Is it possible for librans and capricorns to be to

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I'm a libra girl who has just recently started dating this guy who is a capricorn. He is just my type--except for some minor things. He is very demanding and controlling. I like when he is controling when it's dinner or when it comes to who is going to kiss who first, but with him, things has to go his way all the time. He is very jealous. If he sees a guy even look at me he gets upset at the guy and wants to automatically fight him. I like that he likes me and only me but he also always wants to be with me. Any other girl would love all this attention but sometimes i believe the only reason he wants to be with me is to show me off as his and only his. He also won't let me meet any of his friends. I've met a couple but it was by coincidence. He hasn't flat out said that he doesn't want me to meet his friends but i'm getting that vibe. I am 19 years old and I am still a virgin and I want to stay that way until I get married, when we started dating he said he was okay with that but now he is getting impatient and I'm afraid he is going to stray. I like him a lot and I don't want to lose him. I am very much attracted to him physically and mentally but I am stomped on whether or not this could work. Helllpp!!

P.S. Don't get the wrong idea about him he's still a sweet guy I just hope we can work our differences out.
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Hi!

I don't want to put a damper on your enthusiasm...but, when a guy doesn't want to introduce you to his friends...it is a red flag! It usually means he does not want to include you into his real life, but is happy keeping you "on the side", where he can come and go at his convenience...
I have found this is a male thing with some males...not necessarily a trait of a particular sign...
It is your choice regarding what you are willing to put up with...
Hope it works out in a way that is best for you!
Take Care.
Star
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Ahh...Star....forever the diplomat! LOL! I, however, have little tact in these matters- so I will just call it as I see it! This one is not too difficult to figure...jealous, controlling and isolating....thinking back to psychology 101...he has all the earmarks of an abuser! I know that sounds alarmist...but those are the traits of someone that will become physically abusive within the relationship! Let me ask you something...how does he feel about you spending time with your friends and family? If your answer is, "He wants me all to himself!"....RUN LIKE HELL!!!!
Luck to you Libra!
VOR
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I say no way Capricorns and Libran's are like Oil & Water they do not mix. However, I disagree with VOR about being abusive but I beleive its more like insecurity. You are a young woman perhaps he is scared of introducing you to a friend that he feels will try and hit on you and could take you away from him. Either way though its not healthy for him to feel this way. I think you should ask him why he hasn't introduced you to his friends. If he does introduce you make sure you do not flirt as that will reinforce his insecurities. Beyond that I still say you both stand to have a very tough relationship with a each other as Capricorns have certain astrological traits that I find rub Libran's the wrong way over time and visa verca Libra's will end up driving Capricorn crazy with their traits. Good Luck whatever you decide.
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