Leo man gone—

Hey everybody.
So everything was good between me and my leo until saturday night. I called him at night and he didnt answer.. His phone was closed all day yesterday. And I have called a couple of times today. and send to text messages - no answer. He did pick up just one time, and said "I dont wanna talk to anyone", I asked if it had anything to do with me and why he hasnt called me back. he said "No its not you, i dont wanna talk to anyone, ill call you when Im ready, stop calling me" .. It really worries me...

Is this a normal leo thing??

we were all good, and didnt have any problems, not even a discussion, i dont understand 😢

hope to get some answers..... thank u

btw.. after he hung up, i texted him.. "I know u dont wanna talk to anyone, but if you feel like it, I will listen to you"

His chart is:

Rising sign: libra
Sun: Leo
Moon: Aqua
Mercury: virgo
Venus: virgo
Mars: Leo
Jupiter: saggitarius
Saturn: libra
Uranus: saggitarius
Neptune: saggitarius
Pluto: libra

It's a GUY thing.. and really, he doesn't WANT or NEED your "help" sorting out whatever he's got going on right now that's making him not want to talk to anyone. He doesn't want to talk about it, he doesn't want your assistance, and he DOESN'T need you flipping your shit right now. MEN get like this. Call it going into his cave or whatever you want.. he's got a bunch on his plate right now, and needs to sort it out (HIMSELF, thankyouverymuch) and will NOT appreciate your repeated attempts to "help" him with this.. that feels very emasculating.

If things have been good, why are you assuming it has anything to do with you? He said it wasn't personal, so why you keep taking it personally? And doesn't it make you feel more and more crappy to keep calling and texting and not getting the response you want? So stop. Go out and live your life.. it'll all come out in the wash eventually, good or bad.. but in the meantime, stop doing things that make YOU feel worse.. like continuing to contact him when he's already said he needs alone time. It's just crazy to keep making yourself feel bad.

The BEST way to "help" a man sort through his crap.. is to LET HIM DO IT HIMSELF. And if you can ALSO manage a few days to give him the time and space to do so WITHOUT freaking out or adding more crap to his already full plate, or making emotional demands on him (YOUR emotional balance is YOUR job, NOT HIS!).. he'll REALLY appreciate it. Like whoa.

So get busy in YOUR OWN life... let him do his thing, you do yours. He'll be back around when he gets his shit straight.

Might want to read a very informative thread on the second page: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/how-do-libra-men-deal-with-their-emotions-best-3170166/>Here.</a><BR> It was about a Libra guy needing time and space to sort some stuff out.. but applies to men in general.

You are absolutely right ... I know that. The thing is, I have been in a lot of bad relationships, and got some trust issues. Not that he has done anything, but I immediately assume that it has something to do with me, and that he has found another bla bla bla..... yeah I know its crazy.. and Im not gonna call him again or text him. I sent the last text just so he knows, that If he wants to talk, he can talk to me. thats all.
Thank you for youre respond Nefer.....

P.S. --- Umm.. stop letting your Scorp Merc run you by making you paranoid and obsessive and imagining every negative, terrible possibility and scenario. Seriously, just let it go for a few days.

I didnt knew that was why im like this... my girlfriends always tells me that Im paranoid and stuff like that, didnt knew that it had something with mercury to do..
yeah u are right, Im just gonna give him he's space...

Yeah, Scorp Merc can be a tough placement.. esp on a girl with all that happy go lucky Libra and Sag... when your MIND (the Mercury) gets going, it turns you into the opposite.. you become this needy, negative, obsessing woman who just can't seem to stop herself from thinking/imagining every worst possible scenario. Scorp Mercs usually have "trust issues".. cuz they're always imagining the worst, even when there's no proof of anything, even when the other person hasn't really done anything WRONG per se.. and esp when the other person suddenly needs "space" for whatever reason. Scorp Mercs don't trust easily -- and they "lose" the trust a whole lot easier than they build it... cuz they're a little bit trapped in the funhouse nightmare that is their negative Scorp Merc mind!

I know it's easier said than done for a FIXED, NEGATIVE Scorp Merc.. but you neeeeeeed to let this go for a few days, you neeeeeed to not lose your shit right now. Go do something that makes you HAPPY.. cuz if you can't find anything to make you happy that DOESN'T involve some guy paying attention to you and soothing your emotional freak out.. then you've got bigger problems than just a Scorp merc :c

I'm just surprised to hear about someone other than a libra just vanishing with no apparent reason

He called me the Day After... and yeah something happened to a family member and he was upset... I guess it was me just being paranoid. As a libra i like my man to say sweet things to me- his Venus is in virgo and I have Read somewhere, that he Would rather show his love than say it. And Thats cool....Im just a h.o for attention from my man and when i dont get it, i kind of get a little b ! T c h y , lol