how much damage?

have i done..

had an argument with my bf where finally a little spill about feelings came out. long story short, i ended up saying "how could all your exes still be friends with you or even like you, when you can be so selfish and said such hurtful things to people" (clearly i was upset about something he said) the argument didn't start because of exes though, just simple thing like spending weekends together

anyway after i cooled down a little bit, thought about it and realized i said those mean things. we are now apart from each for 3 weeks due to work, we still talk and email but i can sense he's now being a bit distance. i did apologize and mentioned i was upset hence the tantrums but he never seem to make any notes/care about my apologies. usually he'd just say "it's okay" etc.

any thoughts..is he hurt

oh he is a libra. i know i should just ask him direct but don't want to cause more trouble...😢

I freaked out at my libra all the time, said way meaner things than you said and he always came back to me. They do take a bit of time to cool off from the things you say. When he's ready he'll start being warm again. Make sure your warm too. As for "it's okay" don't be mad at that. They mean it. You probably didn't hurt him that much but they back up a little bit when they fell people are being dramatic. That's all.

Yeah what Sag89 said

Also if he's still contacting you or responding to you, then you two are okay. When he's ready, he will be all over you again.

Not much damage like LL said.

thank you.

usually he'd just say "it's okay" etc.
in other cases, he always acknowledged when i apologized, by saying "it's okay" and we're OK. but not to this time, it seems that he is ignoring it and pretends like nothing happened

yes we do talk online everyday briefly since the argument i.e he only answered if i asked a question and did not initiate any conversation i don't know i guess i am dissapointed that he doesn't respond way i expected..he did tell me that he feel quite distance from me whatever that means..it's hard getting feelings out of a libra sigh

ummmm yep

don't walk on egg shells around him. your happiness counts too.

Out of curiosity, why would you bring his exes into the argument? I fear there is an underlying distrust in this relationship, perhaps you're still insecure about his past relationships?

Libra lets you know when they're mad. There's a saying "Hell hath no scorn like that of a Libra."

It wouldn't be ok if it wasn't ok.