libra

libra man telling me, he knew me sooo well and that the thought of me made him smile... is a positive thing to say ....?

i hope you get the an answer to this. at this point and after going through these posts concerning libra men, i am exasperated. mine did the pulling back thing, that is mentioned here, when things started to get emotional. he was constantly asking me what i like about him and for constant reassurance on my sentiments of him and desire for him. this was a constant thing. plus, he thinks i have other men wanting me. i just don't know how to get through to him anymore or how to prove to him that he is the only one i want and there are no others. he makes quips here and there about my loyalty to him. i was hurt by the pulling back thing now i see it as a time to relax. i don't care if he flirts, it just shows me how insecure he is. we haven't had sex bc i believing in waiting till there is a certain level of commitment. his chart is full of sag, virgo, leo. i have more libra in my chart than he does so i can relate to some of his behaviors. i tend to avoid confrontations at all cost and do relish my alone time but i need to be partnered. i had our chart done and we are perfect for each other but i don't like this constant questioning on my intentions with him.

he isn't my first libra... had a hell of a passionate rollercoaster ride with my first. the more i tried to escape that first libras clutches the harded he wanted to make me stay with him. that other guys was a mess. i didn't want to become his third wife, plus he drinks and all women wanted him. now he is finally settled, married for a third time and a new baby with this new wife with another on the way.

Same thing here eagwsinggirl..The libra I use to date always questioned other men wanting me..When he was up here the other day, we were talking about the bars up here and he said "oh is it like, i've been with u, and u and u..Insinuating that because we live in a small town we have all slept with each other..I confronted him and said so u think I'm a slut, he said no that's not what I think, so I said why say things like that then..

He brought up my ex-boyfriend numerous times in a joking manner, but still..

They are very insecure..and constantly need their ego boosted..

Mira

Take it with a grain of salt until U see his real intentions..My libra told me in the beginning that I was his mirror, that he could see spending his life with me and that he would marry me in a years time..He use to whisper that he loved me, so I could barley hear, and have to question and wonder if he really did say it..He asked me in the middle of sex to have his baby and be his family and then told me the next day that he was caught up in the moment...

I thought he really did care about me, but he didn't..Last year was quite possibly the worst and saddest year of my life..I have never been so sad or missed someone so much..

But the point i am trying to make is that they say things they sometimes don't mean, probably not on purpose, but it still hurts..

Just this week he was up and told me i'm like the sister he never had!!! Quite different from his original feelings..

actually myself asking if it was meant positive.. is just because i think, him saying he knew me so well... gives me the feeling that he knows exactly what i think or feel about him.. and that i am too predictable for him.. and that he knows exactly what to say or do...or what i wanna hear... so i am no challenge to him.. and he can take me for granted... no need for major efforts on his side, as he knows i am there always anyway.. no matter if he's nice or not..

I get that feeling from libra too..I know exactly what u mean..