When love is not enough

Ever had that feeling that you like someone but there is still something missing ?
Some sort of emptyness that your partner isn't forfulling.

Like your having a great time with someone but still your thoughts drift away from "the moment".

I dunno if this makes sense lol

I understand what u say , there has to be a spark , but that wasn't what i ment.

There's nothing wrong between the sheets in my case.

"be like an old, passionless married couple"

i think this is just a saying to mislead you

if you look closely there is still great passion between elder couples

Upheaval, it is natural for me sometimes - I always drift that's when I rethink my position and attempt to make changes...

- Even if you love this person, is it friendship, romantic or sibling kind of love?
- Is something lacking? intellectual stimulation, mutual interests, etc?
- What are you expectations from a relationship? Is it reasonable, idealistic, realistic, etc?

Basically, I would explore the feeling of the emptyness so as not to waste both your time...what I learnt about feeling like something is missing is that the feeling eventually grows and projects itself onto other aspects of your life...

Thx for shearing zen , it gave me a good insight.

Sibling kind of love— Just got this comment from a Libra..."Your like the little sister I never had.." Pretty fucking weird if u ask me..After dating and being intimate with someone...

lol !

by sibling love, I meant when you're with someone and understand each other TOO well, things get comfortable, then it seems like dating a family or best friend...no surprises, extra excitement, etc...I think 😢

Don't worry if the libra's flirting with you while saying it - lol

I think I know what you mean Upheaval, I am actually having this problem with my libra now. I love him but I can't help but think something is definitly missing, I am not sure if its what zenalchemy said about making changes...but the thought has crossed my mind and it makes me sad to think I might give him up because of that "something missing"

that "something missing" I believe is what is keeping me from being fully happy with him now, and I need to figure out the problem quickly before it ruins us.

He was flirting when he said that comment..That is why I found it really weird!!

doesn't make any sense

I thought it over and over and i came to the conclusion i miss the reflection of myself in her.

Thought about my longest and best relationship and she was almost a copy of myself lol

Well i mean she thought the same like me etc..