Letting GO of the SCALES...

This is NOT really a post for advice more so support. I've read post after post and wish I had read them earlier. I am a Gemini (f) who fell HARD for a Libra (m). Taking things day by day as I start to RE-focus on me. Had to STOP answering his text, calls etc. Its only been a few days, but not my first attempt. However with every attempt its gotten easier and easier to back a way (from the cloudy haze).

cancerpersonality

@cancerpersonality

12 Years

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I know what you mean.. I wish I would have read these posts ahead of time too.. I been taking things day by day as well and focusing on me. I feel relieved even though It's only baby steps I'm taking (: I'm detaching slowly

Prettybrwneyes

@Prettybrwneyes

13 Years

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Good for you.. and I don't suggest you see him till your ready either! I think that DELAYS the process.. They or should I say mine used to have a way with words. Will have you walking away from a fight not really know why you were arguing. LOL!!

LibraSid

@LibraSid

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Yeah fuck them guys. I read all the posts here too and they all go like this:

Libra men are jerks anyway. They can never make a decision and they play hot and cold games. They shouldn't even be allowed to date other people cause they only care about themselves. And why are they still so charming even though I know they are full of shit? We text all the time, then I called him an asshole and he ignored me for five days, why he playing hard to get? I don't need him anyway but I love him so much. I think I'll fuck him next time we're together he'll love me more then. After I broke up with him twice he acts all weird now and seems distant. He is so nice and sweet when we are together but he is too flirty with everyone else. He says it is just talking but I saw them smile while they were talking. How do I know if I can trust him? I am too good for this I won't call him anymore. He texted and I miss him so much so I went over.

And you all say we are confusing...

Prettybrwneyes

@Prettybrwneyes

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Posted by LibraSid
Yeah fuck them guys. I read all the posts here too and they all go like this:

Libra men are jerks anyway. They can never make a decision and they play hot and cold games. They shouldn't even be allowed to date other people cause they only care about themselves. And why are they still so charming even though I know they are full of shit? We text all the time, then I called him an asshole and he ignored me for five days, why he playing hard to get? I don't need him anyway but I love him so much. I think I'll fuck him next time we're together he'll love me more then. After I broke up with him twice he acts all weird now and seems distant. He is so nice and sweet when we are together but he is too flirty with everyone else. He says it is just talking but I saw them smile while they were talking. How do I know if I can trust him? I am too good for this I won't call him anymore. He texted and I miss him so much so I went over.

And you all say we are confusing...

@LibraSid I respect that answer which is why I decided to send mine a clear message! Took a few attempts but with each one if made the process better. I'm a gemini and I over-analyze so in/out stuff drove me to the point of no return. But since we're both AIR signs in a way I could understand some of the things he would do. So we spend a majority of the time mirroring one another.

libragemmale

@libragemmale

14 Years

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I agree with Sid, Libra men STINK ! You ladies need to go bore yourselves to death with a Cappy or Virgo 😛

LibraSid

@LibraSid

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an attitude lately but the stupid comments are driving me batty.

Posted by StillWater
^ Listen... if anyone is boring it's Libra's and their lack of backbone. It's boring to deal with someone who can't even passionately defend their stance. Caps have their sexy mystery and dominant ways, and can probably outdo a flapping tongue Libra any day. Caps are SERIOUS...SERIOUS ABOUT PARTYING!

I'm a proud Cap and only reason i'm on the Libra Board is bcz I'm trying to learn about my Libra Moon...

Just saying...it's Cap Season so check yaself before you wreck yaself! lol

Posted by StillWater
It's boring to deal with someone who can't even passionately defend their stance.

Posted by StillWater
Caps are SERIOUS...SERIOUS ABOUT PARTYING!
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It is also incredibly frustrating to deal with a person who wont grow up even if they are passionate about their childish ways. You know what else sucks? Someone who thinks the solution to boredom is drama. Libras don't lack backbone we just dont care enough about what you are saying to argue with you. Bring up something that matters and I bet those Libras would get passionate about it.

I dont know you and this may not be directed at you but it is another common theme on the Libra board. I am not bored, I am at peace. If you find peaceful surroundings boring perhaps you are a drama queen. Why does there have to be constant arguing in a relationship? Yes, if you are being a bitch I'll let you know but that doesn't mean you have free reign to do it all the time. Are you a two year old? I'll act right and if you do too there really doesnt have to be passionate arguing... at least not often. Maybe you should alleviate your boredom by taking a walk through the park together instead of bickering. It's free, it's good for you, and no one leaves with a bad attitude.

rockyroadicecream

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Posted by StillWater
^ Listen... if anyone is boring it's Libra's and their lack of backbone. It's boring to deal with someone who can't even passionately defend their stance. Caps have their sexy mystery and dominant ways, and can probably outdo a flapping tongue Libra any day. Caps are SERIOUS...SERIOUS ABOUT PARTYING!

I'm a proud Cap and only reason i'm on the Libra Board is bcz I'm trying to learn about my Libra Moon...

Just saying...it's Cap Season so check yaself before you wreck yaself! lol

Honey, you really shouldn't be touting how "wonderful" Caps are. They can be just as much of a pain in the ass as Libras.

Only people with issues feel the need to focus on something as menial as partying all the time.

Libras can be very passive, but when they choose to be, they can be incredibly stubborn and here comes that backbone that you claim that they don't have. They have better things to do than, oh, say, think that they're always right, which is something your lot tends to do, justified or not. NOT a cute trait, btw.

You're here to learn about Libras? Then sit back and stfu because what you just claimed screams ignorance. You have some more learning to do.

I'd rather have a progressive Libra than some outdated 1950s mindset Cap any day.

libragemmale

@libragemmale

14 Years

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Posted by StillWater
^ Listen... if anyone is boring it's Libra's and their lack of backbone. It's boring to deal with someone who can't even passionately defend their stance. Caps have their sexy mystery and dominant ways, and can probably outdo a flapping tongue Libra any day. Caps are SERIOUS...SERIOUS ABOUT PARTYING!

I'm a proud Cap and only reason i'm on the Libra Board is bcz I'm trying to learn about my Libra Moon...

Just saying...it's Cap Season so check yaself before you wreck yaself! lol

What I said was a light-hearted joke but I have obviously struck a nerve. Perhaps you could embrace your Libra Moon and take a chill pill, life's too short.

beautifulsoul74

@beautifulsoul74

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@ LibraSid: your first post was funny as hell and I've been through it and I'm not even a Libra.

Libras are spineless. Sag men are commitment phones....yada yada blah blah. When are people gonna stop griping about signs when all of us are capable of bad behavior? Point being, conquer yourself and nobody else.