how to go forward

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araeis2014
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When I was younger, I had a libra bf. I moved and only seen him a couple times after that. We both got married and had families, etc. Two years ago his wife died. (RIP) LAst year I left my husband. My libra friend found me on facebook. We became friends again and he would call me when he was having a hard time, someone to talk to, and be supportive. We talk about our past and our history. He really is like a best friend. Recently, we started to become romantically envoled agaon. Going on dates, holding hands, kissing, that kind of stuff, not sex. I am beginning to develope stronger feelings for him again. He is great, but everytime we have a date or hang out, its like he goes mia after, I dont get it. This weekend will be 2nd year of his wifes death. I just don't know if i should put a stop to the dating part. He is a libra and I am an aries. How do I do this, and what do i do?
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AesmaDaeva
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
I always found that MIA shit really strange after a date, sex or no sex.

Wtf are you guys doing? Contemplating? Scared of feelings/responsibility for any emotions you conjure?

If I hadn't already seen proof otherwise with the ones I dated, I'd swear they had vaginas with some of the behaviors, gawd.



LOL I used to do that if I'm not really into the guy. I just didn't care much and forgot about them TBH.
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araeis2014
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Posted by AesmaDaeva
"He is great, but everytime we have a date or hang out, its like he goes mia after, I dont get it."

MIA for a day or longer?

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about a week, but, then again, he works long hours during the week, 60-70 hours heavy equipment operator, so it could just be that he is tired during the week, I usually hear from him on weekends. He has 4 young children as well, I suppose I could just be being selfish about him not keeping in contact.
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AesmaDaeva
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Posted by araeis2014
^^^^ yes, he is very busy guy, and he is amazing, I feel lucky to get what time I do.


I just dont know how I should take it, I mean, will he want to move forward in his life? IDK, well, I guess I will just have to wait and see.



Eh what? OFC he would want to move forward in his life. Are you wondering if you're going to be a part of that? We can't answer that unfortunately, that's something you two need to discuss.