I want my libra male back to me

Hello all, I need dome advice from Libra males or anyone who knows how the Libra male operates.

I am a Pisces woman and I met the Libra male about two months ago. When he first saw me he really liked me and because we live in different cities (he lives in Manchester I live in London) he drove five hours to take me out for dinner. Then we went back to his city, as my best friend also lives in that city and we kind off spent some time together during that weekend. I didn't sleep with him and played hard to get for the next month. Then I had to travel to Spain for business and he told me that he wanted to meet me in Barcelona for the weekend, as he knew I was going to be there (I was born in Barcelona). WE SPENT THE BEST WEEKEND EVER. anyway, after this weekend, he told me it was the most romantic weekend he spent in his life and that he really really likes me and that his feelings are going to far and is finding it difficult to go with the flow. He always asked me what am I feeling for him and how much do I miss him and why do I like him bla bla. It seemed sometimes that he was the girl and I was the man. Cause I never asked questions, for every 10 questions that he asks I would ask one. Saying that I didn't hide the fact that I like him a lot, I didn't. He knows I do. So after Barcelona, which happened two weeks ago, I went to see him in his city and stayed the weekend with him. When I got back to my city (London) he what's app me asking if I was falling for him, he asked me few times until I replied and I said yes. then he said that he doesn't want to hurt me or get hurt and he kept a promise to himself of never ever going down the route of love. so I told him well then its better if we leave things here. and he got really annoyed at me, but what the hell am I suppose to do? so I think he is also falling but he is in denial and is scared. so I want him to want to be with me. What do I do?

No, I actually haven't played games here. At first he was trying to play games and I told him, that I don't respect ppl that playes games as it comes across very insecure, confident and ppl that are aware of their wroth don't need to play games. Si after I said that he kind of become more honest and more interested. I told him I like him then cause it was the truth and that I am not scared of saying it.

Thank you,

I said we shuold leave things casue he told me that I he aint going to fall. so what am i suppose to say, "oh cool". Should I not text him and wait fo him to text me? or is he going to text me? I want him back badly.

He sounds like he's a bit of a player, telling you what you want to hear and then the moment he knows you are falling for him he wants to change things up and tell you he is emotionally unavailable to you.

You have 2 choices:
Either play his game better
or just walk away

Let him know you can take it or leave it by not being needy (don't actually say this to him though), just don't call or text or message him. When you do hear from him, just treat him as a friend and don't let your emotions take over. Just spend some time getting to know him as a mate and getting him to open up and trust you. Players are hard, but I really believe they fall harder than any other guy once they find the girl they like that doesn't take their shit.

Posted by dolphinjoy
Say what you mean and mean what you say. Don't do the indirect shit dance. If you want to be with him, show it.

Otherwise you'll get the passive mirroring of your own behavior.

++++++10000 What drives me nuts about Pisces people. Sweethearts yet their actions irk me. So be direct sister! It will be ok. He won't bite... unless you want him to. Heehee!

Yeah I agree with everyone here. Stop playing with the man's heart before he stands up for himself and cuts you off and gives his heart to someone who doesn't play games and can have a normal relationship with. You guys need to have open and honest communication lines.

...why the eff is he dating you if he doesn't want to "fall?"

Pfft, move along.


And stop that hard to get shit. It only works in movies. Pisces and their freaking mind games...