Is my Libra man being indecisive?

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I would like to mention that this guy is not some random guy either. We both know each other from middle school and apparently we both had crushes on each other since middle school to early high school (last time we saw each other for awhile). We met up spring semester in college and that's when he confessed all of this to me. We stopped talking during the summer and when fall semester came back up he told me he was sorry and now he is being hot and cold again!
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Posted by tiziani
Sounds like he has made his decision.


And that's being a friend right? I decided to just think of him no more as friend because I don't want to get hurt and I rather have a friend than nothing, you know? It hurts to say that because I really do like him but I don't want to deal with that because I sort of feel like he is stringing me along whenever it's emotional convenient for him not really considering me.
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Posted by Justme111
If he doesn't want to have sex with you, and you want this happen, try to change something at yourself , be more expressive in what you want or how you show what you want when you are with him. I don't think so a Libra don't want to have sex, is hard to believe this. If you are a shy type and do not take initiatives, also is a low point in the front of a Libra because he is waiting you to do something first, even a word, but it will be more easy for him to be close by you and give him courage. I remember my Libra first time, firt date. We arrived in a room and I was stay on the sofa, he was seat on the bed and he told me from there : I miss you so much . ( after 1 year and more to talk in internet , webcam also ) and he was just waiting for me to say something and I told him " come here" , in the next seocnd he cannot stop kissing me 🙂 They are lovely , but you must take initiative , even with a single word.



Oh no no I don't want sex either! I mean yeah I do have sexual desires like any human being and he probably does too but he told me that he is waiting for marriage because of his religious belief. I myself am not a virgin but I decided to wait too long before he came in the picture for the same reason. But I don't want to go too much into that at all lol.

I hear that a lot the whole libra guys want you to make the first move thing but I also hear they want space so I try to balance that as much as possible like right now I am not texting him for awhile until he feels like texting me. I usually ask him how his days was or how is he at least once a day or every other day. Sometimes he text and sometimes he doesn't so I just brush it off, but it still kind of hurts because I can't help to think if I am doing something wrong.
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Posted by Justme111
Tell him your feelings and make it clear ! Do not accept be only friend with him. He will break up for a while after this, but do not worry, when he is ready for you, he will be back to you. Once he told you he liked you , he still like you , but is little confuse. In the time he break up, just keep contact with him texting from time to time in a warm way, he will be back when he ready, I have real proof of this. Of course, you can not listen me, but it is just my idea and for me worked great. Read also my post and see that training. It will help.



We haven't gone on a first date yet and it's been either three or two months put together since we started talking. I say put together because of that period during the summer when we didn't talk! I mean granted we are both in college and he is taking 22 credits right now plus he doesn't have the money. I try to tell him I am simple but I guess he wants money to romance me I don't even know. He is also trying to get into Harvard because they did send him a letter basically saying they were interested in him. He says that once he gets his financial aide refund check of course things would be different and we can actually go on a date. I am trying to respect his schedule like I don't text him ten times a day if anything it's once a day asking how he is. Sometimes I get a response and sometimes I do not. I am thinking that I need to just be friends with this guy because right now wasn't the time for us. In his case I feel like he is sort of stringing me a long and I don't like that feeling. He is sweet whenever we are in person together, but those moments are rare because I hardly ever see him now.
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Posted by Justme111
For Libra, texting like " how are you today?" and not showing him any feeling what you have, it is a cold way . This is why I tell you, give a space to yourself and far of him also , and think only and only yourself what you want from him, you will find the answer , I am sure. If you really want him in your life, make him feel this, not only say "hello" to him or this kind of texts, he will find them boring .


But can you really blame me for that? He isn't exactly being super clear either so how can I show emotion if I don't know if it's going to even do anything. I do send a "🙂" with those texts but it's not really much to that and when we are in person(which is rare) I do flirt, but I do take cautions because I don't exactly what he wants from me. He says we are friends and he is not looking for anything serious right now, yet he wants to romance me and take me out but hasn't exactly did that either. I am going to give myself time and him some space to figure things out because I don't think it's fair that he even told me he liked me since middle school but we can't act on it right now.
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would texting him like " hi hon, hope ur doing good, i missed u and i missed sharing thoughts with u and i love u, hope u get in touch with me soon" will that help or not? =D just going through something with my libra now


The thing is I am not even sure he knows what he wants. He does know I like him it's pretty crystal clear and I can be cold but it's because of old relationships. I wouldn't mind sending him those texts but that might be going too far and again I am not crystal clear on what he wants. My ex fiance from year ago cheated on me so now I take caution a lot and question people's motives a bit more. I really do like this guy but at the same time I don't want to get hurt again.
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We knew each other during middle school and I remember he was so bashful around me and I was kind of shy towards him. We both had a crush on each other, but it was unspoken at that point plus we both thought that the other didn't like us as much as we did them. So because of those factors we never got to talk and therefore we never truly got to know each other. In early high school I was invited to my ex??s best friend??s birthday party and the guy I like right now is best friends with my ex??s best friend. I kind of made a fool of myself at the party that cause my ex to just leave me alone at the party and I remember the guy I liked tried to keep me company. He basically sat beside me on the couch, did the whole arm over my shoulder thing guys do at movies and just asked me how I was. Me being faithful to me boyfriend at the time I totally rebuffed his advantages and yes he even admits to this day that he was mega flirting with me that day.

During the spring semester of my college year this year, I ran into him the last day of the semester and we exchanged phone numbers. We were texting each other after I went home and I begin to notice that he was totally flirting with me, but I straight up asked him if he was and he told me that he thought that he couldn't be even more forward about it. At that time the Great Gatsby was suppose showing and that was going to be a first date. He was super busy and didn't exactly tell me why but I knew part of the reason why was because he was in summer school and with him he likes to really excel in school (that's what I really like about him). He also mentioned how he didn't really want a relationship, which was weird to me because he was basically confessing his feelings for me after all these years and we couldn't really act on them. Plus he mention going out on dates, cuddling, and kissing which friends don't exactly do. Also he is not trying to get in my pants! I can tell when a guy is trying to get in my pants because I have seen it all before and usually it's the same game. I invited him to go out to karaoke with me and my friends, so he did and in return he had fun. Til this day said that was the most fun he had all summer! Eventually after a month he just stopped texting me and I had no clue why he did, so I waited a week and I texted him a —Hey it's been awhile?? text. He didn't respond. By then I told myself that if didn't respond that I wasn't going to wait around for him, so I
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so I didn't and the summer went by.

College started again a month ago and I wasn't really expecting to run into him. After my first class had ended I started to head back home because I have a four beak, but I missed my train so I just stayed at my school for the four hours. I remember walking to the mall and I reached in my pockets to check my phone and I had a missed call from a number that wasn't registered. I call the number back and he answered so right away I knew it was him. He asked if we could meet up and he could apologize to me in person. We met up and we apologize to realize that this whole thing was a misunderstanding. You see the last text that I sent him before the summer, he thought he had sent me a text explaining why he was busy. In return he thought I was ignoring him because of what he thought he sent me, but from point of view I thought he was ignoring me. It's kind of funny actually. He explained to me that his dad has recently relapsed from PTSD and that it has got worse. Like his dad is more controlling and solely wants his son to strictly study not go out on dates. I felt really bad for him and I believed him because usually people do not lie about their parents especially about something like that.
So we went back to be all flirty and everything was good. He did certain things that showed me he really likes me. One being the fact that he offers me a ride to school. Next is when I have those long four hour breaks he comes to school when he doesn't have to because he doesn't have school. Lastly, he knows I love and appreciate a good handlebar moustache so actually came to school one day testing it out on himself. Oh and most importantly he actually said that the feelings were definitely mutual and that he really likes me too.
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Posted by tiziani
Speaking as a Libra man, we're notorious for being crap at juggling both love life and career when both need serious work. A decision made in actions, not words. So in this instance just pay attention to what he does and you won't lose yourself in his thoughts. I've said similar things to girls I genuinely cared about in the past. Ultimately me caring about them made little difference to the outcome. I still made work priority number 1.

So you know just respect his decision and it'll be clearer for you to live your life. If you think it was unfair of him to unload on you like that, you can speak your mind with him surely. There are no magic tricks to this relationship stuff. Just be yourself because that's likely what attracted him to you in the first place, it's win win.



Oh man I am sorry to hear that. I mean I would like to make things work but maybe it's really me and I am over thinking things. He knows I am interested in him but I also want to respect what is going on in his life which is why I want to step down a bit and let him come to me when he has the time. As you can probably tell, he is the first libra guy I ever been interested in!
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would texting him like " hi hon, hope ur doing good, i missed u and i missed sharing thoughts with u and i love u, hope u get in touch with me soon" will that help or not? =D just going through something with my libra now


The thing is I am not even sure he knows what he wants. He does know I like him it's pretty crystal clear and I can be cold but it's because of old relationships. I wouldn't mind sending him those texts but that might be going too far and again I am not crystal clear on what he wants. My ex fiance from year ago cheated on me so now I take caution a lot and question people's motives a bit more. I really do like this guy but at the same time I don't want to get hurt again.
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u know what i can totally relate to u, ive been on that situation too, when i was cheated by my ex,its tough, now im with my libra guy and i always question his motives if he's for real till i got on his nerves and now we havent been talking, last time we talked was 2-3days ago, i wanted to message him but im afraid to appear clingy to him but i think the once in a while message will help as justme111 suggested so i think id do that..
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Posted by tiziani
I can understand that, I also hear the bond between Libra and Aquarius is a very strong one. I've never really lived it myself.

I think the best advice I read about Libras this year is "when you're playing tennis with a Libra just hit it back of the net to them. No ancy stuff. No trick shots."

The text message on the last page, yes that's always a refreshing kind of message to receive. Straightforward. You'd be surprised how many people choose to send morse code instead 🙂



I can tell that he is definitely in my life for a reason if not for a romance than of course a friendship. He entered my life in and out, so usually that could mean something but I'm not sure what. I'm going to give him space but once he wants to talk to me again I'm just going to give him a nice "I really missed talking to you and I hope we get to hangout sometime this week so I can see your lovely face" text. Hopefully that is forward enough!
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would texting him like " hi hon, hope ur doing good, i missed u and i missed sharing thoughts with u and i love u, hope u get in touch with me soon" will that help or not? =D just going through something with my libra now


The thing is I am not even sure he knows what he wants. He does know I like him it's pretty crystal clear and I can be cold but it's because of old relationships. I wouldn't mind sending him those texts but that might be going too far and again I am not crystal clear on what he wants. My ex fiance from year ago cheated on me so now I take caution a lot and question people's motives a bit more. I really do like this guy but at the same time I don't want to get hurt again.



u know what i can totally relate to u, ive been on that situation too, when i was cheated by my ex,its tough, now im with my libra guy and i always question his motives if he's for real till i got on his nerves and now we havent been talking, last time we talked was 2-3days ago, i wanted to message him but im afraid to appear clingy to him but i think the once in a while message will help as justme111 suggested so i think id do that..
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It's nice to know that someone can understand that side of my feeling. See I did something not too long ago when I said something really missed up and at the time I thought I could of lost contact with him because of what I said. I sent him two messages apologizing for what I said and no response. Then I called him three times because I thought maybe text messaging him wasn't cutting it but still no response.

So after Saturday and Sunday passed I sent him one last text Monday and this is what I exactly wrote to him: Hey I was wondering if we could just meet up somewhere and talk sometime this week maybe get some coffee? I don't exactly know what's going on and I am pretty sure you are confused as to why I said what I said. I feel ignored and I am not sure if I did something wrong or if I didn't or if you are mad or if you are not. I know what I said was uncalled for and I really do apologize...I mean I don't really know what else to say but if you just don't want to talk to me anymore then just say so. If we cannot talk a
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LOL.. mine responds too last time i sent him a message which is 3 days ago, i said something like almost the same as yours and also letting him know i love him and im here then he responds as soon as he reads it saying he's sorry and that he will message me soon and talk and that his parents will call my mom to talk lol but they didnt.. so now hmm its been 3 days and i sent him another message but i guess after this last message id stop sending him and let couple of more days to pass until he finds me still in his heart and so he'll come around instead of me coming to him.. hey i hope u feel better soon dont worry much okay everythings gonna be okay, just give him space for now and u too sweetie, things will be great soon, dont over think okay, it'll only stress u and u dont want that.. 🙂
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LOL.. mine responds too last time i sent him a message which is 3 days ago, i said something like almost the same as yours and also letting him know i love him and im here then he responds as soon as he reads it saying he's sorry and that he will message me soon and talk and that his parents will call my mom to talk lol but they didnt.. so now hmm its been 3 days and i sent him another message but i guess after this last message id stop sending him and let couple of more days to pass until he finds me still in his heart and so he'll come around instead of me coming to him.. hey i hope u feel better soon dont worry much okay everythings gonna be okay, just give him space for now and u too sweetie, things will be great soon, dont over think okay, it'll only stress u and u dont want that.. 🙂


Haha yeah that's what I'm going to do just lay low a bit but not to the point where I don't be in his life. But enough to the point when I can figure things out for myself. Thanks everyone who has written back so far you guys really did give me a clear understanding of him.
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@Justme111: i completely agree with u, last time we fought my bf ask me to tell him this words "fuck the world, i love u and i only want to be with u, coz i can certainly say that he says" hahaha.. but no offense to the libra guys but yeah they are good at talking sweet nothings and just sweeping u off ur feet with their romantic and sweet words but ofcourse we need actions not just mere words so yeah lets enjoy the talk but lets see how they gonna put their words into action.. so me too, i am waiting..

@ajoy12692: i wish u all the best and i hope things go well between u and ur libra guy.. 🙂
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I'm sorry, but texting is not a solution.

Libras never respond to txt as a way to get to know someone, no matter how hard u try, unless u are already in a relationship

All u have to do is be honest about what unwant and don't want is that simple, but if things are fresh and your trying to get to know each other, u are suppose to keep it light and go with the flow, you are only in a dating phase

If he is busy, they you should be busy also, have your own life, and if or when he comes around , then it's up to u.

I've been through this with my libra boyfriend, but I have my own life, and I always tell him what I want and don't want, now if he wants me then it was up to him to do what he needs to do to keep me, as well as me trying to keep him, but if we are in a dating phase, no demands should even be discussed
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I'm sorry, but texting is not a solution.

Libras never respond to txt as a way to get to know someone, no matter how hard u try, unless u are already in a relationship

All u have to do is be honest about what unwant and don't want is that simple, but if things are fresh and your trying to get to know each other, u are suppose to keep it light and go with the flow, you are only in a dating phase

If he is busy, they you should be busy also, have your own life, and if or when he comes around , then it's up to u.

I've been through this with my libra boyfriend, but I have my own life, and I always tell him what I want and don't want, now if he wants me then it was up to him to do what he needs to do to keep me, as well as me trying to keep him, but if we are in a dating phase, no demands should even be discussed



The thing is I do have my own life and if I didn't I would of probably flunked out of college by now. It's just that I am/was confused about him because like the two ladies above he was saying sweet stuff, but maybe I am expecting too much and just have to play things cool.
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I'm sorry, but texting is not a solution.

Libras never respond to txt as a way to get to know someone, no matter how hard u try, unless u are already in a relationship

All u have to do is be honest about what unwant and don't want is that simple, but if things are fresh and your trying to get to know each other, u are suppose to keep it light and go with the flow, you are only in a dating phase

If he is busy, they you should be busy also, have your own life, and if or when he comes around , then it's up to u.

I've been through this with my libra boyfriend, but I have my own life, and I always tell him what I want and don't want, now if he wants me then it was up to him to do what he needs to do to keep me, as well as me trying to keep him, but if we are in a dating phase, no demands should even be discussed



The thing is I do have my own life and if I didn't I would of probably flunked out of college by now. It's just that I am/was confused about him because like the two ladies above he was saying sweet stuff, but maybe I am expecting too much and just have to play things cool.
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That's wat I meant about having your own life, have some fun, meet new people, once your mind is focus on something else who cares what the libra is thinking or feeling or what he doing.

If he is not talking ur language, who cares until he does, if u feel like waiting that long, which I don't reccomended

The libra is obviously focused on something and trying to balance himself, and not to be rude, but your interfering with that balance right now, but he still wants to get to know u tho, just that he needs time to get things in order, he is very focused in what he wants
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I'm sorry, but texting is not a solution.

Libras never respond to txt as a way to get to know someone, no matter how hard u try, unless u are already in a relationship

All u have to do is be honest about what unwant and don't want is that simple, but if things are fresh and your trying to get to know each other, u are suppose to keep it light and go with the flow, you are only in a dating phase

If he is busy, they you should be busy also, have your own life, and if or when he comes around , then it's up to u.

I've been through this with my libra boyfriend, but I have my own life, and I always tell him what I want and don't want, now if he wants me then it was up to him to do what he needs to do to keep me, as well as me trying to keep him, but if we are in a dating phase, no demands should even be discussed



The thing is I do have my own life and if I didn't I would of probably flunked out of college by now. It's just that I am/was confused about him because like the two ladies above he was saying sweet stuff, but maybe I am expecting too much and just have to play things cool.





That's wat I meant about having your own life, have some fun, meet new people, once your mind is focus on something else who cares what the libra is thinking or feeling or what he doing.

If he is not talking ur language, who cares until he does, if u feel like waiting that long, which I don't reccomended

The libra is obviously focused on something and trying to balance himself, and not to be rude, but your interfering with that balance right now, but he still wants to get to know u tho, just that he needs time to get things in order, he is very focused in what he wants
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You are not being rude at all and in fact you sound absolutely right. Pretty much I just have to live my own life and play it cool.
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He's going to comeback I promise u that, why , because yes he has pretty words, but he also has a lot of tells, he is testing your patience really, if your the type of woman he can deal with

Libras want someone to understand them, because they have a hard time understanding themselves, play the friend cad, and watch how he relates to u, yes u have emotions, that's good, but how do u deal with it is what libras gotta know, because the have a habbit of doing stupid stuff, so it's like will that person call me on my bs,mor let it slide, but it's all about doing it without dumping all the emotions on them

Think like this, if u do something wrong, u have the option to understand why they did it, or make them feel bad, it's up to u
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He's going to comeback I promise u that, why , because yes he has pretty words, but he also has a lot of tells, he is testing your patience really, if your the type of woman he can deal with

Libras want someone to understand them, because they have a hard time understanding themselves, play the friend cad, and watch how he relates to u, yes u have emotions, that's good, but how do u deal with it is what libras gotta know, because the have a habbit of doing stupid stuff, so it's like will that person call me on my bs,mor let it slide, but it's all about doing it without dumping all the emotions on them

Think like this, if u do something wrong, u have the option to understand why they did it, or make them feel bad, it's up to u


That's actually really understandable thanks for making that clear.

Yeah because his ex was kind of manipulative and controlling towards him so he is probably seeing if I'm going to be like that.
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He's going to comeback I promise u that, why , because yes he has pretty words, but he also has a lot of tells, he is testing your patience really, if your the type of woman he can deal with

Libras want someone to understand them, because they have a hard time understanding themselves, play the friend cad, and watch how he relates to u, yes u have emotions, that's good, but how do u deal with it is what libras gotta know, because the have a habbit of doing stupid stuff, so it's like will that person call me on my bs,mor let it slide, but it's all about doing it without dumping all the emotions on them

Think like this, if u do something wrong, u have the option to understand why they did it, or make them feel bad, it's up to u


That's actually really understandable thanks for making that clear.

Yeah because his ex was kind of manipulative and controlling towards him so he is probably seeing if I'm going to be like that.
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Exactly,

Libras are not straight forward but they do put u through a situation to see if u can deal with them as well as yourself, it's a bit werid how they do it, but hey that's a libra for ya, they only play games if u do it first to try to control them, because libras a very fun people, and very young at heart, almost toy like.

But they also have to balance themselves, and that can be a bit selfish how they do it, but that's who they feel comfortable.
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My libra is like that

But he balances himself around me more than away from me

He drives me crazy and I drive him crazy, but it takes a lot of understanding and a whole lot of patience to deal with a libra

Taking things seriously is not their strong suit unless it's work related, those scales will til a lot, it may even piss u off, but that's why i say have u some fun until he gets himself together

Libras are very easy to love once u try to understand them, it's just trying to help them center themselves takes patience love and understanding,

He already is familiar with u, but he really doesn't know u, the person inside
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He's going to comeback I promise u that, why , because yes he has pretty words, but he also has a lot of tells, he is testing your patience really, if your the type of woman he can deal with

Libras want someone to understand them, because they have a hard time understanding themselves, play the friend cad, and watch how he relates to u, yes u have emotions, that's good, but how do u deal with it is what libras gotta know, because the have a habbit of doing stupid stuff, so it's like will that person call me on my bs,mor let it slide, but it's all about doing it without dumping all the emotions on them

Think like this, if u do something wrong, u have the option to understand why they did it, or make them feel bad, it's up to u


That's actually really understandable thanks for making that clear.

Yeah because his ex was kind of manipulative and controlling towards him so he is probably seeing if I'm going to be like that.





Exactly,

Libras are not straight forward but they do put u through a situation to see if u can deal with them as well as yourself, it's a bit werid how they do it, but hey that's a libra for ya, they only play games if u do it first to try to control them, because libras a very fun people, and very young at heart, almost toy like.

But they also have to balance themselves, and that can be a bit selfish how they do it, but that's who they feel comfortable.
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So far I haven't really done a lot of stupid things, but I do worry a lot and I do care a lot and I know he can see that. That's just how I am and I do try to control my emotions or else I wouldn't even get up every day to go to school, hangout with friends, and do simple things like brushing my teeth.

We Aquarius do care a lot about people that enter our life but we tend to hold that stuff back because we pick and choose our battles. There has been two times when I had word vomits, but I retracted and explain myself so he understood. I know I don't control or manipulate him like his ex because I don't try to get him to talk to me. In fact he says that he lies me because I treat him like a person and I don't walk all over him.
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O understand, but I mean libras do stupid things, sometimes like they don't mean to but they are use to doing it, I'm not gonna lie to u, when my libra dies something stupid I get on him, but that's because I'm his girlfriend, but has his friend at the time, I didn't care, unless I was in his face telling him how that was not acceptable, texting is only good at quick info

Serious convo, should be done in person

But to deal with a libra takes a whole lot a patience, and no games

Straight forward works best with libras, otherwise ur going to confuse them, and they might take it as a game and that ur not serious, they ur put in the famous libra cycle, very bad sign
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Just have some fun with this libra

Enjoy each other, keep it light, he wants to get to know u, but is afraid to, most libras are not that busy,mtrust me, they just keep themselves busy to stay balanced

Hell unless he's president of the country he's in, or has like 8 kids with eight women, or in jail, or focused in college, he is not that damn busy


He is just trying to relax his scales, and figure out what he wants to do, and since he is confused, he wants to start slow as friends, so he doesn't make a mistake

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O understand, but I mean libras do stupid things, sometimes like they don't mean to but they are use to doing it, I'm not gonna lie to u, when my libra dies something stupid I get on him, but that's because I'm his girlfriend, but has his friend at the time, I didn't care, unless I was in his face telling him how that was not acceptable, texting is only good at quick info

Serious convo, should be done in person

But to deal with a libra takes a whole lot a patience, and no games

Straight forward works best with libras, otherwise ur going to confuse them, and they might take it as a game and that ur not serious, they ur put in the famous libra cycle, very bad sign



Yeah and I really don't want to be put into that. 😆
If it does go that way I rather be friends and not put up with that, but so far he has only did the disappearing act on me once. Plus in that case he said he thought he text me back, but the message was sent to his draft box. Since he thought he texted me back, he thought I didn't want to put up with him and that I was ignoring him. But in reality I never got the text and thought he was ignoring me, so that disappearing act was a misunderstanding on both ends. Which shows why as soon as school started back up why he tried to see if I was mad at him. When he saw that I was happy to see him again, we started talking back up that is when he noticed he never sent the message. Crazy huh?
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I love it,

I think your going to be just fine

No worries, but if u need some advice on libra men, I have a libra boyfriend and I'm a Taurus so, I'm pretty sure I know what I'm talking about, but o boy, what an experience it was, I went into the cycle once, but that never happened again

I just love my libra man, but when he trys to turn into Usher, I clock him good, lmfao
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I love it,

I think your going to be just fine

No worries, but if u need some advice on libra men, I have a libra boyfriend and I'm a Taurus so, I'm pretty sure I know what I'm talking about, but o boy, what an experience it was, I went into the cycle once, but that never happened again

I just love my libra man, but when he trys to turn into Usher, I clock him good, lmfao



Oh my I loved that last sentence! 😆
Okay I will try to keep contact with you and update you anything that is new between me and him.