Libra/Aqua

Hi guys..the Aqua ive known for a while now has recently moved back to Phoenix and has said today that he misses me and would like us to arrange a trip for me to go there and visit him. Now, i am keen, but what would you do? I know he probably genuinely misses me, but is he asking too much of me? I have friend who would like to join me, as she has family there. I just dont know..typical Libra!!

What do you want?

Well, since i asked 'what would would you do'..advice might seem like the obvious thing I want??

No. I meant what do you want with regards to him.

What I would do is very much dependant on what I wanted. It also depends on many details like is he moving home soon, how far away you are, etc.

Sorry Sparrow..i obviously didnt get you! I just want to take advantage of the offer, but i just cant help but feel that something's not right. I live in Glasgow (uk) and he has just moved to Phoenix (usa). Its a long distance, and i would love to see him again. You see, the situation is that we had a holiday romance that's never ended!! Does this help? I can email you in depth if you want? Sorry for being curt with you there. Also he is aqua, i am libra.

Sure send me the details!

what do you mean by holiday romance that never ended? Have you both always been in a long distance relationship?

I find aqua-men a little sadistic. I got tangled up with one when I was young. Not pretty. (and yes I know it was that aqua man not ALL aqua men.)

And no worries. In this medium, it is sometimes hard to hear the tone implied. 🙂

BTW one thing I have learned is if it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't right.

The Aqua I dated is very very confusing...so good luck with that!

I think when they love you or like they truly show that...but when problems come they get so scared are unsure of so many things...

If you are coming to see him and just have a good time, then you'll have a great one. They are fun...and if you do develop a relationship, they are defenitely up for long-distance...at least the ones I know...but once you are in a relationship with them...come back here because you'll have lots of questions...lol...is a bit more complicated.

Who knows though, I think age, timing, and other factors could make a relationship with an Aqua work.

I wish you the best,

VLL

VLL, im not so sure that he loves me but we do have a good time together! He sent me a sweet little e-card the other day..he's a closet romantic it seems!! Yeah..the long-distance thing is fine for me too, but i do miss him a lot. I just dont tell him that in case he gets scared off. Hell, what a mess!! He is 30, i am 24 x x

Interesting - been a while since I've been on the board but I have a somewhat similiar situation. An old HS friend and I hung out a lot together, though we were never officially romantic, it proved to be tough when she moved away (she's a Cappy, not a libra)

In fact, she has told me twice (by email) that she misses me. HA - I admit I didn't know how to take it. 🙂

Are there various ways to interpret I miss you?

MEN..'I miss you'..i need sex
WOMEN..'I miss you'..i really miss everything about you, in a considerate, romantic, friendly way.

Men suck!! Esp Virgo, Cancer and Aquarius ones.

Only the good ones suck well. 😉

In all seriousness, Aqua guys are sadistic and cruel. I have heard that report from a lot women.

Virgos can be okay. They have wonderful manners and know how to treat a woman they like. I know nothing about cancers.

Aaahhhaaa! I like that LS 😛

Hey Hey Hey

Whats up with the aqua bashing. We're both air sides here, we supposed be HERE (see eye-to-eye) damn it.

Anyway goodluck...i'd take the offer.
You get to travel and visit a place you've never been. Thats great to me, even if it doesnt work out.

I LOVE aqua women. Aqua women totally rock. Some of my longest friendships are with Aqua women and I totally adore them.

Aqua men, however, are a bit fucked in the head. I am not kidding.

(I have had some wine hense every post must have I am not kidding in it. That is the rule. lol)

I also apparently say totally a lot when I am tipsy. hee!

I love wine, especially the red variety! Aqua men are bad, bad, bad. So bad they are good..damnit!