Libra Female/Capricorn Male

Hello,

I happen to be a typical Cap guy, I mean conservative, ambitious and all that that we are told by the Zodiac gurus. I also happen to be .....married. Recently....Actually for the last year or so I have been involved with the most fascinating girl who is Libra. This happens to be one relationship that goes against what is in the books. We are fascinated by each other. We can spend time talking and fooling around. When I am around her there is an overwhelming feeling of comfort that envelopes me.
Probably it is because she works in another town and I get to see her once every month when I do my rounds. When I think about it this could be the glue that sticks us together...distance!!! As they say absence makes the heart fonder. Familiarity breeds contempt.
Willing to share info on this

Hello!

You mentioned that you were married, and you see this Libra girl on your rounds once a month. Once you decided to marry that made other women absolete to you. Its a shame but its the truth so just leave things be. There is no room here for consideration.

I am Libra .I am indeed fascinated by a Cap..He is married .My feelings for him have never undercut the respect I have for his family .Since I met him ,I have never been happier .He is great, with very little demands. I do not expect for him to disregard his family, just because I suddenly fell on his line of life .I believe everyone has someone with whom they connect . Regardless of age and status ....all this is just part of a some work we cannot interfere with-I feel we could be the best of friends if we knew how how well to handle the situation.This requires the both of us .We need to know how to handle anything that is getting out of hand.Tell me I am not wrong.

To the Happy Libra Lady,

I just felt that I have to put things in the correct perspective. Yes I am a CAP and my relationship with the fascinating Libra Lady is one of extreme fondness...not an affair. I guess it is best to leave things as they are,very good friends.

Thanks, Paul

Don't even think about evolving as more than friends Paul. You'll be sorry.
Chances are, you'll have a much better relationship with your now wife than if you were to get heavt with the Libra girl.

Honestly I am not a true believer in "Zodiac Profiling", as has been suggested in this forum(Website) by so many contributers. This in itself limits the otherwise boundless beauty in humanity to associate with those who you feel for. The freedom to choose with whom to mate, be friends with, work with...etc is challenged by a host of contributers who have a deep belief in what is engraved in Zodiac profiles.

Thanks, Paul

Your right there are a lot of contributors besides the zodiac profiles but there are also alot of consistency with characteristics and traits of certain signs. If it was not so then astrology would not have been followed by so many for so long. My question to you is that you are married and you say it is just a friendly relationship, yet I got the impression you were thinking of proceeding to the next level. I hope before you ever decide to do that you would respect your partner and allow them the same freedom of having male friends which they feel attracted too. Then maybe you would feel what it is like when your lifes partner desires or is desired by another. It is amazing when you walk in someone elses shoes. As for the zodiac my expiernce as a Libra who has loved a Capricorn never ever in a million years would I go there again.
But thats just my opinion.

Hmmmm "Next Level" I wonder what you mean? If you do mean closer friendship then - Yes. I also don't intend to leave my wife or break my relationship with her, there is to much at stake. I actually truely love my wife and children. Is a married man allowed to have female very good friends?

Thanks, Paul

Hey there! You are talking about me.Are you saying that I cannot relate because I cannot tell the difference between right and wrong .I have a sense of responsibility to society and every thing that has to do with it .I respect his family and never want to do anything that is that would undercut the respect I have for him.I know I would have alot more to lose if I did so.Please do not condemn me for what I have not done.

Hey Paul! Does your wife know about your friendship with this "wonderful" Libra woman? I bet she doesn't!

My wife does not know of my friendship with the wonderful Libra lady - Indeed she does not know of all my friendships. I also do not know of all her friendships. I think there is a difference between a friendship and an affair.

Oh yes !-There is a difference between an affair and friendship .Is that what yours is -?Do you have no sexual feelings for her ?-I believe too that you can make whatever it is that you choose to have .Well no one but you two know what is going on .But I am pretty sure that the girl you are involved with knows that this cannot last forever .She cannot have you.But you can never know much about love -it could evolve to be the best feeling that you ever had .I strongly believe that love does not ask much and she might just be content with what life has to offer; to be more specific what you have to offer .I wish you luck and know that she too needs someone to go back home to.

I am the Libra girl and I think someone has told me what I should consider .I am just going to depress myself if I let this move to the next level. The bitter truth is that this cannot last forever . It would lie heavy in my conscience if I let his family down.I am not that kind of person .Again I would not want this kind of thing to happen to my family.Well I cannot deny that this guy is indeed great and he could be one of the best things that ever happened to me . I am indeed fortunate not to have had any sexual re/ship with him .It would probably be the most difficult hurt to go through .I really like him and I hope that he likes me too even though this were to come to an end ;Even though no future is held between us.Well,I guess life is like that-you just cannot have everything .A little hurt is felt ........c'est la vie.

What do you say to people who blow their own horn about being socially correct and then they do what they preach and that they proclaim to be against.I am the Libra who had been forewarned about gatting sexually involved with a Cap.Well it happened.
It is damn confusing .....I wonder if he feels different about me now.