How to tame Libra man

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He is 27. Gorgeous. Funny. Kind. Nice. No wonder she fell for him!

He pursued her. She was taken by surprise!

However he is a month from 4 years relashionships and fiancé dumped him. He said it never worked. But they’ve tried for 4 years!!!

His parents are loaded like...up to eyeballs. Regardless fiancé left him.

So him and my Libra daughter were in such tune until last night he called her drunk and talked about his ex.

This morning he called and said he had no recollection of conversation though he thinks he screwed up.

She told him all he said. He said sorry. I am not ready to move on.

I am thinking from the height of my age...what would make a woman dump a man if her life with him would be awesome and secure and she had been with him for 4 years!!!

And just for those who are curious...according to what I know he is an amazing lover with everything in place and than some...

So...your verdict?
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Posted by RooSagicorn

I don’t think we have enough information to judge that. We don’t know what their relationship was like.. emotionally, physically, her personality etc.


I don’t as well. But he said it never worked...

So there must had been some aspect she was hanging on to him for that long? I can’t rhink of any except money. She had tried as haed as she can until they were to move in together and she said FUUUUCK! NO!

On the other hand my question was more about...he pursued my daughter after a month of a break up. His ego still hurts. Maybe he did love that woman...but when it didn’t work...seems like strange shit!

Wondering if he will be playing with my child’s brain later and what’s what...I wish I could show you her picture! She is unbelievable gorgeous! And his friend sent him a text ‘hot chick with brains - rare combination!’
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Posted by RooSagicorn

I don’t think we have enough information to judge that. We don’t know what their relationship was like.. emotionally, physically, her personality etc.


I don’t as well. But he said it never worked...

So there must had been some aspect she was hanging on to him for that long? I can’t rhink of any except money. She had tried as haed as she can until they were to move in together and she said FUUUUCK! NO!

On the other hand my question was more about...he pursued my daughter after a month of a break up. His ego still hurts. Maybe he did love that woman...but when it didn’t work...seems like strange shit!

Wondering if he will be playing with my child’s brain later and what’s what...I wish I could show you her picture! She is unbelievable gorgeous! And his friend sent him a text ‘hot chick with brains - rare combination!’




Well there is obviously something that is missing here.. not necessarily about money. Maybe she was trying but when it came down to it, she just couldn’t. But pursuing your daughter after a 4 year relationship split? That sounds like distraction and not letting himself feel the pain. That is so early to be pursuing someone else after someone you were engaged to is gone.
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I never agreed with a concept ‘too early’ because where is the ‘time table’ how soon is too soon?

To me it’s been always a rule...old love cured by the new one!

What’s the point of suffering alone?

Look at me! I can’t het rid of mine for 9 years! So...for me it’s like...never—

He knew my daughter for a year. Apparently he was still with his fiancé then. When she was gone he made a move...to try to cure the pain. Though he seemed so happy with my daughter! Apparently it was a myth some kind...

So how soon is too soon?

I am still counting! Next October it’ll be a decade!!! Wow!
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At least he is honest.



I think that he find your daughter as perfect rebound :/






Thanks for your as always useless post.


You’re welcome for your an ass comment as always.
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You seriously don’t understand that you bring nothing to the table do you? Like...not a thing!

Just urge to type...how is Gemini btw? lol
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Haruuka

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Haruuka

At least he is honest.



I think that he find your daughter as perfect rebound :/






Thanks for your as always useless post.


You’re welcome for your an ass comment as always.


You seriously don’t understand that you bring nothing to the table do you? Like...not a thing!

Just urge to type...how is Gemini btw? lol
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Lmao
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by RooSagicorn

I don’t think we have enough information to judge that. We don’t know what their relationship was like.. emotionally, physically, her personality etc.


I don’t as well. But he said it never worked...

So there must had been some aspect she was hanging on to him for that long? I can’t rhink of any except money. She had tried as haed as she can until they were to move in together and she said FUUUUCK! NO!

On the other hand my question was more about...he pursued my daughter after a month of a break up. His ego still hurts. Maybe he did love that woman...but when it didn’t work...seems like strange shit!

Wondering if he will be playing with my child’s brain later and what’s what...I wish I could show you her picture! She is unbelievable gorgeous! And his friend sent him a text ‘hot chick with brains - rare combination!’

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He said sorry. I am not ready to move on.

She should listen to him. Im not a man, but a Libra. It was less than 4yrs for me but it is incredibly difficult to move on. I go back and forth.. when something big-ish happens to my life, i go back to the Leo for emotional stuff. I know i frustrate myself as well, but it is what it is. I find my comfort there so 💁 It is not about him & his ex not working.. not about how gorgeous and smart your daughter is. It is not what she lacked /she got more of.. it is not logical. I dont even know how to explain. If he is like me, he wont be able to form a new attachment like the previous one. I want to, but i probably need more time or someone really intent on working on it with me? It's not like im not trying... maybe this is him trying to move on because he has rationally concluded that the ex and him will never be, it is hopeless..... but feelings are a different matter.
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Posted by Sagicorn

My ex Libra was left by his gf after 6 years. And she cheated on him. I found it weird too but it turned out he had small "tool". So who knows...only 2 of them know what's that all about. After we broke up he got back with her shortly then they broke up then he tried to get back with me again! Not sure what's up with that but that's about my Libra ex. He'll be back I think lol unless the ex changes her mind lol


So he was running between you 2 until what happened?