Libra friends - advice with a cancer guy

I have been seeing this male cancer for about three months now. We live in different states so we are not "exclusive." I am a very social libra. He is your typical cancer. I was in a hurry to make love to him because of the short time we had together so we made love on the first day we spent together. He said he felt like he had known me for a month after the first day. The problem is - every time we are intimate he mentions other men - "well maybe you won't have an orgasm with me but you'll have it with someone else" or "why do you sleep with men that are so selfish" or anything along the lines of me and another man being intimate. I got so upset with him once I told him the men I sleep with last longer than five minutes.. and he got angry and said he does not disrespect me by mentioning being intimate with other women. What does this mean? Is this a guy thing?

ive noticed that outside from air signs and fire signs, libra is getting with cancers and taurus's..intersting..lol ok mabye im just confused o_O;

I guess I am different in my thinking than you are.
What is the point of your relationship? If it is it just sex, I don't get it. Just friendship, I understand....

Yes, Cancer males are sensitive and you make him feel vulnerable. He worries that he will fall for you and you won't give a s***...after all, he knows he is not the only one...

the cancers iv come into contact with a very sensitive and they will usually share there feelings in a joking way instead of coming stright out and saying it. But they also know how to push your buttons and sometimes do it on purpose.

I am a Libra Female and i am seeing a Cancer Male....I have many many offers from many many men to engage in sex in the city; but, I have no desire to be with anyone other than who I am seeing because the BEST sexual experiences I've had have been when I know we are intimate with jsut each other. I can't speak for all women or all men for that matter; but, when you really get to know someone you can really develop a terrific sex life with that person.

I was married to a Cancer male for 14 years. He always talked about the women he had been with. I never met them but felt I knew as much about them as he did.
Our social life had to stay within the boundaries of his family. He was one of ten children so it wasn't too bad, but being a social Libra I would feel tied down at times.
That's strange too, because before we were married he was very social.

I am a cancer female - my interpretation is that as a cancer, we like a little exclusivity, feeling safe & needed are among the high priority list. And sometimes with Librans getting so much social attention, it's hard not to point out that you Librans have a higher social status that cancerians can ever perceive to attain. I guess we get jealous, it's not a boad thing, it DOES mean we care strongly about u librans, and if u guys sometimes feel "tied down" it's because we are afraid of losing the one great person in our life that is sweet, talkative, intelligent, social, witty, and most sensitive loving soul on the planet. I read it as cancerians wanting to attain exclusivity, but maybe others may see it differently. P.S. Being such an emotional sign, at times it's hard not to trip over personal sensititivy, especially when relationships are placed and valued very highly in the cancerian world....
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CANCER'S DO THAT JUST AS A GAME , A GAME TO HEAR YOUR RESPONSE SO THEY PRETTY MUCH CAN HANDLE YOU BASED ON YOUR REACTIONS, I'M SURPRISED HE IS NOT OVER CONSUMED WITH HIS WORK AND NOT WANTING TO SETTLE DOWN

CANCER'S DO THAT JUST AS A GAME , A GAME TO HEAR YOUR RESPONSE SO THEY PRETTY MUCH CAN HANDLE YOU BASED ON YOUR REACTIONS, I'M SURPRISED HE IS NOT OVER CONSUMED WITH HIS WORK AND NOT WANTING TO SETTLE DOWN BECAUSE HE IS SO BUSY , YOU WILL FIND EVENTUALLY THAT WHAT YOU WANT HE PROBALY DOESN'T AND YOU WILL JUST BE PUTTING YOUR LIFE ON HOLD IF YOU CHOOSE TO TAKE HIM SERIOUSLY

LIFE IS ABOUT DIVERSIONS, BUT WHERE LOVE OR RELATIONSHIPS ARE CONCERNED - CANCERS DO NOT PLAY GAMES. EVER HEARD OF THE WORDS MUTUAL TRUST & RESPECT— ANYTHING IN LIFE THAT IS DEEP SHOULD NOT BE GLANCED OVER SUPERFICIALLY, IT ONLY HURTS EVERYONE INVOLVED...

Cancer and Libra oh man what a combination enjoy the emotional issues but it will be worth the while .......you will fall madly in love with this person once they open up to you

LIBRA AND GEMINI


There are some similarities between you, and also some significant differences in your temperaments and needs.

Both of you are thoughtful, considerate, sensitive to, and aware of, other people's needs. Having good personal relationships is very important to both of you, and you make harmony and pace in your personal lives a very high priority. You both avoid conflict and confrontation if at all possible.

The differences are thus: Libra is more objective, rational, and fair compared to Cancer, who is subjective, emotional, and biased by personal sympathies and loyalties. Though seemingly sympathetic, Libra can be surprisingly cool and intellectual when problems arise between the two of you. Cancer responds very personally and emotionally. Libra needs more communication and conversation than Cancer seems to.

Also, Libra wants to relate as an equal and a peer, while Cancer wants to mother or be mothered by a partner. So Cancer is more comfortable with becoming emotionally or financially dependent on a partner (or having the partner dependent in that way), while Libra wants a more egalitarian relationship. These differences can cause misunderstandings between you, but rarely are they a source of major conflict.

Both of you try very hard to please and accommodate people, especially your love partner, and you are both very sensitive to others' approval and opinion of you. Because harmony in your personal life is so important to both of you, you go out of your way to try and make one another comfortable and at ease. Both of you, in fact, feel very threatened by interpersonal conflict and you sometimes avoid confronting the more thorny problems or underlying differences in your emotional natures, however.

Cancer wants and needs security, reassurance, a home, a sense of belonging, close family ties. Cancer needs to be needed, is inclined to smother loved ones, and may be more of a mother or father than lover to Libra. Libra, on the other hand, wants a romantic partners more than a parent. So differences may arise regarding loyalties to family (Cancer) versus giving time and attention to the two of you as a couple (Libra).

Also, Cancer is often more emotional and "irrational" than Libra, who is usually more even, cool-headed, and reasonable than Cancer is.

You are inclined to become very annoyed with each other over minor differences. Irritations over small differences of opinion and a tendency to be inconsiderate towards each other can make you both feel uncomfortable. These annoyances are not likely to lead to major upsets or seriously threaten the stability of your relationship, but they are a nuisance. You must learn to respect the differences in your temperaments and personal habits, and strive to be aware of each other's needs.

You enjoy going out together and you will develop a love for the same friends, groups, and social activities. As a couple, you are outgoing and friendly, and will meet lots of new people and share many new experiences together.

You may join clubs and associations or spend many leisure hours at your favourite haunt. Catching up with others, brings a lot of meaning and satisfaction to you both. Lots of social exchange, chit-chat, gossip and fun times are your cup-of-tea.

Circumstances develop so that the two of you become very active together in community affairs, socialising, or political/social action. Together the two of you explore many social circles and develop a wide variety of friends and acquaintances.

The romantic and sexual attraction between you is almost irresistible. This relationship is one that was probably "more than just friends" from the start. The intensity of your feelings f

I'm a cancer female. I think he just needs reassurance that you are with him and him only. It's a security issue. Assure him that he is the only one and that problem should soon go away.