Hi I'm new and joined to see if I could get some opinions from libra guys (others welcome to help also) on a libra guy friend. We met through a mutual friend. I was looking for a rodeo horse and she introduced me to him. We've known each other for about a year now. Some interesting things have started to go on... Well I don't want to make this a book post but to have honest feed back I think I need to include as much as I believe will help with what is going on here.
When I met him we talked a little about a few horses he had and then we just talked about our sport (rodeo) and boating. Overall I'd say we talked and laughed about two hours.. We have great eye contact.. We still do. When we're walking and talking he has to stop to look at me and talk. I'm not sure if that's a good thing or not. Lol we giggle a lot. We enjoy each other's company that's for sure and we enjoy dancing together also... He's a sweet and fun guy. Moving onto what has been going on lately. He is closer to our mutual friend than I am to her. But she has begun to ask me some very personal questions about my dating stats, if I want kids, or would be willing to move. I'm not sure if it's just her wondering about my life ( why would she care) or if he's getting her to ask me theses things. No, we do not live in the same state. We are both in our mid 30s.
At a rodeo I was sitting behind our mutual friend in the stands with another girl that rodeos with us... I left and when I came back he was in the seat below me. After I sat down he started flirting with her... Our mutual friend kept looking back at me... I fought him looking back a few times too. One time I winked at him and he turned quickly. In a conversation with our mutual friend she told me he was not with her but they are close friends. week ago I took a mare to him for breeding. I go next weekend to pick her up. While I was there he flirted... And he kept repeating the same thing over and over... His friend and working partner (I have been told his working partner is more than a working partner) would say the same thing... At dinner he (the libra) was playing with my leg under the table and flirting.. He flirted with our waitress and then would look at me. He would look at me when he talked to his friend. His friend didn't say much unless I asked him something. He May as well not been there because the night was the libra guy and I chatting and laughing at jokes.. I didn't want him to be the 3rd wheel so I tried
Sorry... It cut off the post. .. I didn't want him to be the 3rd wheel so I tried to pull him into our conversation. This is my thing.. He's a sweet guy and a good friend. If he wants to more than friends I'm cool with it. If he's with this guy he shouldn't be flirting with me in front of his partner. I'm not one for games but I'm ok if he's trying to figure me out. I'm trying to figure him out lol the flirting is somewhat new... Started back in Feb. there is a lot more going on that he's done to make me think he likes me but I feel I've already wrote too much.
Yes, he's confusing me.... Lol any opinions- positive or negative are appreciated. Thanks for the help!
Well, I wouldn't say we HAVE TO DO IT🙂, but we do flirt....both male and females. However, I can only speak for myself and a few of my Libra female associates, it's mostly out of fun. I would never be disrespectful with or too someone. Like "Tizani" said..I don't know about the touching part. I keep my hands too myself.
The other woman telling you that him and her aren't "together" but are close friends means they are fuck buddies. The friendship may be real and strong but they're sleeping together.
I flirt a lot too but I really only call it flirting because everyone else does. I'm friendly and attentive in conversation, I guess most people only listen if they want to sleep with you? Like Tiz said though, i stop well short of playing footsie.
When I met him we talked a little about a few horses he had and then we just talked about our sport (rodeo) and boating. Overall I'd say we talked and laughed about two hours.. We have great eye contact.. We still do. When we're walking and talking he has to stop to look at me and talk. I'm not sure if that's a good thing or not. Lol we giggle a lot. We enjoy each other's company that's for sure and we enjoy dancing together also... He's a sweet and fun guy. Moving onto what has been going on lately. He is closer to our mutual friend than I am to her. But she has begun to ask me some very personal questions about my dating stats, if I want kids, or would be willing to move. I'm not sure if it's just her wondering about my life ( why would she care) or if he's getting her to ask me theses things. No, we do not live in the same state. We are both in our mid 30s.
At a rodeo I was sitting behind our mutual friend in the stands with another girl that rodeos with us... I left and when I came back he was in the seat below me. After I sat down he started flirting with her... Our mutual friend kept looking back at me... I fought him looking back a few times too. One time I winked at him and he turned quickly. In a conversation with our mutual friend she told me he was not with her but they are close friends.
week ago I took a mare to him for breeding. I go next weekend to pick her up. While I was there he flirted... And he kept repeating the same thing over and over... His friend and working partner (I have been told his working partner is more than a working partner) would say the same thing... At dinner he (the libra) was playing with my leg under the table and flirting.. He flirted with our waitress and then would look at me. He would look at me when he talked to his friend. His friend didn't say much unless I asked him something. He May as well not been there because the night was the libra guy and I chatting and laughing at jokes.. I didn't want him to be the 3rd wheel so I tried