things out I just get the same lame excuse repeated back to me. I may not get closure, but I know I have move on. Lesson learnt about libras for next time.

unrequited love sucks. sometimes it is not all about the words, it is about the actions too.

Dude, sorry to read. Im libra and m not like that but I do know onething, when we get someone around our fingers n they arent being manly and obeying us either too much or too lil, we lose interest in them.

I think either she wants space or just not into u. Just man up n seduce her with ur charms. That cud work. We love that.